We’re kicking off the summer with a throwback to one of our most loved episodes! In this powerful and personal conversation, we sit down with our dear friend Victor John Madrid Villanueva to talk about what it really means to live authentically.

From growing up with immigrant parents to navigating life as a gay Filipino-American artist, Victor shares his journey of self-definition, rebellion, and radical self-expression. We get into family expectations, workplace identity, creativity, and why showing up as your whole self is one of the most freeing things you can do.

About Our Guest:Victor John Madrid Villanueva is an artist and designer based in New York. By day, he works in the beauty industry creating for IT Cosmetics, and by heart, he’s a beadwork artist who celebrates culture and identity through fashion, portraiture, and play.

Learn more about Victor-John at www.victorjohnart.com

Follow him on IG: @victorjohnart

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Join us as we explore the complex relationship between consumerism and living an abundant life, especially within Black and Brown communities. Our conversation kicks off with an introspective look at how the ease of purchasing through apps can lead to impulsive buying and the societal pressures that fuel our need to acquire more. We discuss the dismantling of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) programs and their broader implications in corporate America. As we unravel these themes, we encourage listeners to reflect on their consumption habits, emphasizing the importance of conscious spending and understanding who truly benefits from DEI efforts.

Exploring the powerful relationship between consumerism and the Black communities, we dive into the historical marketing tactics that have shaped buying behaviors. We challenge the idea that success is defined by what we own and instead explore how healing generational traumas and breaking cycles can begin with more mindful choices. Through personal stories and reflections, we advocate for a purpose-driven life that values experiences and community support over material possessions. This path to abundance lies in intentional living and redefining what it means to lead a fulfilling life.

As first-generation Americans and members of diverse communities, many of us are navigating cultural expectations while trying to stay true to ourselves. We share personal reflections on overcoming life challenges, choosing values over validation, and the joy that comes from supporting local businesses and living with intention.

We invite listeners to engage in their own systems of value, prioritize self-care, and foster community support, reminding everyone to share knowledge and elevate their lives by focusing on their divine purpose.

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Growing up, watching our parents navigate a new world with courage and determination has left a lasting impression on us. Despite language barriers and cultural clashes, their pursuit of home ownership and education laid the groundwork for our dreams. This thought-provoking episode explores what it means to dream big while breaking generational cycles, particularly as first-generation Americans from the Dominican and Caribbean communities, navigate identity and build a life that honors the past but reaches toward a greater future.

Through authentic conversations, we confront imposter syndrome and perfectionism—two inner battles many Latino, Black, and Brown communities face as we break into spaces not designed for us. We celebrate the self-discovery journeys of traveling internationally and investing strategically—milestones made possible by the sacrifices of our parents. These uplifting and provocative discussions are rooted in healing generational traumas and finding strength through community with like-minded people.

Balancing dreams with action is more than a concept—it’s a daily practice. We dive into elevated conversations around parenting as first-gens: how to protect our children without stifling their growth. We discuss the anxiety born from overprotection and the resilience built through failure. In a digital world full of comparisons, we advocate for setting small, actionable goals and embracing your path, however uncertain it may feel.

This episode is also a celebration of purpose. We share personal stories of discipline, goal-setting, and accountability, tying them to our broader mission: elevating the voices of Black and Brown communities and supporting Black entrepreneurship, especially innovative solutions that uplift Black farmers. Our podcast journey is of cultural empowerment, where familiar voices offer Caribbean perspectives and Dominican voices that aim to raise awareness through stories and shared truths. This episode invites you into a space of growth, empowerment, and healing. Managing cultural identity clashes and overcoming life challenges takes work, but you don’t have to do it alone.

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