Imagine a trip to New Orleans that was meant for fun but ended up being the cornerstone of a life-changing journey. My good friend Amanda and I reminisce about our chaotic days back in 2016, when my excessive drinking reached a boiling point, forcing me to confront the need for sobriety. Together, we reflect on the power of friendship and authenticity as we navigated the turbulent waters leading to my decision to enter rehab. Amanda’s support was invaluable, helping me grasp the growth that followed such a pivotal moment.

Our conversation doesn’t shy away from the messiness of healing and self-discovery. We talk about the societal urge to be "fixed" and how embracing one’s traumas can be a catalyst for personal evolution. By sharing our experiences with disassociation and delving into the protective mechanisms of memory, we encourage listeners to face uncomfortable truths. The journey of self-healing is continuous, and, through reflections, we emphasize the importance of pausing, confronting memories, and using these as opportunities to heal and grow.

The episode takes a turn towards family dynamics, where we explore parenting with accountability and vulnerability. I open up about my early life in Oklahoma, the challenges faced, and how they shaped my parenting approach. By setting healthy boundaries and maintaining open communication, we strive to improve our relationships with our children. We even consider innovative strategies like "exit interviews" with kids to better cater to their needs. By embracing radical acceptance and accountability, we aim for stronger, more trusting family connections, underscoring the transformative power of vulnerability in parent-child relationships.