This episode provides invaluable guidance on fostering a robust sexual relationship within marriage. We delve into essential tips that serve as a continuation of The Lover's Dozen series, emphasizing the significance of intentionality and commitment in achieving a fulfilling sex life.

Drawing upon our nearly 48 years of marriage, we express the importance of viewing intimacy not merely as a physical act, but as a complete expression of love and connection.

Our discussion further highlights the necessity of nurturing both emotional and spiritual bonds, as these elements are intricately linked to sexual satisfaction. By employing a proactive approach to intimacy, we aspire to equip couples with the tools necessary to enrich their marital experience and cultivate a rewarding sexual relationship.

Takeaways:

• Investing time in your marriage through resources like this podcast can enhance your relationship significantly.
• Engaging in regular conversations about intimacy can fortify the emotional connection between partners.
• The principles discussed in this episode are rooted in over 47 years of marriage and Christian teachings.
• A healthy sex life is crucial for a thriving marriage and requires intentional effort from both partners.
• Both partners should actively participate in nurturing their intimacy to ensure mutual satisfaction in their relationship.
• Addressing underlying issues, such as resentment or poor communication, is essential for a fulfilling sex life.

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• Scripture References: Ecclesiastes 9:9; Song of Solomon 7:1-9; Song of Solomon 1:2; Song of Solomon 4:10-11; Proverbs 5:18-19; Song of Solomon 7:10-12; Song of Solomon 8:4

The Fizzlers--Fizzlers - things that affect our sex life

Work, children, pressures, stress, fatigue, illness,

unfulfilled expectations, lack of knowledge, selfishness, abuse, bad

experiences, guilt, wrong viewpoints; prude; fear of pregnancy; the feeling of duty

sex, bad influences; parental upbringing/opinion, boredom.

Additional

“fizzlers” that can cause a low sex drive.

Hormone imbalances, illness (short-term or long-term),

medications, stress, depression, age, being pregnant, childbirth, unresolved

conflict, unresolved emotional issues, erectile dysfunction and premature

ejaculation, unsatisfying sex, relationship struggles, pain; vaginismus.

Plus our past can affect our sex life- like premarital

sex and previous marriages sex. Sexual abuse. A bad sexual experience.

Tips from The Lover's Dozen Series

• We learned how to understand each other and ourselves.
• We developed a passion to meet each other's needs.
• We realized demands in life may hinder our spouse’s ability to meet our needs.
• We are a team.
• We learn to communicate properly.
• We chill out and enjoy each other.
• We put on love.
• We've developed common interests.
• We do Boredom Busters.
• We fan the flame - ROMANCE.
• We go by the good book, the Bible.
• Sex - Fizzle or sizzle

In this episode we'll be talking about God's desire for your sex life--it's a hot sizzle and not fizzle. As we delve into this essential aspect of marital life, we draw upon our extensive experience and foundational Christian principles to illuminate the pathways toward a fulfilling and vibrant sexual relationship. We emphasize the importance of intentionality and open communication, encouraging couples to explore their desires and needs, thereby forging a deeper connection. Throughout our discourse, we will highlight both the challenges that may inhibit intimacy and the strategies that can facilitate a richer, more rewarding sexual experience. Ultimately, our goal is to inspire couples to embrace the fullness of their sexual relationship as a vital component of their marital harmony.

Takeaways:

• This episode emphasizes the importance of intentionality in enhancing one’s marital relationship, particularly regarding sexual intimacy.
• The hosts discuss the necessity of maintaining a vibrant and fulfilling sex life as integral to a healthy marriage.
• Listeners are encouraged to recognize the various factors that can hinder sexual satisfaction and to proactively address them.
• The significance of mutual pleasure and open communication between partners is highlighted as essential for a rewarding sexual experience.
• The episode underscores the concept that sex is not merely an event but a vital aspect of the marital relationship that requires nurturing.
• The discussion calls upon listeners to seek God's guidance in their sexual lives, advocating for prayer and intentionality in enhancing intimacy.

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Scripture References: Ecclesiastes 9:9; Song of Solomon 7:1-9; Song of Solomon 1:2; Song of Solomon 4:10-11; Proverbs 5:18-19; Song of Solomon 7:10-12; Song of Solomon 8:4

In this podcast episode, we explored the importance of intentionally nurturing romantic relationships within marriage to prevent stagnation and foster growth.

We discussed how romance requires daily effort and creativity, likening it to fanning the flames of a fire to maintain warmth and passion.

The significance of understanding and catering to each other's emotional needs was emphasized, highlighting the differences in romantic expectations between men and women.

Listeners were encouraged to communicate openly about their definitions of romance, fostering a deeper connection and understanding in their marriages.

Links referenced in this episode:

To sign up for our newsletter click the link below.

https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11

Website: www.marriedandloveit.com

Our email: marriedandloveit1977@gmail.com