Discovering the "third option" for families caring for loved ones with disabilities or dementia—this conversation with Jenny Langness reveals how ElderHaus Adult Day Program fills a critical gap in care services. Breaking the false dichotomy between exhausting round-the-clock home care and full residential facilities, ElderHaus offers weekday programming that benefits both caregivers and participants in profound ways.

Jenny shares a surprising insight that transforms how we should view adult day programs: the structured activities at ElderHaus actually slow disease progression for conditions like dementia through consistent physical activity and mental stimulation. This makes their services not just about providing respite (though that's invaluable) but actively improving health outcomes and quality of life for participants.

Perhaps most compelling is Jenny's personal connection to the work. After experiencing a severe kidney condition that left her unable to work for three years, she gained firsthand understanding of living with an "invisible disability." This experience cultivated deep empathy and taught her to better observe, understand, and communicate with those who process the world differently—skills she brings to her leadership at ElderHaus every day.

Despite serving the community for 45 years, misconceptions about ElderHaus persist. As Jenny clarifies with a laugh, "We're not just for elders, and we're not a house that anybody lives in." The program welcomes adults 18+ with various disabilities, creating a vibrant community where people find belonging, purpose, and joy. If you know someone caring for an adult with disabilities or cognitive challenges, sharing this resource could be the most meaningful thing you do today. Visit https://elderhaus.org/ to learn more or schedule a tour to see their work in action.