This week, we talk about going public with the podcast - and the strangely vulnerable, slightly terrifying feeling of finally telling more than just our close friends. From hitting “post” on Instagram to overthinking every reaction, we get into the fears, the self-conscious spirals, and why sometimes, done really is better than perfect. We also dive into some chaotic life updates (one of us is wearing a reflux monitor, wrist brace, and glasses… it’s a look), plus why announcing a podcast feels weirdly more exposing than a job interview.

There’s also a detour into the emotional labour of being a WAG, a Eurostar saga that almost ended in disaster, and a run-in with a very tall man who may or may not have been an NBA player. We’re taking a short Easter break, but we’ll be back soon - ideally with fewer medical devices and plenty more chaos to report.

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There’s a detour into the emotional labour of being a WAG, and we talk Eurostar mishaps and fake NBA players. We’re taking a little Easter break, but we’ll be back soon - hopefully with fewer medical accessories and more chaotic stories!

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It’s a monumental episode - our very first guest joins the pod! Interior designer, entrepreneur, and our longtime friend Alessia Miro steps in to bring some much-needed calm to our chaos. We dive into the story of our friendship (which started with mutual hatred and a pivotal period moment), reflect on what it means to grow up alongside someone, and explore how Alessia found the balance between independence and partnership. From New York to London, heartbreaks to healing, we unpack everything from codependency to the power of being single—even when it really sucks.

If you’ve ever felt a little lost, this episode is a reminder that your path doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. Better things are coming.

Find Alessia:

Website: https://www.alessiamiro.com/

Instagram: @alessiamirointeriors

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Andrea and Theo are back with sunshine, spirals, and a serious case of seasonal stress. From the pressure of feeling happy when it’s sunny outside, to the guilt of staying indoors and the panic of time moving too fast, this week kicks off with a candid chat about mental load, social expectations, and why hibernation mode still has its grip. They also share chaotic weekend recaps—from dinner party blunders and mountain mishaps to convincing strangers you’re dating a Formula 1 driver.

But the heart of the episode is their deep-dive into Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov. They unpack what parts of the book hit a little too close to home, what advice actually helped, and what definitely didn’t. From losing yourself in relationships to setting real boundaries, they reflect on past dynamics, people-pleasing habits, and the importance of maintaining independence—no matter how in love you are. Plus, the infamous “Are You Too Nice?” quiz gets brutally real. If you’ve ever been a relationship doormat or want to avoid becoming one, this one’s for you.

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In this week’s episode of Chaotically Ever After, we dive headfirst into the chaotic world of icks—from red trousers and ankle socks to suitcase dragging and the horror of flip-flops on men. We unpack what gives us the ick, why some are strangely universal, and how they can be oddly revealing about our deeper feelings. Spoiler: concussions may or may not be a relationship dealbreaker.

We also touch on the cosmic chaos of Mercury retrograde and whether astrology is to blame for our emotional rollercoasters. With chaotic moments ranging from accidental butt-dials to unexpected run-ins, this episode is equal parts hilarious, relatable, and just a little savage. Plus, we want to hear from you—send us your biggest icks for next week’s episode by emailing chaoticallyeverafter@gmail.com.

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In this week’s episode, Theo and Andrea battle Sunday scaries and recap the whirlwind of their week—from party escapades and spontaneous pub chats to unexpected tears at a family lunch. Andrea sheds her social-anxiety skin (with the help of a few drinks) and recounts her wild weekend hopping between birthday lunches, new bars, and deep convos with strangers—plus the all-too-familiar saga of losing her phone… again.

Meanwhile, Theo finds herself crying into her Sunday lunch as stress reaches its peak. The chaos doesn’t stop there—they take a deep dive into the Drive to Survive drama, Lando Norris obsessions, Christian Horner scandals, and the best and worst of the 2024 F1 season so far.

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This week on Chaotically Ever After, Thea and Andrea catch up on all things—from the perils of working from home in leggings to the art of trying (and often failing) to keep track of your handbag after one too many drinks. The girls weigh up the pros and cons of returning to the office, share their latest restaurant obsessions, and debate whether athleisure is still socially acceptable five years post-COVID. Plus, they spill on the new season of White Lotus—from shady friendships and chaotic families to their mutual love (and heartbreak) over Tanya’s absence.

Later in the episode, they take a deep dive into the concept of Saturn Returns and reflect on how their late 20s have been a time of major upheaval, heartbreak, growth, and learning to sit with the chaos. They discuss navigating breakups, redefining identity, and the unexpected silver linings of being single for the first time in years. Of course, it wouldn’t be Chaotically Ever After without the weekly “chaotic moment”—including a cringey dinner party mix-up and a Cinderella-worthy shoe saga. Tune in for laughs, honest reflections, and a reminder that we’re all just figuring it out one chaotic moment at a time.

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This week on Chaotically Ever After, Theo and Andrea are back with a mix of travel stories, Hollywood gossip, and a hilariously embarrassing moment that might just make you cringe (and relate). Theo shares all about a wedding weekend in Stockholm, complete with old school friends and an unexpected conversation about cats. Meanwhile, Andrea had a slightly less chaotic (but no less dramatic) weekend, featuring some classic family misunderstandings.

They also dive into the latest Oscars controversy—Adrien Brody’s endless speech, shocking wins and snubs, and that awkward Timothée Chalamet and Kylie Jenner moment. Plus, they discuss the Hollywood obsession with Ozempic, the pressure of unrealistic beauty standards, and how social media is distorting our self-image.

And to wrap things up? A truly mortifying flight fiasco that Theo may never live down. Trust us, you don’t want to miss this one.

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In this episode, we dive into the chaos of weird dreams, unexpected anxiety, and an unfortunate chipped tooth incident—all while unpacking life’s little (and not-so-little) mishaps. We discuss the bizarre ways our subconscious plays tricks on us during sleep, why anxiety seems to strike at the most inconvenient times, and how even the simplest habits—like drinking straight from the bottle—can lead to unexpected disasters. Plus, there’s a little reality TV talk because, let’s be honest, The Kardashians always find a way into the conversation.

As always, we keep it real, raw, and a little ridiculous, blending humour with honest reflections on mental health, self-care, and navigating everyday chaos. Tune in for relatable moments, a few life lessons, and a reminder that we’re all just figuring things out one weird dream at a time.

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