What's the right type of surrogacy relationship?

Are you feeling pressured to have a relationship in surrogacy that isn’t what you really want?

When expectations aren’t met, things can fall apart.

If your relationship and communication styles don’t match your vision, it can lead to anxiety and frustration, potentially causing a breakdown in your surrogacy journey.

But you can prevent this! Learn what works for you and how to find a good match.

Episode Highlights:

• 07:28 - Discover the three different surrogacy relationship styles

• 09:09 - If you believe in strong emotional bonds, you’re this type

• 13:39 - The most misunderstood type of relationship revealed

• 18:44 - Understand how peer pressure in surrogacy may affect you

• 21:33 - Unpopular opinion: You don’t need a close relationship

• 31:22 - Take a quick quiz to find your ideal relationship style

Are you aware of how your preferred relationship style will impact your surrogacy journey? Don’t leave your dreams to chance. Prevent misunderstandings from derailing your plans.

Listen now and create the right relationship for you!

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Links mentioned in the episode

Surrogate ID quiz

Your First Meeting with a Surrogate: 6 Key Topics You Must Cover to Prevent a Broken Match

Surrogate Vetting Essentials

Are you nervous about independent surrogacy?

Uncertain about managing it all yourself?

Afraid you'll miss a crucial step?

Or maybe you’re wondering if this is a barely legal, out of the box thing that puts you and your baby at serious risk.

You’re not alone in feeling this way because most people don’t know the truth about independent surrogacy.

Plus there’s a whole industry designed to keep it that way

But, as usual, we’re here to share secrets and help you make the rights decisions for you!

In this episode, you'll hear:

06:23 The basics: What is independent surrogacy and why do people choose it?

7:37 Why believing that independent surrogacy is “DIY” could lead to unnecessary stress

12:58 Independent surrogacy is not professional-free. The role of your expert team.

18:04 What skeptics won’t tell you: It’s perfectly legal

21:24 With the right resources and step-by-step guides, it’s easier than you think.

26:54 A surrogacy agency isn’t your only option for finding a surrogate

31:16 The truth about cost savings in independent surrogacy

Unpopular opinion… If you can manage a project, then you can handle independent surrogacy with confidence.

Ready to demystify independent surrogacy and take control of your journey? You’ve got to listen to this episode—get all the insights and tools you need to succeed!

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Links mentioned in the episode

Step by Step Guide & Checklist

Surrogate Vetting Essentials

The New York State surrogacy agency license

Thinking about breastmilk?

You know breast milk has so many benefits, and you want baby to have it.

But it seems so hard to give breast milk after surrogacy.

A big part of that is having to pump at work. It can be overwhelming, especially if your job isn't supportive.

If you're a surrogate thinking about pumping or an intended mother inducing lactation, these concerns have likely been on your mind. You might even consider not pumping for too long—or not at all.

Thankfully, it just got easier.

Think breastfeeding at work means being stuck in a bathroom stall? Think again! The Pump Act changes everything.

In this episode, you'll learn how the PUMP Act provides essential protections for lactating workers, including surrogates and intended parents. Get ready to feel empowered

00:00 Women face issues pumping at work, discrimination.

06:05 If you tried breastfeeding and stopped early, you’re not alone

07:47 Pumping breast milk is time-consuming.

11:48 Discrimination and harassment around breastfeeding impacts health.

16:13 What you should NEVER accept as a lactation space at work—and how the Pump Act protects you.

19:22 What the Pump Act means for surrogacy and adoption.

23:21 More women likely to breastfeed at work.

24:54 Employers recognize importance of supporting breastfeeding employees.

28:19 Pump Act: supporting all ways of nourishment.

Are you aware of your rights under the PUMP Act, and how they can improve your breastfeeding journey while working?

Don’t miss this episode—it’s packed with essential tips and legal insights that can help you navigate lactation in the workplace effectively.

Listen now and unlock the support you need to help nourish a baby with human milk!

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Links mentioned in the episode

Surprising Secrets Of Inducing Lactation For Surrogacy- Part 1 | Part 2

Center for WorkLife Law - Rights Guide & Legal Helpline

Pregnant @ Work - Learn more about your workplace rights