In this episode, I’m opening up about the real-life challenges of parenting a child with autism and how tough it can be to navigate modern lifestyle expectations. From the outside, social media can make it seem like everyone’s living a perfect life—taking vacations, going to the zoo, and enjoying picture-perfect moments. But for families like ours, just going to a county fair or a football game can feel overwhelming.

I share how we’ve learned to find joy in the simple things. Whether it’s a backyard sprinkler, a four-wheeler ride, or just playing chase in the yard, the best memories we’ve made are when I’m fully present with the kids—no matter how big or small the activity is. I’ve realized that letting go of the pressure to keep up with everyone else has allowed me to focus on what really matters: the love and laughter shared with my kids, whether they’re typical or non-typical.

• Let go of lifestyle expectations and embrace what works for your family.
• Simple moments like backyard fun or quiet time can create the happiest memories for kids.
• Your child loves you for who you are and doesn’t need extravagant experiences to feel joy.
• Don’t compare your family’s journey to others on social media—every family is unique.
• Finding ways to connect with your kids, even in the smallest ways, creates lasting bonds.

Thanks so much for listening! If this episode hit home for you, I’d love it if you shared it with someone who might need to hear it. Remember, it’s not about where you go or what you do—it’s about being present and finding joy in each moment. Feel free to visit spectrumincamouflage.com or email me at tommy@spectrumincamouflage.com—I’d love to hear your thoughts!