In this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Miss Amber delves into the heartfelt journey of parenting—balancing responsibilities, nurturing independence, and embracing the inevitable imperfections along the way. Whether you're a new parent, an experienced one, or preparing to start a family, this episode offers invaluable insights into raising confident, capable children.

Key Highlights:

[00:00 - 02:00] Introduction and Personal Reflection

• Miss Amber opens up about her journey in early childhood education and parenting five kids.
• The overwhelming information overload today versus relying on books in the past.

[02:01 - 03:00] The Weight of Parenting

• Discussing the normality of feeling overwhelmed as a new parent.
• The pressure of raising well-rounded human beings and making inevitable mistakes.

[03:01 - 05:00] Teaching Independence Early

• Miss Amber’s personal experience of teaching her kids to cook from a young age.
• How small responsibilities, like meal planning and cooking, helped her children become more self-sufficient.

[05:01 - 06:30] Embracing the Chaos of a Full House

• Sharing a heartwarming moment with her adult children cooking and interacting, reflecting on their growth.
• The joy of watching them thrive as independent adults.

[06:31 - 07:30] Parenting is Lifelong Learning

• How each phase of parenting—from early childhood to adulthood—is a continuous learning experience.
• Recognizing that every child is different and requires unique approaches.

[07:31 - 08:30] Giving Grace to Yourself and Your Kids

• A reminder to extend grace to yourself and your children when mistakes happen.
• Emphasizing growth, learning, and doing better without striving for perfection.

[08:31 - 10:00] Fostering Confidence and Responsibility

• Encouraging children to take ownership of their needs, from ordering food at a restaurant to taking on age-appropriate chores.
• Promoting independence from a young age, helping children build confidence and life skills.

[10:01 - 11:30] Avoiding Labels and Letting Kids Find Their Own Way

• The importance of not boxing children into specific labels like “smart” or “athletic.”
• Praising effort and character, allowing children to grow into their unique identities.

[11:31 - 13:00] Open Communication and Setting Realistic Expectations

• Encouraging parents to check if their dreams align with their children's passions.
• Keeping communication open to help children express their needs and desires freely.

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Tweetable Quotes:

“Accept that you want to do better.” – Ms. Amber

“Always learn and always want to do better.” – Ms. Amber

“Part of being a parent is being a teacher, a leader, through grace and kindness for our kids, but leading by example.” – Ms. Amber

“One day it’s gonna so fast. They’re going to fly and it’s my job to teach my kids how to fly.” - Ms. Amber

“Boundaries, love, kindness, respect, nurturing and expectations are really good things for our kids.” – Ms. Amber

In this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Ms. Amber talks about the importance of taking vacations and the power of travel for both personal and family growth.

Whether you're a parent, educator, or curious about early childhood education, this episode is a thoughtful dive into why we shouldn't wait for retirement to explore the world. Ms. Amber shares her personal experiences, insights on travel's impact, and the mental and emotional benefits it brings. From her adventures in Alaska to personal stories of balancing work, family, and travel, this episode encourages listeners to embrace experiences over material gifts.

Key Highlights:

[00:01:00] Embracing Vacations and Why We Shouldn’t Wait

· Amber reflects on her recent Alaska cruise and why travel now, not later, is crucial.

· Observing the struggles of older travelers inspires a message: don’t wait until retirement to enjoy life.

· Her early travels to Mexico and Africa shaped her passion for exploring new cultures.

[00:04:00] Experiences Over Material Gifts

· Why Amber prioritizes travel and experiences over gifts for her children.

· She shares how traveling as a family builds lasting memories and strengthens family bonds.

· The shift from giving numerous gifts to gifting one big family vacation.

[00:06:00] The Power of Travel for Clarity and Creativity

· How stepping away from work and embracing new environments brings clarity to big life decisions.

· As a business owner, Amber finds travel essential for fostering creativity and avoiding burnout.

[00:08:00] The Tattoo That Symbolizes Adventure and Freedom

· Amber’s personal story about the tattoo she got during a pivotal moment in her life.

· The importance of embracing adventure and making choices that align with personal freedom.

[00:10:00] Why Tomorrow Isn't Promised

· Amber opens up about her battle with breast cancer and how it shaped her view on seizing life’s moments.

· Encourages listeners not to put off travel and to embrace opportunities when they arise.

[00:12:00] Planning Family Trips and Prioritizing Travel

· Amber shares her excitement for an upcoming family cruise to Spain, France, and Italy.

· She explains how travel resets the family dynamic and creates unforgettable memories.

· The value of quality time spent together while exploring new cities.

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Tweetable Quotes:

“We all may look different, but we are human.” – Ms. Amber

“Taking trips with just your partner is just as important…especially when you’re raising little ones.” – Ms. Amber

“Mommy and daddy need breaks too, and you’ll be better parents if you take that break.” – Ms. Amber

“Travel now, make it more of a priority in your life.” – Ms. Amber

In this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Ms. Amber acknowledges and appreciates the tireless work of home daycare providers while offering valuable tips to make the job a little easier. Whether you’re an experienced provider or just starting, this episode is packed with practical advice on streamlining operations, delegating tasks, and managing your time effectively. Learn how to create a structured yet flexible routine that keeps the kids engaged and makes your day run smoothly. Discover the importance of self-care, setting boundaries, and building a supportive network to avoid burnout and ensure long-term success in your childcare business.

Key Highlights:

[00:00 - 01:00] Welcome and Introduction

• Ms. Amber introduces the show and its mission to support parents, educators, and those curious about early childhood education.

• A special shoutout to home daycare providers for their dedication and hard work.

[01:01 - 02:00] Acknowledging Home Daycare Providers

• Recognition of the challenging role home daycare providers play in children's lives.

• Emphasis on the impact they have on both the children and the families they serve.

[02:01 - 05:00] Streamlining Operations

• Simplifying daily routines to reduce stress and improve the flow of the day.

• The importance of having a structured schedule that includes drop-off, circle time, outdoor play, and more.

• Tips on creating a routine that engages children and makes transitions smoother.

[05:01 - 07:00] The Power of Delegation

• Encouragement to delegate tasks to reduce workload and prevent burnout.

• Ideas for hiring assistants or interns to help with day-to-day operations.

• Setting boundaries and treating your daycare as a business for greater respect and success.

[07:01 - 10:00] Effective Time Management and Self-Care

• The significance of self-care for home daycare providers and how to carve out time for it.

• Task batching and planning to optimize your schedule and make your workload more manageable.

• Encouragement to outsource tasks that drain your energy, using platforms like Fiverr and Canva.

[10:01 - 12:00] Building a Supportive Network and Parent Involvement

• The benefits of connecting with other daycare providers and joining supportive communities.

• Ideas for involving parents in your daycare, such as having them read stories or participate in activities with the children.

• Outsourcing and utilizing tools to lighten your workload and improve your daycare services.

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Tweetable Quotes:

“You are not just providing amazing care. You are an entrepreneur.” – Ms. Amber

“You are a business owner. Own it, accept it, celebrate it.” – Ms. Amber

“Boundaries are really important, especially for early childhood educators and especially for you home daycare providers.” – Ms. Amber

“Set boundaries with your parents and set your daycare up as a business.” – Ms. Amber

In this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Ms. Amber shares a personal journey of transformation and offers valuable insights into how changing your story can change your life. With over 25 years of experience in early childhood education, Amber opens up about her own struggles and how she overcame them by rewriting the narrative that held her back. If you're ready to let go of old patterns and step into a healthier, more empowered version of yourself, this episode is a must-listen.

Key Highlights:

[00:00 - 02:00] Introduction & Setting the Scene

• Welcome to the ABCs of Preschool, hosted by Ms. Amber, a mom of five and early childhood expert.

• Reflecting on the beauty of fall in Northern California and setting the tone for a fresh start in the new school year.

[02:01 - 03:00] The Power of a New Beginning

• Discussing the excitement and opportunities that come with the start of a new school year.

• Personal reflection on how the new year signifies a time for fresh ideas and transformation.

[03:01 - 07:00] Change Your Story, Change Your Life

• Amber shares her personal story of feeling stuck in a negative narrative about her health.

• The realization that she needed to change her story to break free from the fear and illness that had defined her life.

[07:01 - 09:00] The Process of Transformation

• How Amber took control of her health by removing gluten from her diet and starting a daily walking routine.

• The importance of daily affirmations and positive self-talk in changing her mindset.

[09:01 - 11:00] Identifying and Confronting Your Story Loop

• The first step in transformation is identifying the negative story loop that plays in your head.

• Amber encourages listeners to reflect on their own limiting beliefs and decide to let go of the narratives that no longer serve them.

[11:01 - 13:00] Reflecting on Why We Hold Onto Negative Narratives

• Exploring why people hold onto negative stories, often rooted in past trauma or experiences.

• Amber shares her journey of overcoming a narrative of illness and how she shifted her mindset towards health and strength.

[13:01 - 16:00] Practical Steps to Rewrite Your Narrative

• Practical tips for changing your story: Identify the negative loop, reflect on its origins, and replace it with a positive affirmation.

• The impact of consistent daily practices, such as walking and positive affirmations, in creating lasting change.

[16:01 - 18:00] Wrapping Up & Encouragement

• Amber encourages listeners to take the first step towards rewriting their narrative and to believe in their ability to transform their lives.

• Closing thoughts on the power of mindset and the importance of being intentional about the stories we tell ourselves.

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Tweetable Quotes:

“We need to think it, believe it, and feel it, and then change will start happening.” – Ms. Amber

“We can only change us. We can only change our story and our story loop in our lives.” – Ms. Amber

“Say it 10 times a day, I am strong. I am financially free. I am enough. I am love.“ – Ms. Amber

In this episode of the ABCs of Preschool, host Ms. Amber, an experienced mom and early childhood expert, opens up about her personal journey with postpartum depression. She discusses the importance of addressing this often-stigmatized topic and encourages women to seek help without shame. Ms. Amber explains what postpartum depression is, how it differs from the baby blues, and shares her own experiences with panic attacks and treatment. The episode calls for a more open dialogue about mental health in motherhood, aiming to empower and support mothers experiencing postpartum depression.

Key Highlights:

Postpartum Depression - Personal Journey (1:14 - 3:05)

· Ms. Amber shares personal experience with postpartum depression.

Importance of Mental Health Conversation (3:05 - 4:11)

· The need for open conversations, urging women not to carry shame and to seek help.

Understanding Postpartum Depression (4:32 - 7:03)

· Postpartum depression and it symptoms

· How it differs from the typical "baby blues”

Statistics and Normalization (10:50 - 11:14)

· Startling statistic that 1 in 7 mothers experience postpartum depression

· He need to normalize the conversation and support affected women.

Hormonal Changes and Their Impact (11:14 - 12:00)

· How hormonal changes after childbirth contribute to postpartum depression

· The significant impact these changes can have on a mother's mental health.

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Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.

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Tweetable Quotes:

“We are not a bad person because we are suffering and we feel like we have darkness in us.” -Ms. Amber

“As women were supposed to be nurturers and caretakers and we’re supposed to be super women all the freaking time.” -Ms. Amber

“It’s so fascinating. 1 out of 7 moms, 14% experience PPD. That is crazy.” – Ms. Amber

In this episode of The ABC's A Preschool Podcast, Miss Amber delves into the complexities of having tough conversations with staff, particularly when it involves demotions. She shares her insights on the unique challenges women face in leadership roles and the importance of addressing underperformance to enhance team dynamics and business success. Drawing from her 24 years of experience, Amber provides practical advice on preparing for and conducting these conversations, while maintaining kindness and professionalism.

Key Highlights:

Introduction to Navigating Tough Conversations: [00:00]

• • Overview of the episode’s focus on managing tough conversations, especially demotions.

Challenges Women Face in Leadership: [00:16]

• • Discussing the specific obstacles women encounter in leadership roles.

Identifying Performance Issues: [01:26]

• • Recognizing signs of underperformance and its impact on the team.

Addressing Team Dynamics: [02:32]

• • The importance of understanding and managing team dynamics in difficult conversations.

Preparing for Difficult Conversations: [06:45]

• • Steps for gathering evidence, assessing personal biases, and planning the conversation.

Conducting the Conversation: [09:52]

• • Best practices for holding the conversation, including setting a private setting and maintaining clarity.

Post-Conversation Steps: [14:34]

• • How to follow up, set clear expectations, and communicate changes to the team.

Encouraging Open Communication: [16:45]

• • Fostering a culture of open communication and feedback within the team.

Conclusion and Final Thoughts: [17:08]

• • Recap and final thoughts on managing tough conversations and ensuring team cohesion.

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Tweetable Quotes:

"Navigating tough conversations in childcare is never easy, but it’s necessary for the success of your team." – Ms. Amber

"As women, we often shy away from tough conversations, but honesty delivered with kindness can lead to powerful outcomes." – Ms. Amber

"Transparency, respect, and kindness are key when having tough conversations with your team." – Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber dives into the complex and evolving topic of sharing our children’s lives on social media. With over 25 years of experience in early childhood education and as a mom of five, Amber brings a thoughtful perspective on the ethical implications and impacts of documenting and broadcasting our kids' lives online. Whether you're a parent, educator, or simply curious about this issue, this episode offers valuable insights into the pros and cons of social media exposure for children.

Key Highlights:

[00:01 - 03:12] Personal Reflections on Social Media

• Amber reflects on her journey with social media, from early days on Facebook to modern vlogging.

• The evolution of documenting children’s lives and how past practices compare with today’s digital landscape.

[03:13 - 08:45] Ethical Considerations

• The ethical dilemma of filming and sharing every aspect of a child’s life.

• Insights from the Ruby Frank case, exploring the consequences of extreme public exposure and the impact on children’s privacy and safety.

[08:46 - 12:54] Impact on Mental Health

• Discussion on the potential mental health effects of being constantly on display and the pressure to be "camera-ready."

• The psychological implications of having a digital record of every moment of childhood.

[12:55 - 16:20] Exposure to Public Scrutiny

• How public scrutiny and online trolls can affect children.

• The risks of negative comments, exploitation, and the potential for future scrutiny.

[16:21 - 18:30] Parental Responsibility and Boundaries

• The importance of setting boundaries to protect children’s privacy.

• Amber’s perspective on balancing the desire to document family life with respecting children’s autonomy and ensuring their well-being.

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Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.

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Tweetable Quotes:

“We need to set healthy boundaries with our kids and social media in the sense of what we put online.” - Ms. Amber

“A lot of social media out there is rainbows and butterflies. And that's not life. Life is hard.” - Ms. Amber

“Life is freaking hard. It's like the yin and yang.” - Ms. Amber