Hey girl so good to see you! We're back. It's a short and sweet one!

This episode is all about ex's, tests, and disruptions. Quite fitting that Mercury is Retrograde while we record. Carrie and Miranda run into Aiden and Steve. Of course no one cares about Aidan because later that day Big calls and steals the show. Carrie agrees to meet him for lunch because he is sad boi after his divorce. When she tells Miranda they get into their first big fight, finally airing out a lot of their differences. Trey shows up to Charlotte's unannounced and they finally make love, probably for less than 5 minutes but a win is a win?

After a 10 minute catch up, we get into the episode. We discuss break ups, running into ex's, getting over relationships and how guys and girls differ, and the difference between feeling safe and being in love. A girl will settle for one, but we all deserve both! We talk about how to decipher what is a test and what is your intuition.

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Sara is on the precipice of the rest of her life!!!!!!!!

Exciting times. Thanks for listening. We love you!

Time Stamps:
[00:06:22] Rediscovering love for reading.
[00:08:10] Carrie and Miranda's Exes
[00:11:07-00:11:17] "Aiden is so unhealed like the way he looks at Carrie is so just like it's like he's literally saying fuck you with his eyes and Steve is such a puppy dog"
[00:11:49] Seeing exes after breakup.
[00:13:59] Obsessing Over Unfinished Relationships
[00:14:14] Unfinished relationships and grieving.
[00:19:30] Love and growth in relationships.
[00:20:52-00:21:02] "you have to choose, what do you want for the rest of your life? Because you can be in love and safe, but some people will never let themselves get to the in love because they're staying in a safety that has love, but it's not in love."
[00:21:13] Safety vs. Being in Love
[00:24:32] Carrie and Miranda's Fight
[00:26:46] "Do you want to know who I am in this episode? I'm Samantha. I'm Samantha having a rage fit"
[00:27:02] Charlotte and Trey's Encounter
[00:29:47] Pings and tests.
[00:31:43] "Something happens that reminds you of that person and you start to think that you're missing them like crazy."
[00:32:56-00:33:07] "you will pass by letting it pass'

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Welcome back to And the City, I’m going to stop apologizing for being late because there is no such thing as being late to non existent deadline. Get us sponsored and we’ll talk!
This week (last week) we recorded an episode that starts with recaps of Alexa’s Miami Native launch for Issue 2 and Sara’s birthday week in New York.
Season 3 Episode 17 is all about KARMA, a beloved topic/ obsession of ours. Everything we said about Carrie being noble last episode- SCRATCH it. She’s horrible in this one, HORRIBLE. She has a run in with Natasha that sends Carrie tumbling into a very unfortunate series of events. She relentlessly pursues false forgiveness and makes a fool of herself. Sprinkle in the karma- she gets robbed at gunpoint, which is a huge wakeup call (you’d think) because her priorities are completely out of whack. All she cares about is being “hated” not what she actually did to Natasha. The apology is empty and rooted in ego. Do better. (We still love you.)
Samantha does the deed with a virgin, big no no. Charlotte kisses the gardener, small no no. All is fair on old money property. Miranda is extremely insecure and ruins a potentially great relationship with a very attractive man who is super into her. Ay girls. Karma was served on a silver platter. See ya.

Time Stamps:
00:04:59 - Story Time: Mom's New York Adventure
00:10:48-00:10:59 - "if it was my time to go and I was gonna die today, at least I was gonna die with my best friend."
00:16:00 - Hard Launch on Instagram
00:18:18 - Episode Recap: Karma and Consequences
00:19:03 - Natasha and Carrie Encounter
00:19:36 - "I think she is an absolute Naive selfish bitch and I think she handles everything horribly and karma is out to get her and it's biting her"
00:20:07 - Carrie Gets Robbed
00:21:07 - Personal Story: Witnessing a Robbery
00:23:52 - Carrie and Natasha's Lunch
00:25:28 - Carrie's Disrespectful Behavior
00:27:24-00:27:34 - "It really shows how selfish Carrie is and how she didn't actually want to make amends with Natasha."
00:29:08 - Charlotte's Infidelity
00:30:01 - Natasha's Verbal Takedown
00:31:07 - Old Money Dynamics
00:32:10 - "I don't get this family. I don't get how she Cheated on Trey and it was just like never thing she does she ever tell the girls about it make it make sense Okay, holy shit."
00:32:23 - Samantha's Flawed Actions
00:34:34 - Samantha's Karma
00:35:34 - Miranda's Insecurities and Dating
00:37:57 - Miranda's Drinking Problem
00:39:07 - Samantha and Carrie's Karma Discussion
00:40:08 - Final Thoughts on Karma
00:40:19 - Wrapping Up the Episode
00:41:00 - Kitty Update and Finding Homes

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This is being released 2 weeks after we recorded, apologies but I absolutely ran my mouth on this one re- frenemies and I had to make sure I wouldn’t be crossing paths with said frenemy in Miami. Some tea is for the internet and some tea needs to be reserved for girls' night only. I’m still learning to discern! Edits have been made. Speaking of, this episode is allllllll about discernment. Is it breaking girl code to date a friend’s ex? When to get involved between two of your best friends fighting…How to spot a jealous frenemy? We get into it.

Episode 3 Episode 16 shows a rare glimpse of Carrie single, NOT dating, and being a good, perhaps even great?, friend. We love Carrie, but we know she’s flawed, selfish, and glued to the 🍆 whether that be Big’s, Aiden’s, or whatever loser of the week she’s entertaining. Samantha and Charlotte get into a fight (more like Charlotte is acting like a little bitch because she’s still not getting laid). Samantha meets her frenemy, Charlotte tries to reconnect with her uptight Kappa Kappa Gamma sissies, and they both find their way back to each other and a little closer than ever. Miranda wants to go out with a guy Carrie dated 8 years ago, and Carrie tries to warn her he’s an a-hole. She gets her “I told you so” moment and much more. Carrie MVP for once? Enjoy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Timestamps:
[00:03:46] Feeling followed at the supermarket.
[00:09:16] Adjusting to post-college life.
[00:11:42-00:11:53] - "I don't want to see what music you're listening to. I don't care where you are. I don't care what's on your mind. I think that space needs to be clear and I will literally mute anybody who has posted a note on Instagram."
[00:14:10-00:14:20] - "That update ruined my generation."
[00:20:00] - Episode Synopsis: Frenemies and Sexual Dynamics
[00:23:00] - Charlotte and Samantha's Argument
[00:24:01] Exes dating friends' exes dilemma.
[00:25:00] - Miranda's Date and Ex-Boyfriend Dynamics
[00:27:36] Friendship dynamics with exes.
[00:28:00] - Carrie's Role and Character Development
[00:33:10] Frenemies and toxic relationships.
[00:35:22] Toxic friendships and energy vampires.
[00:38:30] Empaths and narcissists dynamics.
[00:42:17] Choosing healthy relationships.

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