In this episode of “Getting Open w/ Andrea Miller,” Eli Harwood, known as Attachment Nerd, delves into her new book on connection-focused parenting, offering powerful insights on raising securely attached children. Eli and Andrea discuss the importance of compassion, understanding, and co-regulation in parenting, while also addressing the pitfalls of controlling parenting and the impact of attachment trauma. The episode features a live coaching session on handling tantrums and explores practical strategies for fostering trust, open communication, and emotional safety in parent-child relationships, all while navigating the challenges of modern parenting.

Chapters
00:00 - Welcome Eli Harwood, AKA Attachment Nerd
01:45 - The Importance of Connection in Parenting
04:09 - Debunking the Myths of Controlling Parenting
06:14 - Impact of Attachment Trauma
08:41 - The Role of Reflective Functioning
10:27 - Eli’s “I Was a Karen” Moment
14:39 - Repairing Relationships After Conflict
17:56 - Live Coaching Session: Handling Tantrums
21:42 - The Importance of Co-Regulation in Parenting
24:07 - Understanding Children’s Needs Behind Behavior
28:35 - Normalizing Child Lying and How to Handle It
35:36 - Helping Kids Develop Honesty
40:03 - Parenting Teens: Trust and Accountability
46:48 - The Role of Technology and Tracking Apps
49:46 - Building Secure Attachments in Different Stages
53:08 - Parenting with Playfulness and Repair
57:37 - Final Thoughts: Repairing and Reconnecting

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In this episode of “Getting Open w/ Andrea Miller,” teen life coach and motivational speaker Jesse LeBeau shares his inspiring underdog story and tackles the loneliness epidemic affecting today’s youth. Jesse offers valuable insights on building self-esteem, the dangers of social media, and the importance of positive role models and mentors in teenagers’ lives. He provides actionable advice for parents and teens on cultivating resilience, setting boundaries around technology, and finding purpose in the digital age, emphasizing the critical role of love, support, and allowing kids to learn from failure.

Chapters:

00:00 - Welcome to Getting Open
00:40 - Meet Jesse LeBeau: Teen Motivational Speaker
02:10 - Jesse’s Underdog Story: From Alaska to Success
06:30 - The Power of Attitude and Overcoming Challenges
08:05 - Loneliness Epidemic Impacting Teens
09:40 - Building Confidence and Self-Esteem in Teens
13:00 - The Role of Mentors in Teen Development
16:00 - Navigating the Dangers of Social Media
19:30 - Encouraging Resilience Through Failure
22:20 - Counteracting Technology’s Negative Effects
25:00 - Setting Boundaries: Phone Use and Parenting
28:00 - Importance of Real-Life Connections
32:00 - The Influence of Toxic Online Mentors
36:00 - Helping Teens Find Positive Role Models
39:30 - Closing Thoughts: Attitude is Everything

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In this episode of “Getting Open w/ Andrea Miller,” Hannah Maruyama, creator of “Degree Free,” challenges the traditional college route by advocating for alternative career paths that align with individual strengths and goals. She discusses the pitfalls of student loan debt, the limited opportunities a degree might bring, and the importance of exploring vocational creativity and non-college career options. Maruyama also shares success stories and offers insights into how parents can help their children make informed, future-proof career choices in an AI-driven world.

00:00 - Getting Open w/ Andrea Miller
02:12- Our Guest Today is Hannah Maruyama, creator of Degree Free
04:22 - Do we earn degrees or just purchase them?
06:08 - how to create a roadmap for your career
10:31 - using creativity to find your true calling in life
17:34 - Success Stories for Non-College Paths
25:07 - Encouraging Parents to Explore Alternatives to College
31:24 - Most kids don't understand how many jobs are actually out there
35:44 - Importance of Providing Information and Resources
48:44 - Live counseling session with Joanna's son
56:14 - How to Move Beyond Labels and Diagnoses
59:44 - How to Explore Alternative Paths to Success
01:06:43 - The Role of AI in Job Creation

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Join Andrea Miller in this episode of the Getting Open Podcast as she sits down with renowned marriage and family therapist Vienna Pharaon (@mindfulmft) to explore the power of healing origin wounds for healthier relationships. Vienna, author of “The Origins of You,” delves into key concepts like worthiness, trust, and safety wounds, and shares her personal journey of overcoming a high-conflict family dynamic. Learn how to break patterns, set boundaries, and embrace accountability to foster meaningful connections. Don’t miss this transformative conversation!

Chapters:
00:00 - Getting Open w/ Andrea Miller
00:50 - Vienna Pharaon joins the Getting Open Podcast
01:38 - How Do We Stop Repeating The Same Relationship Mistakes?
06:30 - What are the 5 origin wounds?
10:00 - Why Do We Make Mistakes When We Know Better?
15:00- the rabbit hole of shame and guilt
20:00 - relationships are here to grow each other
24:00 - What Is “Conditional Love” and worthiness?
31:00 - Being Aggressive Even When You’re Right Is Wrong
34:00 - How To Help Others Heal
46:00 - When You’re Stuck, Grieve More
55:00 - Understanding boundaries

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Have you ever wanted to learn how to manifest? In today's episode, we're joined by Dr. James Doty, a Stanford neuroscientist, to explain exactly how manifesting works.

Chapters:
00:00 - The Getting Open Podcast
00:45 - James R. Doty Joins The Getting Open Podcast
02:43 - Overcoming the Odds to Become Successful
12:00 - Saying “I Can’t” Makes It True
13:15 - Neuroscientist Explains Manifestation
21:20 - What You Want vs What You NEED
26:00 - What Role Does Compassion Have In Humans?
30:20 - Modern society has people stressed and anxious
36:30 - Growing Up In Unpredictable or Unsafe Environments
40:00 - Manifesting Going From Rags To Riches & Becoming Who You Were Meant To Be
53:20 - Practical Advice To Change Your Life
1:00:00 - Successfully Manifesting and Heart Coherence

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Dr. Frank Anderson, a Harvard-trained psychiatrist and trauma specialist, shares his personal journey of truth, trauma, and transformation. After undergoing conversion therapy, facing verbal and physical aggression, and so much more - Dr Frank was able to come to terms with who he is and ultimately become a successful (and happily married!) force of good for those in need

Chapters:
00:00 - Welcome to the Open Relationships Podcast
01:00 - Welcome Harvard Psychiatrist Dr Frank Anderson
02:30 - From Conversion Therapy Trauma to a Successful Life & Marriage
08:30 - Victim Energy vs Perpetrator Energy (flows through every trauma victim)
12:30 - Healing Family Trauma Through Communication (And Saying Sorry)
17:00 - Acknowledging Where You Went Wrong Instead of Blaming Others
23:45 - Holding Resentment For Those Who’ve Harmed You
28:00 - Uninvited Buddhas
32:00 - “Corrective Experiences” Help Heal Trauma
39:00 - Learning To Reduce Being Controlling
42:30 - There’s No Such Thing As Permanent Healing
50:00 - “When It’s Intense, It’s Yours”
55:00 - Overwhelming Experience vs Trauma

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This is the incredible true story of Peter Sage, a self help guru who ended up going to jail on "bogus" charges. Today he discusses the importance of identity and how it can shape our experiences, as well as the master skill of repairing breakdowns in relationships and how to apply it in challenging situations

Chapters:
00:00 - Peter Sage Joins The Open Relationships Podcast
02:45 - How Peter Sage Went to Prison
06:00 - what is a civil prisoner? It can happen to you
08:00 - theory doesn’t cover the cost of admission to higher levels of greatness
12:00 - Knowing You’re Going To Jail & Peter’s Secret Mission in Prison
17:00 - the master skill of relationships is avoiding breaking down
19:00 - The Scary Realities of Prison & How To Cope
22:00 - Every Thought You Think Creates A Chemical (And Thus An Emotion)
28:00 - Some People Are More Happy Being Unhappy
31:00 - Making “The Movie of Your Life” One You Would Pay To See Again
35:00 - Getting Through Life In Prison
40:00 - Being Growth Centric vs Being Comfort Centric
45:00 - Good People Can Make Bad Decisions
51:10 - A Real Time Coaching Session From Peter Sage
56:00 - Parenting Advice & Allowing Kids To Find Their Own Agency
1:02:00 - Are We Electromagnetic Beings?
1:06:30 - What Are Belief Shifts? (GOOP Fallacy: “Good Opinion of Other People”)

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In this beautiful, heartwarming, and inspiring episode of the Open Relationships Podcast, we’re joined by famous author Rebecca Woolf. Rebecca Woolf talks so honestly about her husband’s passing, the fights and infidelity of their marriage, and the process of moving forward. This is such a deep and fascinating conversation, and we hope you enjoy it as much as we were moved by it.

Chapters:
00:00 - Open Relationships: Transforming Together Welcomes Rebecca Woolf
01:00 - Navigating Life After My Husband’s Death
04:30 - Why Was Rebecca’s Book So Controversial?
08:00 - Is Monogamy The Norm OR The Goal? The Commonplace of Affairs
11:00 - Being Honest Even If You Get Hated For It
15:00 - Protecting Your Kids vs. Preparing Your Kids
17:20 - The Rage of Women (That We Can’t Talk About)
21:15 - What Grief Can Teach You
25:00 - Stay Or Leave: A Therapeutic Community For Women
33:30 - What Advice Would You Give Your 16yr Old Self?
35:45 - Things Aren’t Meant To Last Forever (Getting Comfortable With Death)
42:00 - How Kids Deal With Loss of a Loved One
51:00 - Is Gen Z Emotionally Healthier Than Older Generations?
52:45 - What One Night Stands & Death Have In Common

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