What should you do when a colleague (or a manager) takes credit for your ideas at work?

According to Harvard Business Review, it's a matter of when, not if.

You’ll speak up in a meeting with managers and offer a strategic solution to a business problem only to be unacknowledged, ignored, or worse yet, shushed.

Then a colleague — almost always a man — will paraphrase your idea and get praised for it.

It's infuriating. It hurts.

While injustices exist, you don’t want to idly stand by and let it happen to you.

You want to be able to identify the patterns that lead to this sort of thing, so you can nip it in the bud. You want to call it out when someone tries to take credit for your ideas, claim the credit you deserve, and right the wrong.

In this episode, I'm walking you through

1. Specific patterns to watch out for
2. How to effect change by focusing on what you can control
3. What to say and how when someone tries to take credit for your ideas in a meeting

Featured in the episode:

• Episode 1: Self-Advocacy is an Act of Service
• Episode 8: How to Get Better Paid: Pitfalls to Avoid (Tiara Syndrome)
• Episode 33: One from Anti-Anxiety Toolkit
• Episode 66: Demo of Self-Directed Neuroplasticity Tools
• 7 Tricky Work Situations, and How to Respond to Them, By Alicia Bassuk on Harvard Business Review

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In this episode, I'm joined by Anne Devereux-Mills, former CEO of ad agencies and founder of Parlay House, to discuss the bold and boundary-pushing choices Anne made in her career and beyond.

Anne shares how she navigated the male-dominated executive suite as CEO of ad agencies, taking risks to draw lines between her work and family life, even when it went against the norms.

She opens up about the difficult, vulnerable conversations she had to have -- calling out inappropriate behavior from powerful colleagues, discussing personal health challenges, and confronting its aftermath.

But Anne's biggest risk-taking may have been inviting 12 complete strangers into her home to have the kind of raw and real conversations that are forbidden in the workplace.

This leap of faith led to the creation of Parlay House (full disclosure: I'm a member of Parlay House), a community that empowers women to shed their work personas and connect on a deeper, human-to-human level.

• Learn more about Parlay House here: https://parlayhouse.com/
• Follow Anne on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/annedevmills/
• Follow Parlay House on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/parlay.house/

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If you've ever struggled with severe PMS, painful periods, or the visceral challenges of having a female body in a male-dominated workplace, this episode is a must-listen.

This is an important conversation for me personally.

As a menstruating woman in her forties, I've had days where I'd been doubled over in premenstrual pain (both physical and mental) so bad the overly dramatic part of my brain told me I was going to die.

I'm always searching for answers, so I've googled my symptoms ad nauseam.

I've read books on the topic, including Shalene Gupta's The Cycle (https://shalenegupta.com/the-cycle/).

Then, I advocated for myself with my OBGYN.

All of which led me to a prescription for low-dose SSRI that flipped the switch on period paid and made my cycles much, much more manageable.

Around 80% of women experience period pain or PMS (premenstrual syndrome). For about 10% of women with PME (premenstrual exacerbation) or PMDD (premenstrual dysphoric disorder), the pain is severe enough to disrupt their lives, relationships, and careers.

In this honest and vulnerable conversation with Shalene Gupta, we address period pain, something that affects a majority of women yet is so often shrouded in shame and silence.

Shalene bravely shares her journey with PMDD and the immense challenges it posed for her high-powered career as a journalist and writer.

She shared invaluable insights on navigating PMDD as an ambitious, high-achieving woman.

We also discuss practical strategies for managing physical, mental, and emotional symptoms, as well as guidance on overcoming the societal stigma that often prevents women from learning about treatment solutions and getting help, so they can continue to excel in their careers and lives.

To learn more:

• Sign up for Shalene's newsletter on her website: https://shalenegupta.com/
• Check out the website of the International Association of Premenstrual Disorders (IAPMD) at iapmd.org for more resources on PMDD-related diagnosis and treatment
• Track your menstrual cycles. There are many great apps available on app stores. I personally use a print version I downloaded from Maisie Hill https://maisiehill.com/chartmycycle/

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