Conduct a podcast interview with Cole Flanders for "The Family Table" series, discussing parenting and family life.

Key Takeaways

- Cole emphasizes intentional parenting, focusing on instilling concepts rather than just rules

- The Flanders family prioritizes Sabbath-keeping as a key tradition to pass down

- Cole balances demanding work as a Chick-fil-A operator with intentional family time

- Parenting resources like Paul David Tripp have significantly shaped their approach

Topics

Cole's Family Background

- Married to Alicia for 9+ years

- Two children: 4.5-year-old daughter Hazel and 17-month-old son Alden

- Cole views his role as head of household, aiming to model Christ-like love

Family Traditions and Bonding

- Sunday morning "muffin makers" tradition with daughter

- Intentional about creating special moments, like chasing/playing after watering flowers

- Prioritize Sabbath-keeping on Sundays for family time and rest

Parenting Philosophy

- Focus on teaching concepts rather than just rules (e.g. respecting authority vs. specific "don't do X")

- Strive for consistency in parenting approach, even during vacations

- Openly discuss and admit parental mistakes/sins to children

- The ultimate goal is children's relationship with Christ, not just worldly success

Work-Life Balance

- Navigated challenges during the Chick-fil-A leadership program while starting a family

- Intentionally chose home close to new store (1/3 mile) to maximize family time

- Recognize the intense time demands of the new store, but plan strategically as a couple

Parenting Resources

- Paul David Tripp's materials are highly influential

- Impactful video on long-term parenting goals (mission field vs. "successful" life)

Advice for New Parents

- Remember children ultimately belong to God, not parents

- Admit weaknesses/mistakes to children, modeling need for Jesus

Next Steps

- Cole to open new Chick-fil-A store in December

- Continue intentional family time during the demanding store opening period

- Maintain Sabbath-keeping tradition in a new location