Snippets - The Lovers Podcast

著者: Hunter & Therese Mabon
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  • The Lovers - 
by Hunter & Therese Mabon
 We are here to inspire you and your partner in your relationship. We have been a couple since the early 90’s and here we share some of our wisdoms, insights, success and setbacks. We share tips, suggestions and some jewels from our own and others experiences over the years. We hope that we can help improve your relationship, starting today. ♥️♥️ Vi är här för att inspirera dig och din partner i er relation. 
Sedan -93 har vi varit ett par och här delar vi med oss av våra egna klokheter, insikter, medgångar och motgångar, samt tipsar er om guldskatter som vi funnit längs årens gång. Vi hoppas få inspirera dig och din partner redan idag. ♥️♥️
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The Lovers - 
by Hunter & Therese Mabon
 We are here to inspire you and your partner in your relationship. We have been a couple since the early 90’s and here we share some of our wisdoms, insights, success and setbacks. We share tips, suggestions and some jewels from our own and others experiences over the years. We hope that we can help improve your relationship, starting today. ♥️♥️ Vi är här för att inspirera dig och din partner i er relation. 
Sedan -93 har vi varit ett par och här delar vi med oss av våra egna klokheter, insikter, medgångar och motgångar, samt tipsar er om guldskatter som vi funnit längs årens gång. Vi hoppas få inspirera dig och din partner redan idag. ♥️♥️
Copyright 2021 All rights reserved.
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  • S11E7 - The Repair Process and Beyond
    2024/11/10

    When you find your partner upset, be there for them. Like as you are working at a customer service. Treat your partner like someone that you want the best for. Support them in their way back to the healthy center. Do not expect anything back at this moment. Be compassionate.

    The above might be so hard in the moment. But it is a process that needs to happen. You need to get better at repairing. Both of you.

    If we wish for the stars? This is a way that we all could benefit from doing, learning and in the end mastering: How to get to a new auto pilot 👍🏼

    -> Unconscious incompetence -> Conscious incompetence

    -> Conscious competence

    -> Unconscious competence

    Did this course give us what we wanted?? What we were hoping for? We had a lot of really good conversations, a bigger disagreement, a fight and a lot of repairing during this digital course. And yes, we recommend it. It is worth the money. It is easy to get going. It might be triggering. If you feel unsure - get some help and maybe do this course alongside a relationship coach or therapist of your choice.

    If you are not in a relationship at the moment - this course might still give you insights and useful learnings to bring to your next relationship.

    Do not be a stranger, share, comment and spread our work to others. Please share your thoughts with us on our social media. And give us a rating in the app you are using for listening to our beloved Snippets.

    All the best from us to you! /The Lovers

    Find us here: https://linktr.ee/thelovers

    Link below to the relationship grid for better understanding:

    https://shorturl.at/er6ON

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    13 分
  • S11E6 - The essential Rhythm of relationships
    2024/11/10

    The rhythm of relationships - this is something that we have spoken about before and used to understand our relationship. Where we are in our rhythm.

    We totally agree with Terry - this should be taught everywhere. But it isn’t. That is very unfortunate.

    Terry phrases the rhythm in these two ways: Harmony - Disharmony - Repair

    and explains a bit more in this way -

    Love without knowledge or awareness (Harmony)

    Awareness or Knowledge without Love (Disharmony, disillusionment, being human, hard)

    Knowing Love (Repair, mature Love, aware of imperfections but you still love)

    In this episode we also get to learn about the brilliant (being ironic) loosing strategies 5 losing strategies (used by the adaptive/inner child)

    • Being right
    • Controlling your partner
    • Unbridled self expression
    • Retaliation
    • Withdrawal

    We hope this episode gave you some new understandings.

    As promised - a link to the 10 commandments for a time out. https://terryreal.com/articles/10-commandments-of-time-outs/

    Link below to the relationship grid for better understanding:

    https://shorturl.at/er6ON Please share your thoughts with us on our social media. And give us a rating in the app you are using for listening to our beloved Snippets. Find us here: https://linktr.ee/thelovers

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    14 分
  • S11E5 - The complete quadrant, be aware!
    2024/11/10

    Finally, we hoped and thought. All details and everything to be shared from Terry to us about the full quadrant. The relationship grid in the fullest.

    But nope. And yes.

    Terry spoke about the full grid, not just in the way we were looking forward to. A few interesting snippets from the episode below:

    • Contempt is the feeling that lies underneath both one up and one down!
    • If you’re up come down, If you’re down come up - Come back into center!
    • The cure for love avoidance is negotiation- teaching both partners to identify their wants and needs, put them out in a constructive way and how to tolerate when they don’t go your way.
    • Do some journaling of your quadrant. What does it feel like to be there? What is it like to see your partner in his/hers?
    • Do not solve anything when you’re in triggerdness. Only from the healthy center as your wise adult, as the TEAM.

    Link below to the relationship grid for better understanding:

    https://shorturl.at/er6ON

    We hope you enjoy this season, only two episodes more in season 11 ! See you in the healthy center! /The Lovers

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    15 分

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