Sex is brilliant. But how much is enough? Do you need to spice things up from time to time? How do you make sure your sex life stays healthy when kids and careers get in the way? How do you stay attracted to each other when the body gets looser and flabbier over the years? Should you ever have sex when your heart's not fully into it?

Graham and Matt explore sex and sexlessness in this episode, with a particular focus on their Psychology Today blogpost on the subject, available here:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/get-some-help/202410/just-do-it-sex-can-be-vital-in-a-long-term-relationship

Money matters. 75% of couples say financial stress is affecting their relationship. Why? How can you avoid it getting in the way of your relationship satisfaction? What if one partner earns loads more than the other? What do you do if your spending habits differ? Is a prenup the answer to all your problems?

Graham and Matt explore money this week.

Their Psychology Today blogpost is available here:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/get-some-help/202410/looking-for-a-man-in-finance-money-and-relationships

This episode, Matt and Graham try to help listeners answer the key question of when to stay and work hard on an imperfect relationship, and when to call it quits.

In a culture of instant gratification, we're often told to cut and run.

But relationships aren't meant to be easy, and a good life involves accepting life on life’s terms. If you end it, you might be missing the satisfaction and self-growth that come via the joint effort.. You might even live longer: married people are 20 percent less likely to die prematurely.

Even if you choose to stay and fight for the relationship, how do you make that work? What might you need to change within yourself?