In this episode of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, Vanessa De Jesus Guzman sits down with Sara Diaz, also known as the First-Gen Madrina, to share an engaging conversation about the unique journey of being a first-generation college student and professional. Sara dives into the highs and lows of navigating this path, emphasizing the value of representation, the feeling of belonging, and how mindfulness can make a real difference in managing mental health and achieving success.

You’ll hear Sara’s story, filled with honest reflections and practical advice on advocating for yourself and building strong, supportive communities. Her passion for empowering first-gen individuals shines through, as she talks about breaking down barriers and creating opportunities for the next generation.

Whether you’re first-gen or simply curious about the experiences of those paving the way for themselves and their families, this episode is packed with valuable lessons in resilience, self-confidence, and going after your dreams. Join us for a friendly and inspiring conversation that will leave you motivated to make a positive impact in your own community!

REFERENCED LINKS:

https://thefirstgenmadrina.com/
https://www.instagram.com/thefirstgenmadrina/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/sara-diaz-lcsw/

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Welcome to The Consult a Counselor Series, a special segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, where therapist and host Vanessa De Jesus Guzman, LPC, NCC, tackles real-life parenting-related questions, helping you find balance, reduce worry, and live mindfully with your children.

Today’s Question:
"How should I address my child’s lying or dishonest behavior?"

In this episode, Vanessa explores the tricky topic of lying in children and teens. She breaks down the developmental reasons behind dishonesty at different ages, helping parents understand why young kids and teens might lie and how to respond effectively. Vanessa shares practical, age-appropriate strategies to address lying while maintaining a trusting relationship, teaching children about accountability, and supporting their emotional development.

Tune in to learn:

• How to recognize the differences in lying behaviors between young children and teens
• Ways to stay calm and gather information to understand the root cause of dishonesty
• Age-specific tips to encourage honesty in both early elementary children and teenagers
• How to set clear boundaries and logical consequences that reinforce trust
• Why modeling honesty and keeping communication open are key to fostering honesty at any age

Vanessa’s insights offer parents a balanced approach to handling lying in a way that fosters growth, understanding, and connection with their child.

Takeaway Message: Addressing dishonesty in a calm and thoughtful way not only helps children understand the value of honesty but also builds a foundation of trust. Remember, every age has its unique challenges, and with patience and guidance, you’re helping your child develop into a responsible, truthful adult.

Listen in, and remember... you’re always free to be mindful!

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Struggling to find balance? It’s time to reframe how we view stress and embrace the chaos!

In this episode, we dive into the idea that stress isn’t always a bad thing. Sometimes, we actually thrive in the busyness of our lives! Join Vanessa De Jesus Guzman as she explores how we can navigate our responsibilities with intention and mindfulness. By examining our “have to” lists and asking the tough questions, we can discover what truly matters and let go of the pressure to be perfect.

Tune in as Vanessa shares practical tips for managing stress, including the importance of micro-breaks, setting boundaries, and shifting your mindset from “I have to” to “I get to.” This episode is a reminder that we have the power to control our responses to stress and create a more fulfilling life.

Get ready to embrace the chaos and find joy in the journey of motherhood!

Thought-Provoking Questions:

• Are you really "making" yourself do everything on your to-do list?
• When you have free time, do you feel anxious or relieved?
• What do your kids truly want: Pinterest-perfect parties or quality time with you?

Practical Tips:

1. Embrace Micro-Breaks: Steal little moments for self-care throughout your day.
2. Prioritize the Basics: Don’t forget to sleep well, eat healthily, and move your body.
3. Set Boundaries: It’s okay to say no to events that don’t serve you.
4. Ask for Help: Remember, seeking support is a sign of strength, not failure.
5. Shift Your Mindset: Change your perspective from “I have to” to “I get to” to find joy in the little things.

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Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.