Thinking and talking about lust as a part of sexual betrayal can be sooo fuzzy.
The struggle is real.
If you've ever done check-ins as a couple or tried to set boundaries around lust, then you know this is so confusing and nuanced!
Our favorite thing to do is to ask a lot of hard questions and challenge one another on these complex issues.
We want you to know that your fears, your hurts, and your frustrations are valid. One of the most exhausting heartaches can be that there are very few "right" answers for everyone.
Our message is that although we are not here to hand you the "right," one-size-fits-all answers, there are many right answers for you.
Join us as we pick apart the definitions, the origins, the connotations, and some of our own experiences in relation to lust as a part of sexual betrayal. As you listen, notice what fits. What sits well? What doesn't? Remember, you are the expert of you.
If you want to join in our discussions, we provide a private, free Facebook group called Awake: Resilience from Betrayal for people who have been betrayed. We also meet regularly LIVE on Zoom as a group (also free).
https://www.facebook.com/groups/1667836370046685
Just a little reminder, although we are specialized therapists, our podcast, support groups, and social media are not therapy, nor are they a replacement for therapy.