Adam Nisenson and Dr. Rob continue their conversation about betrayed men. They share the worst advice a betrayed man can hear, how to determine if reconciliation is the right next step, and the reality that being cheated on does not justify cheating. Adam shares resources, including The ManKind Project, that have helped him through his own healing and how to engage men who have no interest in therapy.

TAKEAWAYS:

[1:44] Reconciling is possible, but not always preferred.

[3:40] Therapy for the men who have no interest in therapy.

[7:20] 12-Step programs for betrayed men.

[9:55] She cheated, should I have sex with someone else?

[11:45] The worst advice a betrayed man can hear.

[14:51] Determining if reconciliation is the right next step.

[17:36] My needs aren’t being met. Does that justify cheating?

[19:39] The ManKind Project.

[24:02] Does age affect a man’s ability to heal from betrayal?

RESOURCES:

Sex and Relationship Healing

@RobWeissMSW

Sex Addiction 101

Seeking Integrity

Free Sexual Addiction Screening Assessment

Partner Sexuality Survey

Adam Nisenson

Seeking Integrity Podcasts are produced in partnership with Podfly Productions.

QUOTES:

• “She might have done this to you, but it’s also happening to you. What do you want to do about it?”
• “If you need help, ask for help!”
• “Even if your partner cheated on you, that doesn’t give you permission to cheat.”