Today we take a deeper, emotional dive into the Disney+ classic The Kid starring Bruce Willis. This episode goes beyond autism or neurodivergence — we’re talking about what it means to lose ourselves to adulthood, capitalism, family expectations, and trauma.

🪞 When We Don’t Recognize Ourselves Anymore

The film paints a vivid picture of something many of us face: waking up one day and realizing we’ve become someone we don’t even like. We’ve traded childhood dreams for stability, connection for survival, and joy for just getting through the day. This is especially true for folks facing burnout, depression, moral injury, or simply the weight of growing up.

Through the lens of Bruce Willis’ character, we witness a man so out of sync with his younger self that he literally splits — seeing the child version of himself appear in real life.

🧠 Therapy, Trauma, and the Internal Battle

We break down scenes where Bruce’s character begins reflecting on his life, including:

The awkward and uncomfortable therapy session where he only asks for medication

Avoidant personality patterns shaped by childhood trauma

His father's verbal abuse while his mother was dying — and the guilt and self-blame many of us internalize as kids

The perfectionism, rigidity, and emotional cut-off many adults develop just to survive

This is what many of us work through in therapy — the lifelong process of reconciling the child we were with the adult we’ve become.

💔 Grief, Guilt & Rewriting the Future

We talk about the film’s heartbreaking portrayal of intergenerational trauma and emotional neglect. The little boy (young Bruce) just wants to know one thing: “Was it my fault?” And how many of us carry that same question?

But the magic happens when all versions of Bruce’s character — past, present, and future — finally realign. The grown-up version finds purpose, love, and even joy again. He's married. He has a dog. He becomes a pilot — just like he always wanted.

🛠️ A Reflection for All of Us

This movie is a metaphor for real-life therapy. It reminds us that it’s never too late to course-correct. We can find our way back to creativity, hope, playfulness, and the dream we buried along the way.

Ask yourself:

What have I let go of that used to bring me joy?

What would my younger self say about the life I’m living now?

Can I still get back to that version of me?

💬 Final Thoughts

We hope you watch this film with intention — not just as entertainment, but as a mirror. If you’re feeling stuck, disconnected, or burdened by everything life has thrown at you, The Kid might help spark that reflection.

This episode is for anyone feeling the weight of who they’ve become, and anyone who’s ready to reconnect with who they were meant to be 💛

Much love to all of you doing the work.

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Episode Breakdown:

0:00 Attention

0:59 Intro

6:23 Scenes

32:13 Discussion

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