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Remember when you couldn't keep your hands off each other? That magical time when desire flowed effortlessly between you both? If those days feel distant and you're wondering if that spark is gone forever, this episode delivers hope and practical strategies backed by cutting-edge relationship science.

Passion naturally ebbs when life gets busy. Between work deadlines, household responsibilities, and the mental load of adulting, desire often takes a backseat. But relationship psychologists like Dr. Emily Nagoski and Esther Perel have discovered that rekindling intimacy doesn't require grand gestures or awkward scheduled romance—it's about understanding how desire actually works in long-term relationships.

We dive into the power of erotic imagination and how simple acts of flirtation can reawaken dormant desire. You'll learn why novel experiences—even non-sexual ones—light up the brain's pleasure centers in ways that directly translate to increased attraction. We explore the counterintuitive truth that removing performance pressure often creates space for authentic passion to emerge, and why emotional connection remains the strongest predictor of lasting physical chemistry.

Whether you're feeling like roommates instead of lovers, or simply want to deepen an already good connection, these research-backed approaches offer a roadmap to creating something even better than what you had before. Because rekindling passion isn't about returning to the past—it's about building a more intentional, playful and connected intimate life moving forward.

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Forget everything you thought you knew about kink and BDSM. This episode shatters misconceptions, unveiling how practices often misunderstood as deviant actually create spaces for transformation, healing, and profound personal growth.

Drawing from groundbreaking research by Richard Sprott and insights from contributors to "Reimagining Kink: Transformation, Growth and Healing through BDSM," we explore why BDSM is far from fringe—with nearly half of participants in Belgian studies having tried it at least once, and over 520,000 Australians regularly engaging in kink practices. These aren't just titillating statistics; they reveal a widespread human desire for experiences that transcend ordinary boundaries of pleasure and connection.

The most surprising revelation? Regular BDSM practitioners often demonstrate higher mental well-being than the general population. Through intentional structure, explicit consent, clear boundaries, and dedicated aftercare, kink creates containers for vulnerable exploration that many find profoundly therapeutic. For some—especially those from marginalized communities—these spaces allow integration of shadow aspects, reclamation of voice, and expression of authentic selfhood without fragmentation. As one transmasculine, neurodivergent contributor shared, kink provided a ritual space where they "felt whole" rather than fractured.

Whether you're kink-curious or simply interested in understanding human psychology and pleasure beyond conventional frameworks, this episode offers valuable insights into how intentional power exchange can foster trust, presence, and self-discovery. Because ultimately, your fantasies don't make you broken, your pleasure doesn't need justification, and when explored safely and consensually, your desires might just lead to unexpected healing. Ready to see kink through a new lens? Listen now, and let your curiosity guide you toward deeper understanding of human connection and transformation.

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Ever wondered what really happens when the spotlights hit the stage and the music starts pounding? This eye-opening conversation with male entertainer and OnlyFans creator Axl Adams peels back the curtain on the glamorized yet often misunderstood world of professional stripping—and it's nothing like the movies would have you believe.

From heart-pounding first-time performances to learning the art of maintaining boundaries with handsy clients, Axl shares his journey from curious outsider to confident performer. We explore the surprising reality that female audiences can sometimes cross far more lines than men, the unspoken therapy element that comes with the job, and how performers create a clear division between their stage personas and private lives. "When I'm at home, I'm just quiet," Axl reveals, challenging the assumption that entertainers are perpetually in performance mode.

What emerges is a portrait of an industry that's evolved dramatically—one that demands professionalism, creativity, and strong personal boundaries. Far from the stereotypical drug-fueled debauchery of decades past, today's entertainment scene features choreographed routines, scheduled performances, and performers who view their work through a professional lens. Yet despite this evolution, entertainers still face hurdles from social media censorship to client misconceptions about their availability off-stage.

Whether you're curious about the economics of the industry (spoiler: most male entertainers in Perth work just once or twice monthly), the creative ambitions of performers looking beyond clichéd routines, or the psychological impact of navigating the line between fantasy fulfillment and personal boundaries, this conversation offers genuine insight into a world that's simultaneously exposed yet rarely understood.

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Betrayal cuts deep. Whether you're the one who strayed or the one left reeling from a partner's infidelity, that moment fractures everything you thought you knew about your relationship. But here's the truth many don't want to acknowledge: recovery isn't just possible—it happens more often than you might think.

This episode dives straight into the messy, painful process of rebuilding trust after infidelity. We explore why it's typically not the cheating itself that destroys relationships, but the dishonesty that follows. Research consistently shows that post-betrayal healing hinges on radical transparency from the unfaithful partner—what Dr. Shirley Glass calls bringing down walls and opening windows between partners.

We break down the practical steps that successful couples take: establishing a six-month period of complete honesty, understanding the neurobiological impacts of betrayal through predictive coding, and becoming "boringly reliable" to create safety. You'll learn why couples therapy provides crucial structure during this vulnerable time, helping both partners explore not just what happened, but the underlying why. Most importantly, we discuss why rebuilding trust isn't about restoring what was, but co-creating something entirely new—a relationship where both partners feel truly seen and secure.

Whether you're currently navigating the aftermath of infidelity or supporting someone who is, this episode offers science-backed guidance without judgment or platitudes. Recovery takes time (typically 18-24 months), consistent effort, and the courage to be honest—not just with your partner, but with yourself. Come join me online to continue the conversation about creating healthier relationships through understanding, compassion, and truth.

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Forget everything you think you know about vaginal stretching. This practice isn't about shock value or pornographic stunts – it's a profound journey into bodily autonomy, psychological surrender, and reclaiming sexual power on your own terms.

We dive deep into the misunderstood world of stretching, revealing how this practice connects to something primal yet deeply personal. For many practitioners, stretching represents an embodied rebellion against shame, allowing them to literally and figuratively expand beyond societal constraints. There's a special kind of empowerment in saying "I can open and stay open because I want to" – a celebration of the body's remarkable resilience and adaptability.

The episode offers practical wisdom alongside philosophical insights. You'll learn specific manual techniques for gentle stretching, the importance of proper toy progression (never increasing by more than a quarter inch at a time), and why quality materials and lubrication are non-negotiable for safe play. We explore the differences between stretching styles – from plug wearing to interval training approaches – while emphasizing that this journey isn't about endurance but invitation. Perhaps most importantly, we discuss how breath work, visualization, and nervous system attunement create the headspace where true pleasure flourishes.

Whether you're toy-curious or already exploring the expansive edges of your pleasure, remember that stretching isn't about ruining anything – it's about reclaiming everything. Your body isn't a prize to protect from size; it's a powerful, adaptive marvel capable of extraordinary sensation.

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Have you ever questioned why we limit romantic love to just one person when we don't apply the same restrictions to friendships, family relationships, or parental love? This thought-provoking episode with sexologist Kate Campbell challenges everything you thought you knew about relationship structures.

We dive deep into what polyamory actually means—and what it doesn't. Forget the stereotypes of commitment-phobic people or hypersexual escapades. Polyamory (poly = many, amory = love) is about creating multiple committed, loving relationships with consent and communication at the core. Kate shares her journey from skepticism to embracing polyamory, realizing that what society taught her about "finding the one" never quite fit her authentic self.

The conversation tackles jealousy head-on, reframing it not as a relationship killer but as an opportunity for growth. When someone in a polyamorous relationship feels jealous, they're encouraged to explore why—what insecurity or fear lies beneath the surface? This practice creates emotional intelligence that monogamous relationships might never develop simply because they avoid these triggering situations altogether.

We explore fascinating parallels between relationship structures and other aspects of identity. Many neurodivergent individuals find polyamory aligns better with how they naturally form connections. We discuss the problematic double standards (why is a man with multiple female partners seen as powerful while a woman with multiple male partners is questioned?), the historical roots of monogamy in patriarchal control systems, and the practical considerations of time management and sexual health.

Whether you're polycurious, happily monogamous, or somewhere in between, this episode offers valuable insights about communication, emotional intelligence, and expanding your capacity for love. As Kate beautifully puts it, "Love is not a finite resource—you get more by giving more and having more."

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Feeling curious about surrendering control in the bedroom? You're far from alone. That quiet desire to be sexually submissive isn't just common—it's backed by science as one of our most natural human urges.

The research speaks volumes: over 60% of women and 50% of men fantasize about being dominated, making submission more popular than roleplay, group encounters, or even exhibitionism. But why does giving up control feel so appealing? When we submit consensually, something remarkable happens in our brains—cortisol levels drop, endorphins surge, and many experience a flow state similar to what athletes describe during peak performance. For those carrying the mental load of constant decision-making in their daily lives, submission offers not weakness, but profound relief.

Men especially might question these desires in a culture that equates masculinity with dominance. Yet there's powerful strength in vulnerability—in saying "I trust you completely" to a partner. Studies from 2021 reveal something fascinating: couples who engage in consensual power exchange report significantly higher levels of intimacy and trust. This isn't about being less; it's about creating space to be more—more authentic, more connected, more present in your pleasure.

Healthy submission always begins with consent and communication. Whether it's light restraint or deeper power dynamics, the paradox is that clearly defined boundaries create freedom to explore. Your submission might look entirely different from someone else's—and that's exactly as it should be. The only "right way" is the way that honors your authentic desires while prioritizing mutual respect and safety.

Ready to explore this side of yourself? Follow me on Instagram or YouTube at Super Sex Podcast or Jordan Walker Sexology for more evidence-based insights that challenge everything you thought you knew about sexuality. Your pleasure isn't just normal—it's powerful. Stay curious, stay kind, and remember: it's perfectly fine to stay just a little filthy.

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Dive into the profound world of fisting – a practice that goes far beyond what many consider "extreme" or "fringe." This episode challenges us to rethink our assumptions about intimacy, pleasure, and connection through the lens of a practice that demands extraordinary trust and communication.

Drawing from Chris Barcelos' groundbreaking 2023 academic paper, we explore how fisting represents not just a sexual act but an entire epistemology – a way of knowing and being with others that defies conventional sexual scripts. When we look deeper, fisting emerges as a radical form of pedagogy, where knowledge passes through communities rather than institutions, centered on consent, care, and pleasure.

What makes this practice particularly revolutionary is how it inverts traditional sexual values. Unlike the fast, goal-oriented approach often celebrated in mainstream sexual culture, fisting demands slowness, patience, and constant checking in. It asks participants to be fully present, to prioritize connection over performance, and to embrace vulnerability as a pathway to pleasure. Even during the AIDS crisis when it was heavily stigmatized, fisting persisted as both a source of joy and a symbol of resistance within queer communities.

Whether you're curious about expanding your sexual horizons or simply interested in new frameworks for thinking about intimacy, this episode offers valuable insights. The principles at the heart of fisting – radical communication, mutual care, and challenging normative boundaries – apply far beyond any specific sex act. They remind us that sometimes our most profound connections come when we slow down, get curious, and allow ourselves to go deep.

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