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  • 1022-Psychological Abuse & Trauma Bonds in Codependency _ Interview with Lindsay Villandry (Part 1)

    1022-Psychological Abuse & Trauma Bonds in Codependency _ Interview with Lindsay Villandry (Part 1)
    2024/11/14
    Introduction Presenter: Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes discusses psychological abuse, trauma, and the healing process. The focus is on different forms of abuse, relational trauma, and their long-lasting impacts on mental health and interpersonal relationships. Types of Abuse Forms of Abuse: Abuse can be emotional, physical, financial, or sexual. Emotional abuse and neglect are particularly harmful, often having more severe long-term effects than physical abuse. Impact of Words: Hurtful words from significant others or caregivers can have deep emotional consequences. Victims may start doubting their own self-worth, questioning their perceptions of love and safety. Relational Trauma and Hypervigilance Relational Trauma: Emotional abuse leaves individuals feeling unsafe and powerless, affecting their ability to form healthy relationships. Hypervigilance: Survivors of trauma often become hyper-aware, constantly scanning for threats in relationships and interpreting benign actions as harmful. Psychological Manipulation: Gaslighting Gaslighting Defined: A form of manipulation where the abuser tries to make the victim doubt their own reality, making them feel crazy or powerless. Example: The victim might feel confused and question their own memory or sanity when told that their version of events never happened. Trauma and Addictive Relationships Addictive Behaviors: Trauma often leads to addictive behaviors, not just with substances but also with relationships. People may remain in harmful relationships despite negative consequences, mirroring the cycle of substance addiction. Emotional Attachment: Addictive relationships can be illogical, where individuals keep returning to toxic relationships because of emotional trauma, even when it’s harmful. Narcissism and Personality Disorders Narcissism vs. Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Narcissistic traits and behaviors, while common, do not necessarily mean someone has Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). True NPD involves grandiosity, lack of empathy, and a tendency to manipulate others for personal gain. Behavior as Communication: Narcissistic behaviors may communicate insecurity, fear, or the need for validation, and are often misunderstood as purely selfish or arrogant. Attachment Theory and Personality Development Attachment Styles: Early relationships with caregivers shape attachment styles, which influence how individuals form relationships later in life. Anxious Attachment: Involves constantly seeking validation from others. Avoidant Attachment: Results from neglect or criticism, leading individuals to avoid emotional closeness. Disorganized Attachment: A combination of anxious and avoidant tendencies, often developed from inconsistent caregiving. Impact of Insecure Attachment: When children experience inconsistent or neglectful caregiving, they struggle to form secure attachments, leading to emotional difficulties as adults. Trauma and Personality Disorders Personality Disorders and Trauma: Personality disorders, like NPD or borderline personality disorder, often stem from early childhood trauma and chaotic environments. These disorders are coping mechanisms developed to survive difficult situations. Healing and Recovery Healing Through Self-Awareness: Understanding attachment styles, trauma, and the effects of emotional abuse is the first step in healing. Enmeshment and Boundaries: Enmeshment, where caregivers overly control a child’s thoughts and emotions, can lead to difficulties in forming autonomy. Healing involves learning to set boundaries and develop a healthy sense of self. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • 1021-Overcoming Adversity_ Resilience Tips Unveiled

    1021-Overcoming Adversity_ Resilience Tips Unveiled
    2024/11/12
    Introduction Presenter: Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes introduces the concepts of hardiness and resilience. Hardiness and resilience are essential for coping with stress and bouncing back from adversity. The goal is to explore ways to strengthen these traits through various psychological tools and practices. Defining Resilience and Hardiness Resilience: The capacity to bounce back from challenges, much like a beach ball rising to the surface when pushed underwater. Hardiness: A psychological toolkit that helps foster resilience, consisting of three components: Commitment, Control, and Challenge (the "Three Cs"). Characteristics of Resilient Individuals Awareness of Vulnerabilities: Resilient people recognize and minimize their physical, emotional, and mental vulnerabilities. Secure Attachment: Strong relationships with self and others; reliance on internal validation, not external approval. Healthy Self-Esteem: They do not depend on others for validation and maintain a positive sense of self-worth. Self-Awareness: Just like maintaining a car, awareness of personal needs and stress levels helps prevent burnout or breakdown. Self-Efficacy: A belief in one's ability to influence outcomes and handle adversity effectively. Hardiness: The Foundation for Resilience Commitment: Being deeply involved and committed to important aspects of life, like family, work, or personal values, helps in maintaining perspective during tough times. Control: Focusing on what can be controlled rather than wasting energy on what cannot be changed. Challenge: Viewing difficulties as opportunities for growth rather than insurmountable obstacles. Enhancing Resilience Acceptance: Resilient individuals accept the reality of situations, focusing on what they can control and how to move forward. Problem-Solving Skills: Flexibility in problem-solving is key to resilience. This includes thinking outside the box when a standard solution isn’t available. Distress Tolerance: Learning to sit with uncomfortable emotions without acting impulsively is crucial for maintaining balance. Managing Energy and Vulnerabilities Energy Management: Like a smartphone battery, energy is limited and must be conserved. Poor nutrition, sleep deprivation, and chronic stress all drain energy, making it harder to bounce back. Physical and Emotional Stressors: Awareness of environmental, physical, and emotional triggers helps individuals manage their vulnerabilities and maintain balance. Building Resilience in Everyday Life Interpersonal Relationships: A strong social support system is crucial, but relationships also require energy. Setting boundaries with others is essential to prevent burnout. Cognitive Strategies: Resilient people practice optimism, avoid catastrophic thinking, and focus on practical, positive problem-solving. Conclusion Resilience is not about eliminating stress but learning to manage it effectively. With awareness, acceptance, and the practice of problem-solving, individuals can enhance their ability to bounce back from life’s challenges. The PIECES model (Physical, Interpersonal, Emotional, Cognitive, Environmental, and Spiritual) helps guide a comprehensive approach to resilience-building. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • 1020-Changing Expectations_ How Beliefs Impact Mental Health

    1020-Changing Expectations_ How Beliefs Impact Mental Health
    2024/11/07
    Introduction Presenter: Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes discusses the impact of schemas on anxiety and depression. The presentation explores how schemas (mental shortcuts or belief systems) are formed, how they affect the mind-body connection, and strategies to address unhelpful schemas. Understanding Schema Definition: Schemas are mental representations or beliefs about people, events, or places formed from past experiences. They help predict future situations based on these past experiences. Example: Driving to a stoplight – based on previous experience, you know a yellow light signals that it will soon turn red. Similarly, life experiences shape our expectations in relationships, work, and personal safety. Formation and Impact of Schema Schemas develop from cultural messages, personal experiences, and interpretations of those experiences. Over time, schemas may become inaccurate or outdated, leading to faulty predictions. Trauma: Trauma can lead to schemas where individuals feel powerless and unsafe, contributing to chronic stress, anxiety, and depression. These schemas can cause overgeneralization, making a person feel like no one is trustworthy or that no place is safe. Negative Impact on Health: Chronic stress from faulty schemas affects the gut microbiome, alters neurotransmitter levels, and impairs sleep, exacerbating mental health issues. Addressing Faulty Schemas Cognitive Restructuring: Identifying faulty schemas and challenging their accuracy in the present context is essential. For instance, realizing that past experiences may not accurately reflect current realities helps reduce anxiety. Distress Tolerance: Learning how to manage emotional distress enables individuals to avoid automatic, stress-based responses, allowing them to make better decisions in the moment. Environmental and Situational Analysis: By acknowledging that not all situations or people are the same, individuals can adjust their schema based on new, more accurate information. Examples of Faulty Schemas Generalization: Previous negative experiences with authority figures (e.g., doctors or law enforcement) can lead to a generalized distrust, even when the current situation may be safe. Self-Schema: Individuals may develop beliefs about their self-worth and competence based on negative feedback from past relationships, leading to anxiety and depression in current situations. Safety Schema: Children or adults with a history of trauma may develop hypervigilant responses to everyday situations, constantly interpreting them as dangerous due to ingrained safety-related schemas. Strategies for Schema Modification Schema Awareness: Recognizing when a schema is being triggered by monitoring emotional reactions. Schema Journaling: Writing down experiences and examining whether the schema applied to the situation was accurate, helps in modifying outdated beliefs. Therapist Support: Professionals can guide individuals through the process of schema identification and restructuring, helping them replace maladaptive beliefs with more constructive ones. Conclusion Schemas are powerful lenses through which we interpret the world. While they provide mental shortcuts, they often need to be revised as we gain new information or encounter new situations. Through cognitive restructuring, distress tolerance, and a supportive therapeutic environment, individuals can modify unhelpful schemas, leading to improved mental health and resilience. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • 1019-Transform Your Mental Health with the PIECES Method

    1019-Transform Your Mental Health with the PIECES Method
    2024/11/05
    Introduction Presenter: Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes introduces the PIECES model for understanding mental health and life balance. The PIECES model examines six key dimensions of life: Physical, Interpersonal, Emotional, Cognitive, Environmental, and Spiritual. The aim is to look beyond singular or dual approaches to treatment by considering how these dimensions interact. PIECES Model Overview Physical Dimension: Health, energy, and pain management impact overall mood and cognitive function. Chronic conditions or poor health exacerbate mental health issues. Interpersonal Dimension: Relationships, attachment, and social support are key to emotional stability. Healthy attachment increases neurotransmitters like serotonin and oxytocin, contributing to better moods and higher pain tolerance. Emotional Dimension: Addressing distress tolerance, regulation, and emotional intelligence is essential. Negative emotions like anger, guilt, and resentment need to be understood and managed effectively. Cognitive Dimension: Thoughts based on past traumas or outdated schemas contribute to ongoing distress. Cognitive distortions can throw hormones and neurotransmitters out of balance, affecting mental and physical health. Environmental Dimension: Factors like light, air quality, and temperature directly impact mood and energy. Simple changes in environment, like improving light exposure or reducing pollutants, can improve mental health. Spiritual Dimension: Connection to one’s values and a sense of belonging play a significant role in mental health. Misalignment between values and behavior can lead to moral injury and feelings of isolation. Issues with Current Treatment Approaches Many current treatment methods, such as antidepressants or cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), show limited effectiveness, helping only 40-60% of patients. Medications like antidepressants, while helpful, do not work for everyone and often leave a significant percentage of patients still struggling. There is no one-size-fits-all solution; many people benefit more from multidimensional approaches than from medication alone. Interaction of PIECES Dr. Snipes emphasizes the bidirectional interaction between the PIECES dimensions. For example: Pain affects mood, which increases inflammation, worsening the pain. Anxiety makes it difficult to implement cognitive-behavioral strategies, particularly during high-stress periods. Treating just one dimension (like prescribing medication for mood) may not be enough without addressing other contributing factors, such as lifestyle, physical health, and environmental stressors. The Role of Counselors and Therapists Multidisciplinary Referrals: It’s essential for therapists to work with other professionals (e.g., dieticians, physical therapists) to address a client’s physical health and environmental factors. Therapeutic Relationship: The bond between client and therapist is more crucial than any specific technique in achieving long-term success. Client-Centered Approach: Dr. Snipes stresses the importance of involving clients in their treatment plan, empowering them to decide what dimensions of their life they are most motivated to address. Conclusion The PIECES model encourages a holistic, transdiagnostic approach to mental health, recognizing that multiple life dimensions interact to contribute to distress. By focusing on personalized, multi-dimensional treatment plans, therapists can help clients achieve more meaningful, sustainable improvement in their mental health and overall well-being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • 1018-Flex Your Mind_ Techniques for Psychological Strength

    1018-Flex Your Mind_ Techniques for Psychological Strength
    2024/10/31
    Introduction Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes discusses psychological flexibility. Key focus: defining, applying, and identifying strategies for psychological flexibility. What is Psychological Flexibility? Acceptance of the present moment: Recognizing and accepting emotions and situations as they are. Purposeful Action: Making conscious choices that align with personal goals and values. Reciprocity of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors: Understanding how they influence each other. Challenges in Implementing Psychological Flexibility Impact of Trauma: Trauma can make it hard to feel safe and accept the present moment. Resistance to Change: Often due to fear, lack of energy, or a belief that the current state is safer. Steps to Foster Psychological Flexibility Define a Rich and Meaningful Life: Clarify what a fulfilling life looks like (e.g., relationships, health, hobbies). Use visual aids like collages to represent goals. Identify and Nurture Key Relationships: Prioritize self-care and significant others. Recognize and address aspects of relationships that cause distress. Clarify Values: Determine which values will guide decisions. Visualize energy allocation like managing a cell phone battery. Coping Strategies and Behavioral Adjustments Avoid Energy-Draining Activities: Unproductive coping mechanisms like avoidance or numbing behaviors. Focus on Energy-Enhancing Behaviors: Engage in activities that build toward personal goals and values. Managing Distress and Negative Emotions Accept and Sit with Emotions: Acknowledge feelings without judgment and focus on what can be controlled. Avoiding Cognitive Distortions: Challenge thoughts that are exaggerated or unhelpful. Practical Applications Daily Mindfulness: Start the day with intention, focusing on actions that align with goals. Positive Triggers: Incorporate elements in the environment that promote happiness and well-being. Implementing Psychological Flexibility Shortcut Question: Ask, "Are my current thoughts, feelings, and actions moving me closer to or further away from my goals and values?" Conclusion Commitment to Purposeful Action: Focus on using energy to move toward goals rather than getting stuck in unproductive behaviors or thoughts. Chapters: 00:00:00 - Teaching Psychological Flexibility 00:06:54 - Improving Relationships Through Communication and Energy Management 00:13:38 - Using Energy to Achieve Goals 00:20:21 - Letting Go of Negative Emotions 00:26:45 - Understanding the Importance of Alignment 00:33:35 - Purposeful vs. Purposeless Behavior 00:40:40 - The Fallacy of Control and Change 00:47:38 - Building Happiness through Purposeful Actions 00:54:40 - Choosing the Right Response 01:01:06 - Embracing the situation and taking action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • 1017-Using Your Strengths for PTSD Recovery

    1017-Using Your Strengths for PTSD Recovery
    2024/10/29
    Introduction Understanding PTSD and CPTSD Definition of PTSD: PTSD is a reaction to exposure to a traumatic event that induces extreme horror or trauma. Commonly seen in military personnel, crime victims, and law enforcement. Definition of CPTSD: CPTSD results from repeated exposure to traumatic events where escape is difficult or impossible, causing a sense of helplessness. Often seen in situations like ongoing abuse, neglect, or professions with repeated trauma exposure (e.g., law enforcement). Symptoms of PTSD and CPTSD Re-Experiencing: Intrusive memories, flashbacks, nightmares, and intense distress when reminded of the trauma. These symptoms are survival mechanisms, helping the brain stay alert to future threats. Hypervigilance: Constantly being on high alert, scanning the environment for threats, leading to physical exhaustion. Common in those who have experienced trauma, especially if caught unawares in the past. Physical Symptoms: Difficulty sleeping, irritability, anger outbursts, feeling jumpy, easily startled, and chronic fatigue. These symptoms are tied to the body's stress response, which remains on high alert, even in safe situations. Somatic Complaints: Physical pain, gastrointestinal issues, and other bodily complaints often tied to chronic stress and hypervigilance. Interpersonal and Emotional Symptoms: Persistent difficulties in sustaining relationships, mistrust, betrayal, emotional numbness, and a loss of interest in activities. Trauma can disrupt the ability to connect with others and maintain healthy relationships. Cognitive Symptoms: Difficulty concentrating, dissociative symptoms (feeling detached or losing time), and persistent negative beliefs about oneself. Trauma affects the ability to focus and may lead to cognitive distortions, such as overgeneralization and catastrophizing. Interventions and Strategies Physical Interventions: Establishing a sleep routine, stress management techniques (e.g., journaling, exercise), and considering medication for sleep if necessary. Addressing physical symptoms like fatigue by creating a sense of safety and empowerment. Interpersonal Interventions: Encouraging connections with non-judgmental, empathetic people, and finding supportive communities, especially those with shared experiences. Helping individuals communicate their needs and seek out relationships that contribute to their sense of safety and well-being. Emotional and Cognitive Interventions: Developing emotional intelligence, understanding the function of emotions, and learning to downregulate stress responses. Cognitive processing therapy to challenge cognitive distortions and replace them with more balanced thinking. Environmental Interventions: Modifying the environment to reduce triggers (e.g., removing reminders of trauma, adding comforting elements). Creating a safe physical space with tools like safety items, proper lighting, and mirrors to reduce stress. Conclusion Chapters: 00:00:00 - Strength-based approach to understanding post-traumatic stress disorder 00:06:45 - Re-experiencing Traumatic Events and Symptoms 00:13:16 - Hyper-sensitivity and extreme stress response 00:20:14 - Effects of Trauma on Trust and Relationships 00:27:06 - Managing Concentration and Memory Issues 00:33:48 - Traumatic Triggers and PTSD Risk Factors 00:40:37 - Seeking Support and Validation 00:46:55 - Strategies for Emotional Recovery and Trauma Processing 00:53:32 - Coping with Trauma 00:59:58 - Changing Beliefs and Desensitizing Symptoms Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • 1016-Preventing Relapse in Addiction, Anxiety, and Depression

    1016-Preventing Relapse in Addiction, Anxiety, and Depression
    2024/10/24
    Introduction Understanding Relapse Definition of Relapse: Relapse is the return to a problematic behavior or symptom that was previously under control or in remission. It can occur in various contexts, including psychosis, mood disorders, addictions, and chronic pain. Multi-Dimensional Nature: Relapse can occur physically (e.g., fatigue, pain), interpersonally (e.g., unhealthy relationships), emotionally, cognitively, environmentally, and spiritually (e.g., loss of meaning). Warning Signs and Vulnerabilities Early Signs: Relapse begins long before the behavior or symptom reappears; early signs may include stress, sleep deficits, nutritional deficiencies, and HPA axis dysregulation. Vulnerabilities: Factors like sleep deprivation, poor nutrition, chronic pain, and interpersonal conflicts increase vulnerability to relapse. Emotional vulnerabilities include dysphoria, anger, grief, and even euphoria (which can lead to overconfidence and neglect of recovery behaviors). Preventing Physical Relapse Mindfulness: Regular self-check-ins are crucial to recognize early signs of relapse and address them before they escalate. Evening mindfulness helps reflect on the day, acknowledge successes, and learn from challenges. Healthy Habits: Maintaining physical health through proper sleep, nutrition, exercise, and medication adherence is vital to prevent relapse. Avoiding environments or triggers that are linked to past episodes is essential for relapse prevention. Interpersonal and Emotional Relapse Interpersonal Dynamics: Returning to unhealthy relationships or isolating from supportive ones can signal interpersonal relapse. Emotional relapse may involve negative emotional states like anger or overconfidence, leading to poor decision-making. Addressing Emotional Triggers: Identifying and managing triggers for emotional distress (e.g., unresolved anger, anxiety) is key to preventing relapse. Developing emotional intelligence and distress tolerance skills helps manage emotions more effectively. Cognitive and Environmental Relapse Cognitive Distortions: Cognitive relapse includes unhelpful thinking patterns like all-or-nothing thinking, personalization, and pessimism. Addressing these thoughts early through cognitive restructuring can prevent a downward spiral. Environmental Factors: Reintegrating into environments or situations that triggered past issues (e.g., keeping alcohol at home for someone recovering from alcoholism) can lead to relapse. It's important to create and maintain a supportive environment that reinforces positive behaviors. Developing a Relapse Prevention Plan Daily Mindfulness: Incorporating mindfulness into daily routines, both in the morning and evening, helps manage vulnerabilities and stay grounded. Identifying Strengths and Weaknesses: Reflecting on past relapses can provide insights into what triggered them and how to prevent future ones. Focusing on strengths and building resilience through positive experiences and realistic goal-setting are key to long-term success. Conclusion Chapters: 00:00:00 - Relapse Prevention for Mental Health and Addictive Issues 00:06:16 - Vulnerabilities in Recovery 00:12:48 - Physical Health and Relapse Warning Signs 00:19:37 - Coping Strategies for Depression 00:26:28 - The Importance of Asking for Help 00:33:28 - Preventing Interpersonal Relapse 00:40:13 - Emotional Relapse and Pain Management 00:46:59 - Managing Negative Emotions and Cognitive Relapse 00:53:27 - Coping with Stress and Preventing Relapse 01:00:03 - Importance of Hydration for Mental Health Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • 1015-Conquering Abandonment Fears_ Expert Tips

    1015-Conquering Abandonment Fears_ Expert Tips
    2024/10/22
    Introduction Understanding Abandonment and Connection Human Need for Connection: Oxytocin drives our need for connection from infancy. Early dependency on caregivers forms the foundation for future relationship expectations. Development of Abandonment Fears: Schemas: Cognitive frameworks developed based on past experiences, influencing how we perceive and react to abandonment. Beliefs: Early interactions, especially inconsistent caregiving, shape beliefs about others' reliability and our own worth. Impact of Insecure Attachment Attachment in Childhood: Secure attachments provide a buffer against stress and help in developing healthy self-concepts. Insecure attachments result from neglect, inconsistent caregiving, or trauma, leading to chronic feelings of unsafety and disempowerment. Behavioral Responses to Abandonment: Fight or Flight: Children with insecure attachment often remain in a heightened state of anxiety, which continues into adulthood. Emotional Regulation: Insecurely attached individuals struggle with regulating emotions and often view every stressor as a crisis. Exploring Abandonment Schemas Triggers and Reactions: Common Triggers: Inconsistent caregiving, trauma, introduction of unsafe caregivers, and conditions of worth (e.g., love based on performance). Emotional Responses: Anger, sadness, shame, and fear of rejection or loss of control. Questions for Reflection: Consider what caused abandonment fears in childhood and how these fears manifest in adulthood. Reflect on whether current reactions are helpful or whether they stem from outdated survival mechanisms. Addressing and Reprogramming Abandonment Fears Acknowledging Past Experiences: Acceptance of past trauma and its impact on current behavior is crucial. Recognize that past experiences do not have to dictate present and future relationships. Practical Strategies: Conscious Decision-Making: Help clients make healthier choices in relationships by understanding their abandonment triggers. Building Secure Attachments: Develop skills to foster secure relationships, both with oneself and with others. Attachment Styles and Their Effects Avoidant Attachment: Results from harsh or rejecting caregivers, leading to emotional distance and lack of trust in others. Anxious Attachment: Stems from inconsistent caregiving, causing fear of being alone and hypervigilance toward potential abandonment. Ambivalent Attachment: Characterized by chaotic caregiving, resulting in clinginess and difficulty finding security in relationships. Creating Secure Attachments Role of Caregivers: Consistency, attentiveness, responsiveness, and empathy are key to fostering secure attachments. CARES Model: Encourages caregivers to be Consistent, Attentive, Responsive, Empathetic, and Supportive. Self-Care and Self-Compassion: Learning to provide oneself with the same secure base that a caregiver would offer is essential for emotional resilience. Challenging Core Abandonment Beliefs Common Beliefs: Beliefs such as "all people leave," "I am unlovable," and "I cannot succeed" often underlie abandonment fears. Reframing Beliefs: Encourage clients to explore alternate explanations for past rejections and failures and to differentiate past experiences from present realities. Conclusion Chapters: 00:00:00 - Introduction: Love Me Don't Leave Me: Addressing Fears of Abandonment 00:07:37 - Fears of Abandonment and Attachment Styles 00:15:38 - Addressing Abandonment Fears 00:23:43 - Attachment Styles and Abandonment Reactions 00:31:42 - Coping with Fear of Abandonment and Maladaptive Behaviors 00:39:36 - Trustworthiness and Safety 00:47:36 - Accepting Yourself and Others 00:55:47 - Triggers and coping with abandonment fears in relationships 01:04:17 - Crying in front of kids 01:12:47 - Farewell for Now Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 時間 13 分