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Ever wondered what red flags you should watch for in the swinging lifestyle? In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into real-life stories of dates gone wrong, rude behavior, mismatched expectations, and questionable consent. From couples who show a totally different side on a second date, to partners who don’t seem on the same page, we share the signs that made us question, “Is this really the couple for us?”

✨ In this episode, you'll hear about:

• A disastrous dinner date with an incredibly rude couple (seriously, who sends food back over a heating lamp?!)
• Stories of awkward power dynamics where one partner speaks for the other
• Consent concerns in situations where one person seems uncomfortable
• The challenge of navigating mixed signals, unreciprocated flirting, and introvert/extrovert mismatches
• Tips on spotting red flags before you end up in an uncomfortable or unsafe situation

We want you to enjoy the lifestyle safely, confidently, and drama-free! This episode is perfect for swinger newbies, experienced lifestylers, or anyone curious about navigating ethical non-monogamy and consensual swinging with respect.

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00:00 - Start
01:01 - Tip 1: Pace It Out
03:31 - Tip 2: Fears and Expectations
06:17 - Tip 3: Get Uncomfortable
09:05 - Tip 4: Grow and Change
12:40 - Tip 5: Trust
21:34 - Lets talk about cheating...
22:47 - Wrap Up!

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Feeling like the lifestyle doesn’t light you up anymore? You’re not alone—and this episode is for you.

In this powerful conversation, Ed and Phoebe from Swinger University sit down with Kel from Expansive Connection to talk about what it really means when your desires evolve and swinging starts to feel... different.

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🔥 Whether it’s the same parties, same people, or just a fading thrill, this episode explores how to:

- Recognize when your lifestyle interests shift
- Embrace change without guilt or shame
- Let go of self-judgment and outdated identities
- Rewrite your story and rediscover what truly lights you up

💬 Kel—Certified Adult Chair Coach, Relational Life Therapy Coach, and Enneagram Coach—shares transformative tools to help you reconnect with your authentic self and reignite passion in your relationships.

✨ If you’re feeling stuck, burned out, or like the tribe you once loved doesn’t feel like home anymore, this episode is your invitation to something new.

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