In this wildly candid and unfiltered episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast, we dive deep into the real and often hilarious dynamics of sexual energy, attraction, and honesty in marriage. Recorded right from our Miami home studio, this episode peels back the layers of what actually goes through a man's mind on a daily basis including how often sex crosses it, what triggers those thoughts, and how men navigate desire in real life.

From testosterone fueled libido confessions to honest discussions about boundaries, gym glances, and challenges of being a beautiful women in a hyper-sexualized world, nothing is off-limits. We also unpack the societal shift in modern marriage roles and how couples are rewriting the rules in real time. Expect laughs, uncomfortable truthsm and surprisingly profound insights about communication, discipline, and staying connected.

Whether your married, dating, or just trying to understand your partner better, this episode is both relatable and refreshingly raw.

Welcome back to the Date Your Wife Podcast! In this episode, it’s just the two of us—real, unfiltered, and sometimes hilarious. We dive deep into the chaos of raising adult kids (who move out and… get dogs they can’t handle!), why having a third dog is a recipe for madness, and the truth about what makes a marriage work (even after 21 years, five kids, and enough pets for a small farm).

What we talk about in this episode:

• Why our daughter got a high-energy Pitbull (and instantly regretted it)

• The wild realities of parenting adult children

• Hilarious and raw pet stories (including guinea pigs, Yorkies, and “mafia dogs”)

• Honest marriage talk—connection, trust, respect, and why real conversations matter

• The rise of loneliness in men, how marriage is evolving, and the biggest mistakes couples make today

• Sex, money, and the not-so-glamorous realities of long-term relationships

• How we keep rewriting the marriage playbook—and why you should too

• The Man in the Arena Tour: Join us for a men’s-only event, May 17th, Salt Lake City, at the Maverick Center! More info at www.maninthearenatour.com

• You’ll also hear us ask ChatGPT some questions you never thought you needed answers to, get real about mom guilt, talk “man titties,” and explain why nobody wants to end up in a B-level marriage.

If you love real, raw conversations about marriage, business, and family life—don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE this episode with another couple or friend who needs to hear it!

👇 Drop your wildest “pet parent” stories or your biggest marriage lesson in the comments. We’d love to hear from you!

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In this raw and relatable episode of The Date Your Wife podcast, we sit down with power couple Matt and Whitney Enns to unpack the unfiltered reality of marriage, parenthood, and personal growth. From unexpected pregnancy and spontaneous proposals to healing from explosive arguments and building a life of deep emotional safety, their story is both inspiring and incredibly human.

We dive into the real-life struggles couples face, negotiating household responsibilities, managing unmet expectations, and learning how to fight well. Matt and Whitney share how their journey from dysfunction to deep connection wasn't easy, but absolutely worth it. With honesty and humor, they break down what it means to truly see your partner, how to communicate with clarity and compassion, and why emotional safety is the key to unlocking vulnerablility, especially for women.

You'll laugh, reflect, and maybe cry as they share the turth behind their now-thriving relationship. If you're navigating marriage, parenting, or personal transformation, this episode is a must-listen!

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