We all got 'em—those moments where our Black card might get snatched! In this lighter episode of Blacktivities, Shannon and KK trade Black Card Confessions—from not knowing how to play Spades to secret love for Wilson Phillips and white folks' footwear. But as always, we keep it rooted with a Big Facts segment on the history of the "Black card" and how it connects to the One-Drop Rule.

The episode dives into:

• The cultural remix of the "Black card" and its historical roots
• Spades, oxtails, Birkenstocks, and other so-called violations
• The Wire, The Chi, BMF, and why TV taste is not a revocable offense
• Music confessions, 90s love, and why Kendrick’s anthem might’ve been a little overplayed
• The fine line between levity and trauma, and a heartfelt call to keep spreading Black joy

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Blacktivities is a Black Panache original production - a podcast network with a lineup of black-hosted shows sharing black stories and tackling black issues. For more information on shows like our newest production, Fat Lies Matter, visit blackpanache.com.

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• "Crossing the Color Line: Racial...

In this episode of Blacktivities, Shannon, Mona Lisa, and KK dive into a conversation that’s long overdue — the fetishization of Black men. From historical roots to what it looks like in dating, porn, and pop culture today, the hosts unpack the ways Black men are turned into objects instead of being seen as full, complex people. They share personal stories, research-backed facts, and a few laughs along the way. Spoiler: it’s not a compliment. It’s a call for respect.

Key Takeaways:

• Fetishization has deep roots in slavery and colonialism.
• It still shows up in media, dating apps, and everyday conversations.
• Black men often get objectified based on myths about their bodies or masculinity.
• Some men might be into it, but many aren’t — and it’s not the same as genuine attraction.
• Even we, as Black folks, sometimes repeat harmful stereotypes without realizing it.
• It’s time to see Black men as more than just a “look” or a “vibe.” They’re thinkers, builders, creators — full human beings.

Call to Action:

Black men — have you experienced fetishization? How did it make you feel? Drop a comment, DM, or email us your story. This convo ain’t over.

Sound Bites:

• “Why are people searching Mandingo porn and finding us?”
• “Live your truth, know your worth, King.”
• “You want a Black baby, but can you protect a Black child?”

Chapters:

• 00:00 – Welcome Back, Blacktivities!
• 02:12 – The Big Facts: Fetishization of Black Men
• 08:47 – Real Talk & Personal Stories
• 14:13 – Do Some Men Like It?
• 22:42 – Do We Reinforce These Stereotypes?
• 26:30 – Private Conversations with Black Men
• 33:00 – Celebs, Media, and Jamie Foxx?!
• 36:26 – Lisa’s Pieces: “Dear Black Man” (Poem)
• 41:53 – Call 2 Action 4 The Culture

Tags: #BlackMen #Fetishization #BlackLove #RespectBlackMen #Blacktivities

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In this powerful episode of Blacktivities, Shannon welcomes special guest Rick Willis — a proud HBCU alum, veteran, journalist, and outspoken advocate for Black empowerment — to unpack the growing backlash against Black culture, history, and unity.

From banned books and rewritten curriculums to erasure in media and targeted attacks on Black progress, this conversation exposes the patterns of fear, propaganda, and historical amnesia that continue to impact our communities. Through storytelling, facts, and unapologetic truth-telling, Shannon and Rick examine the difference between playing the victim and naming injustice, the danger of the "white victimhood" narrative, and what Black folks can do to resist erasure, restore pride, and go on offense.

Topics Covered:

• The historical and modern-day backlash against Black progress
• Big Facts: documented attacks on Black political power and education
• Why white fear is fueling efforts to silence Black truth
• The myth of meritocracy and the reality of stolen opportunity
• The emotional and strategic dilemma of protecting Black spaces
• DEI, CRT, and the "incompetence" narrative
• What solidarity between Black men and women should look like
• The call to action: love each other louder, lead with truth, and educate our own

Guest Info:

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• Facebook: Rick Willis
• Instagram: @rodinman5

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