Did you know that divorce is not failure? It's success! We'll tell you why. It's movement, it's growth, it's evolution. All relationships are an opportunity to learn. They don't need to be for life. What a concept, right? Some relationships are lessons. It's just a fact. This episode is a full-on kitchen table conversation with a dear friend of Annalisa's - Stephanie Bishop, about divorce, parenting and what it means to just put yourself first!

Moments:

2:50 Aubrey Marcus Podcast #210 Luke Storey on Releasing Celibacy and Sobriety

4:20  You are exactly where you need to be.

5:00  Time heals all wounds.

6:20  Quitting is not failure.

7:05 It takes more to leave. 

8:01 Success is tied to duration.

9:10  There is no plateau of happiness.

12:50 Guilt is the thing that will make you feel like a failure.

14:30 The hardest thing you will do in life is get up in the morning.

19:00 See it for what it is; detach.

19:30 Show your kids the emotional intelligence you want them to take into adulthood.

21:00 Advice for parental alienation.

22:50 Five minutes of going through it.

36:30 Does my kids hate me because I ended the relationship?

37:00 Allow time for good experiences to replace bad memories.

38:35 Your job as a parent is to make that kid an adult.

42:05 You are a good parent. You aren't on crack.

44:45 No matter what I am feeling I have to be mom.

48:45 It took the relationship I'm in now to fix what happened in the past.

54:33 We need each other to tell stories and validate each other.

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 Lana Shay and Annalisa Raghunandan, two 30-somethings, united by chance in the jungle of Southern Costa Rica, connect during one of life’s greatest transitions, dismantling what was, moving courageously forward and building an outstanding version of what’s to come. Lana and Annalisa get raw and real in every episode, bringing you unfiltered conversations about divorce that most only have in private. 

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