I hear it all the time with clients and friends: One parent is the liaison between the kids and their spouse. They soften the blow of bad news, buffer the emotions of struggle, keep their teens secrets from the other parent because they both fear that parent's reaction, and generally act as a go-between to help manage their partner's emotions.

This can feel necessary to keep the peace. This can feel like an act of betrayal. This can feel like a last ditch effort to support everyone as best you can, being the glue that holds. And usually it’s a little of all of it with some resentment sprinkled on top because you don’t want this role but have no idea how to shift it.

In today's episode I’ll teach you:

• Why we do this

• How and when to stop this behavior

• What it is really creating

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In Episode 241, "The Art (and Benefits) of Listening to Your Teenager," we dive deep into one of the most crucial, yet challenging, skills for parents: truly listening. You’ll learn about the two types of listening that can make or break your connection with your teen and get a practical guide on the dos and don’ts to use when they open up. Whether you're struggling to understand their world or just want to build a stronger relationship, this episode is packed with tips to transform how you listen and connect with your teenager. Tune in to discover the real power of being heard and give your teen the gift of understanding.

Ready to bring more peace into your parenting journey? Book a free Peaceful Parenting Strategy Call with me, where we’ll tackle your biggest family challenges and create a clear plan for a calmer, happier home. Let’s work together to turn chaos into connection and stress into peace—starting now!

From Christmas gifts to college applications, choosing friends, picking classes, applying for jobs, finding roommates, how to respond to a text, and even what to wear on any given Tuesday—life is full of decisions that can feel overwhelming. Add in the mental drain of decision fatigue, and it’s no wonder our teens (and even we) feel worn out by lunch!

But what if regret over decisions could be a teachable moment for your teens? Imagine the confidence they could build in making choices that align with the life they want, and the relief that could bring to your household. Decision-making is a learnable skill, and in today’s episode, I’m going to show you exactly how to help your teen master it.

What You’ll Learn:

• The hidden reason why decision-making is so difficult—and how to overcome it.
• Step-by-step strategies to guide your teen in making decisions they’ll feel good about.
• How to handle it when the 'wrong decision' is made, and turn it into a growth opportunity.

Want to go deeper and help your teen tackle life’s big decisions with ease? Book a free 30-minute consultation with me, and together we’ll work through your family’s biggest challenges.