In today's episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron interviews John-Michael Bout, executive director of Into the Light Ministries and father of three. Drawing from his personal journey of addiction that began at age eight and his eventual freedom through accountability and community, John-Michael shares powerful insights about equipping families to navigate biblical sexuality in an increasingly explicit digital world. His ministry creates free resources that help parents protect their children while training them to develop spiritual integrity and discernment.

In this eye-opening conversation, we explore:

• Why the average age of pornography exposure is now eight years old and what parents can do about it
• How pornography addiction is increasingly affecting women and the unique shame they experience
• The importance of focusing on God's beautiful design for sexuality rather than just prohibitions
• Practical strategies for having age-appropriate conversations with children about sexuality
• Why simply protecting children isn't enough—they need training to navigate temptation
• How the porn industry actively targets children and the tactics they use to create early exposure
• The vital difference between protecting our children and preparing them for adulthood
• Why technology safeguards alone won't solve the problem of pornography
• The power of community support in raising children with sexual integrity
• Free resources available to help parents navigate these difficult conversations

Whether you're a parent concerned about protecting your children, a spouse supporting a partner through recovery, or someone personally struggling with pornography, this conversation offers biblical wisdom, practical tools, and hope for building a home of integrity and freedom.

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Connect with John-Michael Bout:

• Into the Light Ministries: intothelightministries.ca
• Free Resources: "Parenting and Pornography" and "TechSafe" series
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/intothelight_ministries/

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KEY WORDS: Marriage After God, Aaron Smith, John-Michael Bout, Into the Light Ministries, pornography, biblical sexuality, parenting resources, digital integrity, family protection, children's discipleship, technology safeguards, sexual purity, Christian parenting, media discernment, spiritual formation

In today's episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron interviews Mike and Holly Worley, founders of Spark Discipleship. High school sweethearts who have been married for 16 years, they share their journey through the challenges of early marriage, healing from past trauma, and discovering the power of authentic community. With three children and a passion for discipleship, the Worleys candidly discuss the mistakes they made and the lessons they learned about building a thriving marriage centered on Christ.

In this vulnerable conversation, we explore:

• How being a safe person for your spouse creates space for healing from past trauma
• The three critical mistakes many couples make early in marriage that can limit growth
• Why simply attending church isn't enough—true commitment means active participation
• The difference between having friends and having authentic Christian community
• Practical steps for finding and pursuing mentorship from older, wiser couples
• How marriage becomes richer and deeper through years of sanctification together
• The importance of walking alongside others in their struggles rather than trying to fix them
• Why healthy marriages are meant to be disciple-making partnerships
• The healing process that happens when couples work through past trauma together
• How vulnerability and honesty open the door to genuine connection and growth

Whether you're newly married, struggling with past trauma, feeling isolated in your faith journey, or simply wanting to strengthen your marriage, this conversation offers biblical wisdom and practical encouragement for becoming a disciple-making couple.

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Connect with Mike & Holly Worley:

• Website: sparkdiscipleship.com
• Free Resources: "Five Practices of a Thriving Marriage," "Weekly Huddle Guide," and "Investing Spiritually in Your Spouse"
• Ministry: Helping couples build thriving marriages through church commitment, authentic community, and mentorship

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KEY WORDS: Marriage After God, Aaron Smith, Mike Worley, Holly Worley, marriage mentorship, authentic community, church commitment, healing from trauma, safe relationships, biblical marriage, disciple-making couples, Spark Discipleship, marriage discipleship, Christian community, marriage sanctification

In today's episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron interviews Sathiya and Shaloma Sam, founders of Deep Clean Coaching. After five years of marriage and welcoming their 15-month-old son, they share their journey of building a ministry that helps men overcome pornography addiction while maintaining a strong marriage foundation. Sathiya transparently discusses his personal struggle with pornography and how it shaped his passion to help others find freedom, while Shaloma offers valuable perspective on supporting a spouse through recovery.

In this transparent conversation, we explore:

• How to build a ministry without sacrificing your marriage, including the importance of non-negotiable date nights
• Why confessing temptations is often more powerful than confessing mistakes in breaking addiction cycles
• The healing power of bringing struggles into the light through open and honest communication
• How shame keeps us trapped in cycles of addiction and secrecy
• Practical ways spouses can create a safe environment for confession and vulnerability
• The role of empathy and compassion in supporting a partner through recovery
• Why pornography addiction is fundamentally an intimacy disorder
• How focusing on the light rather than obsessing over darkness leads to freedom
• The dangers of the "trickle truth" approach and why complete honesty is necessary
• Why healthy marriages and families are the backbone of a thriving society

Whether you're struggling with pornography, supporting a spouse through recovery, or seeking to build a ministry while protecting your marriage, this conversation offers biblical wisdom, practical strategies, and hope for lasting freedom.

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Connect with Sathiya & Shaloma Sam:

• Deep Clean Coaching: https://www.sathiyasam.com/
• Podcast: Man Within https://www.sathiyasam.com/podcast
• Instagram: @sathiyasam - https://www.instagram.com/sathiyamesam/

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KEY WORDS: Marriage After God, Aaron Smith, Sathiya Sam, Shaloma Sam, pornography recovery, sexual integrity, confession, marriage ministry, addiction freedom, vulnerability, intimacy disorder, marriage support, spouse healing, transparency, biblical freedom, overcoming shame, marriage first