In this conversation, Dak interviews Eric FitzMedrud, a psychologist and therapist specializing in sex and relationship issues. Eric shares his journey of self-discovery and acceptance as a queer individual. He also discusses the importance of solid relationships and the joy of helping couples experience deep, loving connections. Eric's book, 'The Better Man: A Guide to Consent, Stronger Relationships, and Hotter Sex,' offers a unique approach to consent by focusing on emotional work and vulnerability. He emphasizes the importance of open communication, understanding, and navigating emotions in relationships. Dak and Eric FitzMedrud discuss the emotional differences between men and women in this conversation. They explore the idea that emotional expression is influenced by culture and personal experiences. Eric explains that men can be emotional but may have different ways of processing and expressing their emotions. They also discuss the importance of vulnerability and open communication in relationships and the concept of consent in conversations and feedback. They conclude by addressing the inevitability of hurt in relationships and the opportunity for growth and deeper intimacy that comes from navigating through it.