In this episode of Closet Philosophy, we talk to stylist and luxury handbag designer Wale Sanni about what personal style really means—and it has little to do with what we wear. Wale shares how he went from sneakerhead to Saks stylist, why timeless style is about emotional connection, and how status, self-worth, and fashion are always intertwined.

We also dive deep into:

• Why people say they don’t care about status but they usually do
• Why quality isn’t just about fabric—it’s about how you care for your clothes
• The deeper meaning of the Walmart Birkin
• How self-love is the foundation of great style

Plus, Walle shares his take on what three things are actually worth investing in if you want a wardrobe that works and feels meaningful.

Find Wale:

• Stylist & co-founder of Nero Chicago
• Follow him on Instagram & TikTok: @stylebywale

This week, we sit down with the joyful and unapologetically bold influencer Manny Martins Carmen—a 61-year-old model, weightlifter, painter, and accidental content creator who encourages her followers to “age like a rebel.” What started as a creative outlet during COVID has become a movement of radical self-expression, vibrant style, and fearless aging.

We talk about dressing up for joy (even if you're just going to the optometrist), the healing power of movement, and how style can shift your mood and the energy of a whole room. Manny also opens up about recovering from a cancer diagnosis, competing in powerlifting, and applying for the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issue at 60+. Her message? Your joy is contagious—and it's never too late to be fully, loudly, you.

Topics We Cover:

• Why dressing up when you don’t feel like it is a powerful move
• How creative disciplines (like graphic design and abstract art) can shape personal style
• Using fashion as a form of emotional regulation
• What powerlifting taught Manny after cancer and injury
• Midlife confidence, visibility, and pushing back against patriarchal beauty standards
• The design principles behind good outfits—and good paintings
• The real reason she applied to the Sports Illustrated model search
• Why wearing a bigger size might be the most liberating thing you do all year

Follow Manny:

• Instagram: @mannyfashionstylist
• Art account: @mannymartinscarmen
• TikTok & YouTube: @mannymartinscarmen

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In this mind-opening conversation, Véronique Hyland—features director at Elle magazine and author of the acclaimed book Dress Code: Unlocking Fashion from the New Look to Millennial Pink—helps us unpack the hidden forces shaping how we dress. From the myth of the “female gaze” to the politics of effortlessness, this episode asks big questions about power, gender, class, and whether we can ever truly dress just for ourselves.

We explore fashion as communication, resistance, and identity—and why “I don’t care what I wear” is almost always a lie. Plus, we get personal about aging, influence, cringe, and what it means to keep evolving your style in a culture that worships youth.

If you've ever stood in front of your closet wondering who you're getting dressed for—this one’s for you.

Topics We Cover:

• How she coined the term “Millennial pink”
• The commercialization of the female gaze
• Why effortlessness is its own kind of performance
• How personal style can be armor—and storytelling
• The privilege of “not caring” about fashion
• Why influencers burn out—and what’s changing in that world
• What fashion can learn from sports
• The difference between authentic style and aesthetic conformity
• Her journey from Juicy Couture to ELLE editor—and everything in between

Follow Véronique:

• Instagram: @veroniquehyland
• Column: Style Points on ELLE.com
• Book: Dress Code (available now)

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