In this episode I give you some thoughts on what I believe is the main key to attracting women.

Many of you will *not* recognize yourself in some of the examples I give in this episode, and that's a good thing. When I say "you" in many cases I'm using it as the 'general you', meaning 'a general person'. I just want to make that clear. 💋

Below are examples of examples of "Regular *Looking* Guys" and beautiful women (I had to clarify this because I got some snark over it from someone who missed the point completely.)

Please note, **each one of them is exceptional in some way, as are the women they have attracted**. If you want a woman like these women, you have to do something like these guys have done - the saving grace is that you don't have to be great looking on top of it:

Salman Rushdie and Padma Lakshmi

Salma Hayek and Francois Pinault

Cameron Diaz and Benji Madden 

Music by Ben Sound 

This week I discuss grooming specifically to make yourself more attractive to the ladies. Little things you can do that you might not have even thought of. But we're paying attention, I promise :P

Links mentioned:


Eyebrow grooming

Twenty simple grooming tips

Boucleme hair products - I know there are photos of only girls on this site, but just ignore that :D

Virtual glasses try on or here

Budget online glasses - thanks to a listener for this tip about Warby Parker,  an independent eyeglass retailer who design and make their own frames and sell them online. Most pairs, including lenses, retail for about $100 after tax.

Music by Ben Sound
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This episode I talk about two specific things - the life you thought you'd have by now, and how to start making what you want real.

Link mentioned:

Under the Covers with Eve: You're Not a Virgin - You Just Think You Are

Music by Ben Sound 

This week I talk about how to spruce up your closet and start working on improving your wardrobe - but as always, it's easy, laid-back and without pressure.

Here are the links to the videos I talk about in this episode, and I really hope you'll watch them. None are sponsored links, these are just things I recommend.

What Not to Wear
These two videos feature women, but I think you'll get the idea.

Carly
Amy

Videos on Style for Men

10 Ways You're Dressing Wrong -  Maybe a bit too fashion forward, but you might enjoy it

How To Find Clothes that Fit Your Body

How to Buy Jeans that Fit

Part of a men's makeover series

Same series for a bigger guy


Sites

DXL - if you’re already a kind of fashion forward bigger guy, DXL is a great store that carries the major brands in larger sizes.

Value Village - start your new shopping adventure here, you won't be sorry.


music by Bensound.com 

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This week I want to start building up your foundation...but slowly. Easily. With a couple of simple mental exercises that hopefully will help you to start seeing yourself in a different way.

music by Ben Sound

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This is your morning, the start of your day...how are you going to treat yourself? Like someone you value? Like someone important? How you start your day can set the tone for the rest of your day. And since your days make up your life, it's important to start off right.

Music by [Bensound.com](http://www.bensound.com)

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If you're a 'regular guy', and you could use a little advice to help you come out of your shell, improve your outlook, attract a woman and or just feel better about yourself, give my series a try.

It has helped thousands of men (some of whom you'll hear from in episode 19), and it could help you too.

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