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In this episode of Global Desi Women, guest host Natasha Solanki joins co-hosts Karishma Shelley, Simki Palicha, and Tanvi Solanki to explore the many layers of Indian parental expectations and how they shape life’s biggest choices—from careers to relationships, and eventually, starting a family. Growing up in an Indian household often means facing high expectations in every area of life, and the hosts open up about the impact these pressures have had on them personally, beginning with career choices. They discuss how their families' guidance (and sometimes demands) influenced the paths they pursued, and how these career expectations often differed drastically between siblings, especially when comparing girls and boys. For many Desi daughters, expectations of stability, prestige, and family honor led to a narrower set of “acceptable” careers. The hosts reflect on the experiences of pushing boundaries or conforming to family desires, and how these choices impacted their sense of self-worth and identity.

The conversation then delves into dating and marriage, topics that bring a unique blend of modern desires and traditional expectations. The hosts discuss the delicate balance of navigating their own desires for independence and self-expression with the more traditional views their parents may hold about relationships and the idea of "settling down." They share stories of navigating these expectations within the dating world, the challenges of introducing a partner to their family, and the ongoing pressure to conform to an ideal of marriage that may not fully align with their personal goals. For some, dating openly or pursuing a love marriage rather than an arranged marriage can become a source of tension, creating a need to bridge generational perspectives on love and commitment.

Through heartfelt anecdotes, relatable struggles, and plenty of laughter, this episode provides an honest look at the journey of navigating Indian parental expectations. From career choices and dating to marriage and starting a family, Natasha, Karishma, Simki, and Tanvi offer a candid discussion that will resonate with anyone who has felt the weight of family expectations. Join us for this episode to hear their stories and reflections on finding balance between honoring tradition and embracing individuality in a modern world.

If you have any questions, thoughts, or personal stories to share about navigating parental expectations, we’d love to hear from you! Your voice is an essential part of this conversation, and we welcome messages from listeners who want to dive deeper into the topics we discuss. Whether you’d like to give a shoutout to someone special, share a unique perspective, or simply connect with us, don’t hesitate to reach out. Join us on social media or drop us a message—your insights and experiences are what make Global Desi Women a true community. Let’s keep this dialogue going together!

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As we prepare for the new year, many of us are thinking about the goals we want to set, yet setting these goals as Desi women comes with unique cultural perspectives and expectations. Join host Arti Solanki a Business Coach / Real Estate Broker, alongside co-hosts Karishma Shelley and Bhavana Shelley, in this special episode where we break down what it means to set goals that truly resonate with our identities and ambitions.

From redefining personal boundaries to navigating family expectations, we’ll talk through every aspect of building goals that feel both achievable and aligned with our cultural values. We’ll cover diverse areas like:

• Travel Goals: Tips on making travel a priority, from exploring destinations that connect us to our roots to balancing family responsibilities with the desire for adventure and self-discovery.
• Health & Wellness Goals: A look at physical and mental wellness from a holistic perspective, considering the benefits of traditional practices like yoga and Ayurveda while embracing modern fitness goals. We’ll discuss realistic ways to incorporate wellness routines, nutritional balance, and mental health practices into our lives.
• Financial Empowerment: Financial planning is crucial for personal growth and independence. We’ll dive into goal-setting strategies around budgeting, saving, and investing, focusing on how Desi women can build financial security and independence. We’ll also discuss the importance of educating ourselves and younger generations about money management.
• Career & Business Goals: Whether you’re an entrepreneur, working professional, or exploring new ventures, we’ll discuss how to set career goals that reflect your skills, passions, and aspirations. This segment will include advice on building confidence, networking, and setting sustainable business goals if you’re a small business owner or aspiring entrepreneur.

Throughout the episode, Arti, Karishma, and Bhavana will share their personal journeys and insights, discussing how their cultural backgrounds have influenced their ambitions, and they’ll offer actionable tips on creating goals that inspire resilience, joy, and growth. Listen in to uncover ways to step boldly into the new year with goals that honor both your heritage and your dreams.

Make this year your most purposeful yet—by setting goals that truly align with who you are as a Desi woman!

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From Housewife to Entrepreneur – My Journey Unfolded

In today's solo episode of Global Desi Women, I’m inviting you behind the scenes of my journey from a housewife to a business owner and coach. 🌟 I am your host Arti Solanki, a real estate broker at Livin Large Realty, a business coach for women entrepreneurs, and a co founder of an IT company Om Enterprise Inc.

Life was stable and comfortable, but when my husband lost his long-time job, we were faced with a decision that changed everything: starting our own business.

With no experience and a lot of uncertainty, we dove into the deep end, facing countless challenges, from securing clients to rebuilding from setbacks. I’ll share the unfiltered truth about our ups and downs, the moments that tested our resolve, and how each obstacle only fueled my determination to succeed.

Along the way, I discovered strengths I never knew I had, and I built a passion that has since grown into a calling: helping other women find their own paths to success. This episode dives into the pivotal moments that shaped me, from starting with no roadmap to finally standing on my own two feet as a business coach and entrepreneur.

Tune in to hear how we went from surviving to thriving—and how I found my true passion along the way, inspiring me to empower other women on their own entrepreneurial paths. If you’re curious about the realities of building a business, ready for an honest story about resilience, or just in need of some motivation, this episode is for you.

Join me as I reflect on the lessons, surprises, and turning points that have defined my journey so far—and maybe even spark your own journey to greatness.From Housewife to Entrepreneur – My Journey Unfolded

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In this heartfelt episode of Global Desi Women, we explore the deep-rooted significance of female friendships and the unique sisterhood that shapes women’s lives. Arti Solanki, joined by a group of inspiring women as your co-hosts are Bhavana Shelley, Shwetha Reddy, Rhea Palicha as we unpack the emotional and psychological benefits of having strong female connections. From childhood friends who become our confidantes to the women who enter our lives later and change them forever, this episode dives into the power of shared experiences, trust, and unconditional support.

We’ll discuss the importance of emotional bonds that transcend geographical and cultural boundaries, navigating the challenges of long-distance friendships, balancing career and personal time, and how to maintain these meaningful relationships in today’s fast-paced world. The conversation touches on overcoming conflicts, jealousy, and the evolving nature of friendships as we grow, age, and change.

Expect personal anecdotes, tips on strengthening and sustaining these invaluable relationships, and a celebration of the loyalty, love, and empowerment that comes from women supporting women. Whether you've had a best friend for decades or are still seeking your tribe, this episode will remind you of the profound role female friendships play in our journey through life.

Join us for an uplifting discussion that celebrates sisterhood and encourages all women to cherish the friends who stand beside them through every twist and turn of life.

Would you like to focus on any specific aspects, such as cultural differences in female friendships, or keep it more general?

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Welcome back to another exciting episode of Global Desi Women, the podcast where we explore the unique journeys, challenges, and triumphs of Desi women around the world. I'm your host, Arti Solanki, with Co host Swetha Reddy, Natasha Solanki, Toral Gandhi and today we’re diving into a topic that’s transforming the landscape for women entrepreneurs—how technology is empowering Indian businesswomen like never before.

From e-commerce platforms and social media to fintech solutions and online education, technology is opening doors and breaking down barriers that once held women back. Whether it's a small boutique in Mumbai going global through Instagram, or rural women using mobile apps to build their own enterprises, tech is leveling the playing field and providing opportunities for women from all walks of life to rise and thrive.

In today’s episode, we’ll be talking about the game-changing role of technology in empowering Indian women entrepreneurs, the tools they’re using to grow their businesses, and the real-life success stories that show just how far we’ve come. We'll also look at the challenges still ahead and how we can continue to support these incredible women on their journeys to success.

So, grab your chai, settle in, and let’s get inspired by the power of technology and the unstoppable force that is the Indian businesswoman!

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Welcome to a one-of-a-kind journey into the vibrant, chaotic, and unforgettable experience of attending an Indian wedding—The Great Indian Wedding Guest Olympics, with your host Arti Solanki, and co hosts Bhavana Shelley, Natasha Gandhi and Usha Khatri. In this episode, we’ll dive into the ultimate guest challenge, where every invitee competes in their own way to emerge as the best-dressed, the most energetic dancer, and the most culturally savvy participant. Indian weddings are not just events; they are grand, multi-day celebrations filled with traditions, colors, food, and fun. But for guests, it can feel like an endurance test with its own set of Olympic-level obstacles!

From navigating endless rituals to surviving the dance floor, we’ll explore what it takes to be a stellar wedding guest while sharing plenty of laughs and insights along the way.

Outfit Olympics – Dress to Impress

The competition begins before you even arrive at the venue! Every guest knows that outfit choices for an Indian wedding are a crucial first step in making your mark. From elegant sarees to dazzling lehengas and embroidered sherwanis, the fashion stakes are high. We’ll discuss the "strategy" behind picking the perfect ensemble for each event, including how to balance tradition with modern trends and, of course, pulling off multiple outfit changes like a pro. Who’s walking away with the gold for best-dressed?

The Dance Floor Marathon – Can You Keep Up?

Next up is the Dance Floor Marathon, where endurance and enthusiasm are the keys to success. Indian weddings are known for their high-energy dances, especially during the Sangeet and reception. The dance floor transforms into a scene of exuberant Bollywood moves and traditional dances like Bhangra. We’ll explore how guests (and even first-timers) can keep up with the nonstop fun. Who’s got the stamina to dance all night, and who gracefully bows out after a few songs?

Food Frenzy – Mastering the Buffet

Indian weddings are also a food lover’s paradise. In this round, we’ll see how guests tackle the overwhelming variety of dishes, from snacks and appetizers to the main courses and desserts. But with so many options, pacing is key—who can sample it all without overindulging too early? We’ll talk about the strategy for surviving (and savoring) the multi-course meals that are part of every Indian wedding. If you can handle the buffet relay, you might just win the title of "Foodie Champion."

Round 4: Ceremony Navigation – Understanding the Rituals

For many guests, understanding the many rituals and traditions at an Indian wedding can be a challenge. Whether it’s the Mehendi, the Haldi, the Varmala exchange, or the main wedding ceremony itself, there’s a lot to take in. In this segment, we’ll discuss how guests can navigate the rich cultural ceremonies with grace, even if they aren’t familiar with every custom. Who’s the ceremony expert, and who’s just trying to figure out when to clap and cheer?

The Endurance Test – Surviving It All

After days of celebrations, with back-to-back events that last from early morning rituals to late-night receptions, some guests are still going strong, while others are waving the white flag. In this final round, we’ll honor those who have managed to keep up with every event and activity. Whether you’re a seasoned wedding-goer or attending your first Indian wedding, making it through the entire celebration is a feat in itself. Who will survive the ultimate wedding guest endurance test?

Whether you’re preparing for your next Indian wedding or reminiscing about one you’ve attended, the Great I

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In this episode of Global Desi Women, we celebrate one of the most cherished aspects of Indian culture—our festivals. Whether it’s the shimmering lights of Diwali, the vibrant colors of Holi, or the soulful celebrations of Eid, Indian festivals are rich with tradition and cultural significance. But how do these grand celebrations evolve when we're living abroad? How do we keep the spirit of these festivals alive while navigating life in a different cultural setting?

Host Arti Solanki and her co-hosts Bhavana Shelley, Vinoo Palicha, and Karishma Shelley dive into the experiences of Indians living abroad, reflecting on how festivals like Diwali, Navratri, and Holi help keep cultural connections strong. These festivals not only bring families together but also serve as a bridge to the homeland, allowing us to hold onto our heritage, even as we integrate into new communities. However, celebrating these festivals abroad comes with its own set of challenges, from time zone differences and the lack of public holidays to difficulties in finding traditional foods, decorations, and attire. The hosts explore how families overcome these hurdles, finding creative ways to recreate festive traditions far from home.

One of the most significant aspects of celebrating Indian festivals abroad is the role of community. Whether it’s local temples, cultural centers, or informal gatherings of friends and families, Indian communities across the world come together to celebrate these occasions. The hosts share personal stories of grand Diwali parties, Garba nights during Navratri, and Holi celebrations in local parks, all of which offer a sense of belonging and camaraderie. These community-driven events often become larger than life, showcasing Indian culture to a wider audience and blending traditional celebrations with local flavor.

The conversation also touches on the fusion of traditions that often takes place when celebrating festivals abroad. Many diaspora families blend their Indian heritage with the customs of their adopted countries, creating hybrid celebrations that reflect both cultures. From celebrating Diwali alongside Thanksgiving to introducing their non-Indian friends to the colors and joy of Holi, these fusions offer unique opportunities for cultural exchange and understanding.

Generational differences also come into play, as the hosts discuss how second-generation Indian children, born and raised abroad, often experience festivals differently from their parents. For the older generation, there is a strong desire to replicate the festivals exactly as they were back home, while the younger generation may be more inclined to adapt the celebrations to fit their new environment.

The emotional side of celebrating festivals abroad is also a key topic in this episode. For many immigrants, festivals bring a bittersweet feeling of nostalgia and homesickness as they remember celebrating these occasions with large family gatherings back in India.

As the episode wraps up, the hosts delve into the growing trend of sustainable celebrations, highlighting how diaspora families are embracing eco-friendly practices like plastic-free decorations, organic Holi colors, and upcycled festival attire. The conversation reveals how these modern values are blending with traditional practices, ensuring that festivals not only honor cultural heritage but also promote sustainability.

Tune in to this enlightening episode to hear how Indians across the world are keeping the spirit of their festivals alive, even while far from home. Whether you’re lighting diyas on your balcony in New York or throwing colors in a London park, Indian festivals continue to offer a powerfu

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In this episode of Global Desi Women, we explore the deep connections between fashion and identity in the Desi community. Fashion is not just about what we wear—it is a reflection of our heritage, culture, and individuality. From vibrant sarees to bold lehengas and contemporary fusion styles, Desi fashion is full of rich symbolism and tradition. But how does what we wear shape who we are?

Host Arti Solanki and her co-hosts Vinoo, Rhea, and Simki dive into how fashion plays a crucial role in preserving cultural identity, especially within the Indian diaspora. Traditional attire like sarees, salwar kameez, and kurtas not only represent our roots but also provide a sense of connection to our heritage during significant cultural moments such as weddings, religious festivals, and family celebrations. The episode highlights the pride and joy many women feel in wearing traditional Indian clothing while exploring how these garments help keep our cultural traditions alive, even for those living far from India.

But as we discuss tradition, we also explore the influence of Western fashion on Desi style, especially for the younger generations. For many second-generation South Asians, fashion is a way to blend the old and the new—balancing their Indian heritage with modern Western influences. This fusion style reflects the dual identity that many women navigate in their daily lives. The co-hosts share their own experiences of mixing traditional and Western attire in both professional and social settings, and how these choices allow them to express themselves while still honoring their roots.

The conversation also turns to Bollywood's powerful influence on fashion. Bollywood has always been a trendsetter for Desi fashion, and its impact on beauty and style is undeniable. The glitz, glamor, and colorful costumes in Bollywood movies set aspirational fashion trends that often trickle down into everyday life. The episode explores how these films create both admiration and unrealistic beauty standards, and how Bollywood fashion influences everything from weddings to casual wear.

Throughout the episode, the hosts discuss the tension between generational differences in fashion choices. Older generations may lean more toward traditional attire, while younger women experiment with blending Desi and Western styles. This often leads to conversations (and sometimes conflict) around what is considered "appropriate" to wear in family or community settings.

The discussion continues into the realm of bridal fashion, highlighting the significance of traditional bridal attire like sarees and lehengas and the pressure on brides to conform to cultural expectations. As modern brides seek to blend personal style with tradition, bridal fashion has become a canvas for expressing individuality, while still respecting cultural customs.

Finally, the episode touches on the growing trend toward sustainable and conscious fashion within the Desi community. As fast fashion continues to dominate, there’s a growing movement toward supporting local artisans, upcycling traditional garments, and embracing eco-friendly fashion choices. The hosts explore how women can adopt sustainable fashion practices while maintaining a connection to their cultural identity.

Tune in to this insightful conversation about how fashion and identity intersect in the Desi community. From family traditions to personal expression, fashion is a powerful medium that reflects who we are, where we come from, and how we choose to navigate our cultural journey.

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