If you’re waiting to feel ready before doing what God has asked you to do, this episode is for you.

Melissa Batt is joined by author, speaker, and new tech entrepreneur Misty Phillip to talk about her book, Spark Your Influence: Inspiring Women to Lead with Boldness, Purpose, and Passion. Together, they unpack what it really looks like to say yes to God in every season—even when it doesn’t make sense, even when fear creeps in, and especially when you’re tempted to stay stuck in the what-ifs.

From burnout and surrender to major pivots and trusting God’s redirection, this honest conversation is full of wisdom for Christian women who feel called to more but are unsure how to move. Whether you’re leading in your home, at work, in ministry, or simply trying to show up with purpose, this is your reminder to stop holding back and start walking in faith-driven obedience.

• [00:00] - Welcome & Guest Intro Melissa introduces Misty Phillip and the powerful message behind Spark Your Influence, a book about leading boldly through obedience to God.

• [06:46] - Rejection, Obedience & the Fear That Holds Us Back Misty speaks into Melissa’s personal fear of rejection, reminding listeners that saying no often says more about others than it does about you.

• [10:54] - When God Says Go (Even If You Don’t Feel Ready) Scriptural insight on why the Bible tells us to "go" even more than it says "do not fear"—and how to take that first step in faith.

• [14:18] - Every Woman is a Leader You don’t need a platform or a microphone to lead. Misty explains how influence starts at home, in your community, and through your daily decisions.

• [25:59] - When Dreams Shift: Obedience in Unexpected Seasons Melissa and Misty share personal stories of surrendering dreams and discovering God’s better plan—even when it meant laying something down.

• [30:57] - Misty's Pivot into Tech and a New Season of Obedience Hear how God led Misty to leave her podcasting business and join her husband in a completely different industry—and how obedience opened new doors.

• [38:01] - Feeling Stuck? What God Might Be Doing in the Waiting Sometimes being stuck isn’t punishment—it’s preparation. Misty shares the power of staying connected to God while waiting on what’s next.

• [44:34] - Burnout, Rest & Sabbath as Strategy Rest isn’t lazy—it’s holy. Learn how honoring God with rest fuels your calling instead of slowing it down.

Tired of waiting for the “right time”? God already gave you permission—say yes and move forward.

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In this replay episode of Priorities on Purpose, Melissa Batt brings the heat with real talk on what it takes to pursue your God-given vision—without letting distractions, doubt, or fear derail your progress.

Originally recorded during a Facebook Live, this conversation dives into the hard but necessary baby steps that will challenge and change you: from saying no to good things that aren’t God things, to building a battle plan for the hard days, and even confronting why you might be avoiding investing in your growth.

Whether you’re struggling with feeling stuck, unsure of what’s next, or just overwhelmed with the pressure to be everything to everyone—this episode is for you.

✨ Key Takeaways:

• [00:51] – Melissa’s journey into coaching and how clarity came from one question

• [03:49] – Why keeping your long-term vision front and center is everything

• [05:35] – Distractions vs. divine assignments: how to know the difference

• [07:25] – When God calls you out of your comfort zone (even if it’s a women’s event you don’t want to go to)

• [09:09] – Creating your battle plan: church, community, and the power of prayer

• [13:38] – The mindset shift: why investing in yourself isn't selfish—it's necessary

• [17:25] – What kind of coach or resource is actually worth your money

• [20:04] – Favorite tools that helped Melissa build her business and stay focused

• [23:48] – Why clarity comes from action and not just waiting for the perfect plan

• [27:28] – Behind the scenes of Melissa’s early coaching rates and growth journey

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In Part 2 of this powerful conversation with The Friendship Tour podcast host, Cecilia Curtis, Melissa Batt dives even deeper into what it really takes to build and maintain meaningful friendships.

They explore the unseen mental health cost of staying isolated, how small acts of kindness can shift someone’s entire day, and why vulnerability, not perfection, is what true friendship is built on. From showing up for others without expecting anything in return, to working through past wounds that may be holding you back from receiving love, this episode reminds us that friendship is not only part of a fulfilled life—it’s Kingdom work.

If you've ever felt alone, stuck in a pattern of surface-level relationships, or unsure how to truly connect with others, this episode will help you take the next step with faith and intention.

Key Takeaways:

• [00:00] - The Crisis of Disconnection Melissa reflects on how phones and screens contribute to isolation, and how small gestures like eye contact or compliments can change someone's day.

• [03:01] - The Power of Simple Encouragement Why recognizing someone’s effort, whether it’s parenting or a good outfit, can be a powerful act of love.

• [05:10] - Letting Go of the Need for Reciprocity Cecilia reminds us that friendship isn’t transactional. Blessing others is part of living a life of purpose.

• [08:21] - When It’s Hard to Receive Love A discussion about how trauma, past hurt, and personal growth play a role in giving and receiving connection.

• [10:27] - Friendship Requires Courage Melissa compares making friends to stepping out of the boat like Peter—scary, but possible when we keep our eyes on Jesus.

• [13:27] - Teaching the Next Generation to Keep Showing Up Melissa shares a heart-wrenching story about her daughter’s struggle with friendship and how to stay hopeful through transitions.

• [15:59] - How to Maintain Long-Distance Friendships Cecilia shares practical ways to nurture relationships—even from across the country.

• [19:44] - Creating Space for Friendship Tips on building room in your schedule and heart to prioritize the relationships that matter most.

• [21:29] - Real Friends vs. Surface-Level Connections Not every friendship has to be deep, but the most meaningful ones come from time, trust, and no judgment.

• [25:06] - True Friendship Speaks Truth Why your closest friends should be the ones who love you enough to challenge you when needed—and how to be that kind of friend too.

• [29:41] - Feeling Stuck and Not Forgotten Cecilia shares a powerful testimony of God’s faithfulness during a season of infertility and loneliness while living in Japan.

Want help building intentional relationships while strengthening your faith? Work with Melissa 1-on-1 and discover what’s holding you back: melissabatt.com/breakthrough-coaching

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In this heartfelt episode of Priorities on Purpose, Melissa Batt sits down with The Friendship Tour podcast host Cecilia Curtis to talk all things friendship—especially how to build meaningful relationships when life feels busy, lonely, or disconnected.

Whether you’re new to town, feeling isolated, or just wondering why friendships seem harder as an adult, this episode is packed with wisdom, real-life stories, and practical tips to help you create deeper connections. Melissa and Cecilia share their personal struggles as introverts, frequent movers, and busy women—while also exploring the power of vulnerability, the importance of showing up, and why asking for help might be the most courageous thing you can do.

If you’re craving more authentic community but don’t know where to start, this conversation will show you why friendship has to be intentional—and why it’s worth it.

Key Takeaways:

• [00:03] - Welcome & Why Friendship Matters Melissa opens up about the intentionality behind friendships and why she searched so long for the perfect guest to speak into this topic.

• [01:56] - Cecilia’s Story & The Heart Behind Her Podcast Cecilia shares her journey as a military wife, mom of three, and how her life of constant moves inspired The Friendship Tour.

• [04:08] - The Struggle to Show Up for Others Melissa shares a vulnerable moment that revealed a personal blind spot in how she supports local friends.

• [06:48] - The Power of Offering & Accepting Help Cecilia breaks down why being both a giver and receiver is essential for deepening relationships.

• [08:41] - Asking for What You Need Isn’t Weakness Melissa opens up about how fear of being let down kept her from asking for help—even from her best friend.

• [11:47] - Healing from Past Friendship Hurts Cecilia encourages listeners to deal with their relational baggage and pray for discernment in new connections.

• [15:26] - Why Community Is God’s Design Both women highlight the biblical importance of community and how it sustains us in our weakest moments.

• [21:11] - Easy Ways to Start a Conversation Cecilia shares practical, low-pressure tips to break the ice and make the first move in building friendships.

• [23:06] - Don’t Take It Personally Why it’s important not to internalize someone’s lack of response—and how you can keep putting yourself out there.

• [25:10] - Say Yes & Get Involved Melissa and Cecilia talk about how showing up, volunteering, and accepting invitations create opportunities for connection.

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Connect with Cecilia Curtis + The Friendship Tour: 🎧 Podcast: The Friendship Tour on Apple Podcasts 👥 Facebook Community: bit.ly@thefriendshiptourpodcast 📸 Instagram: @thefriendshiptourpodcast 📩 Email: ccurtis@thefriendshiptourpodcast.com

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In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, Melissa Batt opens up about a surprising insecurity that surfaced while on vacation—and how God used it to reveal an area of brokenness He was inviting her to heal.

From feeling embarrassed about being a tourist to wrestling with the fear of trying something new, Melissa shares real-life moments, biblical encouragement, and practical steps to overcome perfectionism, insecurity, and fear of failure.

If you’ve ever stayed stuck because you didn’t want to be "bad" at something—or if you’ve been waiting for the perfect moment to start living the life God has called you to—this conversation is the wake-up call you need. Stop putting it off for "someday." Start building your faith, your courage, and your trust in God today.

📝 Key Takeaways:

[00:01] – Why This Episode Sounds Different Melissa records live from vacation without her usual podcast setup—and explains what triggered today’s topic.

[00:55] – When Vacation Triggers Hidden Insecurities Melissa reflects on feeling uncomfortable being a tourist and how it revealed deeper perfectionism and fear of looking silly.

[03:00] – The Pressure to Be Good at Everything Melissa shares how adulthood often steals the childlike joy of simply trying something new without expectation.

[06:17] – Recognizing Feelings of Inferiority Melissa explains how comparison and insecurity sneak in and what God says about our worth and identity.

[08:17] – Using Triggers as Neon Signs for Healing Instead of avoiding uncomfortable feelings, Melissa challenges listeners to use them as opportunities to talk with God about them and explore further.

[11:29] – The Freedom of Childlike Faith Melissa encourages listeners to stop measuring success by worldly standards and instead embrace the beauty of humility and growth.

[14:17] – Are You Spectating or Participating in Life? Melissa shares a powerful metaphor about getting in the game—and how spiritual growth requires stepping out in faith.

[17:02] – Why "Someday" Will Keep You Stuck Melissa reminds listeners that putting off obedience leads to missed opportunities and unfulfilled callings.

[18:59] – Final Encouragement Melissa closes with a call to stop waiting for perfection and start trusting God to meet you as you move.

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In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, Melissa Batt sits down with prophetic healing coach and author Heather O’Brien for a deeply insightful conversation about why grief isn't just something we experience—it's something we should plan for.

Heather, host of the Heal With God podcast, shares how intentional grieving with God leads to breakthrough healing. Together, they discuss the dangers of avoiding pain, the spiritual roots of physical symptoms, and how to finally stop numbing and start living. If you're stuck in survival mode, busying yourself to avoid the hard stuff, or constantly triggered without knowing why—this episode will challenge and encourage you to take action, sit with God, and experience real comfort and transformation.

Whether you're grieving a loss, feeling triggered in your daily life, or wondering why healing hasn’t come yet—this conversation offers truth, tools, and hope for the journey.

📝 Key Takeaways:

• [00:00] – Meet Heather O’Brien Melissa introduces Heather, a healing coach and prophetic minister, and shares how their Holy Spirit-aligned missions connected.

• [04:00] – The Power of Grieving on Purpose Heather explains the concept of “planning to grieve” and why busyness or emotional overwhelm can block the healing process.

• [10:00] – Comparing Grief Seasons Melissa reflects on how grieving her stepdad versus her grandmother was drastically different due to boundaries and spiritual growth.

• [19:00] – Understanding Triggers as Opportunities Heather explains how physical symptoms and emotional triggers are signs that healing is needed—and how to respond instead of react.

• [30:00] – Planning Your Grief Practically Heather shares actionable steps like short prayers and journaling to bring your pain to God intentionally, even if it's just 10 minutes a day.

• [38:00] – Disappointment and Avoidance in Our Relationship with God Melissa opens up about subconsciously avoiding God when disappointed and how journaling revealed the root.

• [53:00] – When Obedience Leads to Healing Melissa shares a powerful testimony about how unforgiveness led to joint pain—and how obeying God brought emotional and physical freedom.

• [57:00] – Final Encouragement + Free Gift Heather reminds listeners that grief isn’t something to fear—it’s a pathway to comfort and healing. She also shares a free 7-day challenge to help you hear God’s voice.

🎁 Free Resource Mentioned:

7-Day Mental Makeover Challenge Start healing with simple daily spiritual disciplines and begin hearing God’s voice clearly. 👉 https://heatherobrien.net/mentalmakeoverchallenge

Connect with Heather O’Brien:

• Website: heatherobrien.net

• Podcast: Heal With God (Available on all platforms)

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In the final part of this powerful series, Christy opens up about what it looks like to step into your purpose after a radical encounter with Jesus. She and Melissa discuss how to share your testimony with others, how to simplify your message to connect with people who don’t know church language, and why your story matters more than you think.

Melissa offers real-time coaching to help Christy walk out her calling—from starting a Bible study in her apartment to discerning what’s from God and what’s a distraction. They also talk about resting, healing, and avoiding spiritual counterfeits online.

If you’ve felt like God is calling you to speak, teach, or simply share what Jesus has done in your life, this episode will give you practical steps, encouragement, and permission to start where you are.

• [00:00] - Coaching Through Blind Spots Melissa helps Christy identify areas where she can grow and surrender deeper to God by uncovering blind spots in her healing and parenting.

• [02:05] - No Shame in Sharing: Your Past Doesn’t Define You Christy shares how she’s learning to use her painful past to help others while embracing the truth that she is no longer who she used to be.

• [03:33] - The Power of Your Testimony Melissa reminds Christy of the woman at the well and the ripple effect that sharing your encounter with Jesus can have when others come to know Him personally.

• [05:01] - Churchy Language vs. Real-Life Connection A conversation about why words like “spiritual warfare” and “generational curses” can create barriers—and how to communicate your testimony in ways that resonate with non-believers.

• [09:44] - How to Be a Light in the Church Christy shares her heart to reach hurting people who feel judged or unwelcome at church, and Melissa encourages her to disrupt the norm by showing up authentically.

• [14:32] - Waiting vs. Walking: Starting With What You Have Instead of waiting for the perfect setup, Melissa challenges Christy to begin by hosting a Bible study—BYOC style (bring your own chair).

• [22:22] - Healing Is Productive: Rest Is the Assignment Both women talk about learning to rest, hearing from God, and healing from places and people that once felt like “home.”

• [27:39] - Guarding Your Focus and Staying Discerned Melissa cautions Christy about consuming content that looks spiritual but isn’t rooted in God’s truth—and encourages her to do a content audit.

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In Part 2 of Christy’s powerful testimony, Melissa and Christy dive into what happens after the breakthrough moment. Now living sober and walking with Jesus, Christy opens up about the battle to set boundaries, avoid toxic relationships, and walk out her healing—one difficult step at a time.

You’ll hear real talk about spiritual attacks, savior complexes, and the painful realities of rebuilding trust with family—especially with children who carry deep wounds. With honesty and humility, Christy reflects on her struggle to stop “rescuing” others and start truly surrendering to God’s direction for her life.

Melissa also offers powerful coaching insights and encouragement for anyone in a season of refining. If you've ever tried to help someone who wasn’t ready, or you're trying to break free from old patterns yourself, this episode will speak straight to your heart.

• [00:00] - Living with her ex-husband again and the spiritual confusion that followed

• [01:34] - Why emotional and financial dependence kept her stuck

• [02:55] - The moment she chose peace over chaos and began trusting God fully

• [04:00] - Narcissistic relationships and the desire to fix others

• [05:30] - The “savior complex” and how it sneaks into our healing journeys

• [08:44] - Red flags, spiritual conviction, and choosing black-and-white boundaries

• [12:03] - Why being single in this season is a gift, not a punishment

• [13:50] - Discovering the truth about a deceptive relationship and letting go

• [16:52] - Pouring from an empty cup and learning to protect her peace

• [21:08] - A heart check: speaking from resentment vs. sorrow in parenting

• [24:25] - Triggers, forgiveness, and what healing may look like for her daughter

• [28:02] - Melissa shares an offer for one-on-one faith-based coaching

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