Do you need to go fast to "avoid the friend zone"? But what if you're shy? And what if they're socially anxious? Fast or slow depends on how comfortable both of you feel. Steven and Christin were close friends for several years before anything happened.

Sometimes the transition from friends to something more is quick and abrupt. Other times, it can take months or years of smooth and gradual change. 🧘‍♂️

🏘️ Even though they grew up in a small German village of 600 people, Steven only remembers becoming aware of Christin around his teenage years. But it wasn't until many years later, when he left to study and came back to visit, that their deep friendship turned into a romantic relationship.

🎧 Listen to this story if you feel rushed by the common dating advice that gives you a specific number of dates before you end up in the "friend zone"!

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Timestamps for lazy nerds:

00:00:00 Intro

00:00:26 Steven's Hobbies

00:01:32 Growing Up In a Small Village

00:03:01 Are Your Hobbies A Turn-Off?

00:05:20 Becoming Close Friends

00:06:22 Changing Cities

00:07:45 From Friends to Lovers

00:11:52 Taking Your Time

00:14:29 Shy, Introverts, and Social Anxiety

00:16:38 Do Dating Tactics and Strategies Work?

00:19:10 How Long Does It Take?

00:22:31 Leveling Up Your True Self

00:28:42 Be Confident and Know What You Want

00:30:48 Steven's Contact

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Is it a date or two friends hanging out? Do you need to clarify? Is it wrong to confess by text? What about asking to hold hands? These are some of the questions we explore in the story of Lud and Mati.

🧝‍♂️ After meeting as part of a nerd group within their local Tolkien Association, Mati decided to take Lud on a date. But... she didn't know that it was a date! They spent months as friends, with him trying to know if she was interested, and her assuming that they were just friends.

🎲 With multiple critical fails in the middle, it took a common friend to bridge the gap between them.

🎧 Listen to this story and realize that, sometimes, even with many Natural 1s, you can still beat the game. 👾

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Timestamps for lazy nerds:

00:00:00 Game Start

00:01:43 Finding Nerd Friends

00:04:17 First Meet at a Tolkien Bar

00:06:42 Friends or date? Unclear!

00:08:47 Building Relationships

00:10:28 Critical Fail on a Physical Touch Check

00:11:53 Not a "Proper Date"

00:13:55 Second not-Date

00:15:57 Indirect Confession

00:18:54 Failed Confession via Text

00:22:01 Do you like your friend?

00:25:19 Asking to Hold Hands

00:26:43 Confessing vs. Escalating

00:31:38 Advice for Single Nerds

00:33:54 The Power of Friendship

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Many have been rejected and friendzoned, but it's not often that we would do it to someone who did it to us. And yet, this is what happened to Vir.

In her story, they both rolled a Nat 1 on their perception and charisma checks: Their attraction didn't align, and they couldn't read the signs. So they had to be explicit and confess liking each other... Three times!

If you've wondered why someone doesn't realize that you like them, you think you're bad at "taking hints," or you think that the friendzone lasts forever (and that a rejection will bring your HP to 0), you should listen to this story!

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Timestamps for lazy nerds:

00:00:00 Intro

00:02:17 Meeting at work

00:04:47 Asking to hang out

00:07:20 Missing the Signals

00:11:36 Confessing

00:14:18 Getting Rejected and Friendzoned

00:20:14 Another Confession, Rejection, and Friend Zone

00:24:09 Confessing Verbally vs. Escalating Physically

00:27:57 Third Confession

00:31:52 Advice: Don't Expect Signals, and be Clear

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