Have you ever said, “Maybe we should open the marriage,” hoping to make your wife feel guilty?

Or maybe you’ve said, “I guess I’ll just find someone else who wants me.”

If so, this video is for you.

These comments don’t build connection. They break trust.

In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we explain why these threats always backfire — and what to do instead.

You’ll learn:
✅ Why most men don’t actually want an open marriage
✅ What’s really behind these threats
✅ How to stop leading with guilt or pressure
✅ What your wife hears when you make these comments
✅ How to stay strong without using fear or shame

Here’s what we cover:

Why suggesting an open marriage is not power — it’s pain

How it makes your wife feel unsafe, not closer

What’s going on under your anger, jokes, or passive threats

Why trust falls apart when you try to shock her into change

How to lead with calm truth instead of control

This video is for men who:
✔️ Feel rejected or unwanted in their marriage
✔️ Have said things out of pain they now regret
✔️ Want to rebuild trust and real intimacy
✔️ Are ready to stop reacting and start leading

You don’t need to guilt your wife into wanting you.
You don’t need to bluff about something that would destroy you.

You need strength.
You need truth.
You need to lead without fear.

That’s what The Secure Husband Process is all about.

If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.

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