Follow my journey from dealing with constant sibling rivalry and fighting among my children to creating a more harmonious household. Discover how focusing on my own inner healing and changing my personal energy had a profound effect on reducing conflict at home.

I emphasize the importance of self-improvement and inner work to foster positive changes in family dynamics, sharing anecdotes and insights from my experience as a parenting coach. I conclude with a call to action for you to engage in your own self-healing journey for lasting transformation.

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Learn the concept of "shame energy" by using the analogy of two rooms. The left-hand room represents negative emotions like fear, worry, and shame, where trying to solve problems through control or apathy doesn’t work. The right-hand room symbolizes trust, intuition, and abundant energy, where challenges tend to resolve more naturally. Discover the importance of recognizing which room you’re in, journaling to increase awareness, and emotionally processing your feelings to move from the left room to the right. This practice supports emotional growth and helps you tap into intuitive problem-solving.

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Explore how we can teach intuition to our children through attachment parenting. I share my own journey of focusing on secure attachment and realizing that children naturally have their own wisdom and knowledge. I talk about how parenting is really about creating an environment where kids can grow and learn to trust themselves. I emphasize the importance of tuning into children’s body cues, letting them make mistakes, and building a foundation of trust. I invite you to follow, subscribe, and share to help support the shame-free parenting movement.

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Dive into self-trust and how hard it can be to truly trust my own ideas, opinions, and choices—especially after growing up in a world that teaches us to look to experts instead of tuning into ourselves.

I talk about how societal conditioning makes it easy to doubt our inner voice, and how I’ve been working on reclaiming that trust by being willing to make mistakes, embrace the mess, and listen to what my body and emotions are telling me. For me, learning to consistently check in with my own knowing has been key to building confidence and a more grounded sense of self.

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Learn to see emotions as messages from our bodies. Instead of labeling them as good or bad, I treat them like visitors bringing something important to share. I share how I try to receive those messages—both through the words they might be saying and the physical sensations they bring.

I also reflect on insights from Burnout by Emily Nagoski, especially around the importance of actually feeling emotions in order to move through them. There’s a story I tell about explaining this to a child, which helped me see how these concepts can be used in everyday life—simply and meaningfully.

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Learn how the shaming of emotions often gets embedded in our childhood experiences. I explore how parents' actions and societal norms contribute to the subconscious messages we receive about our feelings, and I highlight the importance of revisiting these messages to foster healthier emotional responses. I emphasize the need for self-compassion, offering practical steps to understand and release emotional burdens. My goal is to help us all better support both ourselves and others emotionally.

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Dive into the pervasive nature of shame and its deep-seated effects on our thoughts and self-perception. By examining the concept of having two inner selves—the critical 'parent self' and the vulnerable 'child self'—I'll emphasize the importance of fostering a nurturing internal dialogue. Through inner child work, you can heal wounded parts, rediscover your innate creativity, and embrace your authentic self. The discussion also highlights the importance of creating a supportive relationship between these inner selves to ensure emotional safety and self-acceptance.

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My Journey with Shame Welcome to the inaugural episode of 'The Art of Shame-Free Living'! I'm excited to share my extensive journey and personal experiences with shame. I believe in the pervasiveness of shame in various aspects of life, including communication problems, anxiety, and identity issues. I'll emphasize the importance of resonance and listening with your heart. I'll also share my evolution from traditional life coaching to exploring deeper, somatic practices for dealing with shame. This episode sets the stage for future discussions and experiments in living a shame-free life, highlighting the potential gifts and growth that can come from confronting and understanding shame.

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