In this episode, we explore the deep connections between patriarchy and the myth of the succubus, delving into how sexuality has been demonized throughout history. We trace how the succubus, a mythological figure, shaped cultural views on gender, power, and control. The implications of these myths continue to shape modern attitudes, culminating in the way male sexuality is viewed with suspicion. But the episode doesn’t stop at just diagnosing the problem—it offers a positive outlook for men, aiming to rewrite these toxic myths and replace them with healthier, empowering narratives. Whether you’re tired of the hate against men or simply curious about how these ancient stories continue to affect modern gender dynamics, this episode is for you. Watch to the end to discover how we can rebuild a more positive vision of masculinity.

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