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What if the real heartbreak wasn't who they were… but who you hoped they’d become?

In this no-nonsense episode of 15 Minute Mondays, I expose the silent epidemic of “dating for potential” and why it’s sabotaging your peace, wasting your time, and slowly eroding your self-worth.

From ignoring red flags to becoming someone’s emotional life coach, many people are trapped in relationships that look promising on paper but fall apart in real life. Why? Because they’re not dating a person - they’re dating a story.

I break down the psychology, the emotional toll, and the false hope that keep us stuck in loops of disappointment. I’ll also give you the practical tools to get out - for good.

With advanced tips like somatic awareness, the future-self test, and the Relationship Audit method, this is more than an episode - it’s a wake-up call.

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✅ Key Takeaways:

• Falling in love with potential is self-abandonment disguised as romantic optimism.
• You’re not a rehab center. Stop treating your relationship like a personal development project.
• Set timelines based on behavior - not dreams.
• Your nervous system knows when something’s off - learn to trust it.
• Ask yourself the five-year question: If nothing changed, would I still choose this?
• Track actions over promises - it reveals everything.
• You deserve a relationship that exists now, not one that might someday.

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