A special interview with my client Tali - who is a brilliant engineer at a tech startup company. This episode has extra commentary from me as your coach so you can see what I'm thinking about as she shares her transformation story. We focused on transforming 3 key areas:
Upgrade her Career & Impact: Tali wanted to make a bigger impact at her work, but was feeling depleted & bogged down by so many tasks. She didn't have time to work on the big projects she wanted to get done, and as much as she wanted to get work done within set hours, she could *not* seem to turn her working brain off in the evenings. She would find herself scrolling social media in the morning and dragging her feet to get to work. Tali needed to stop being so reactive to being helpful to everyone around her, get back in control of her time, and step into leadership. She rose up and in 3 months she set boundaries & started working on key impactful projects became the sought after expert, got loads of support from people wanting to be on her team, and got a raise.
Upgrade her Life & Well-Being - Tali worked hard for her career success - and she craved a bold beautiful pleasureful life to match. Tali had a bunch of things she wanted to do but wasn't pulling the trigger on - mostly because she was *tired*, she wasn't prioritizing herself and she was being hard on herself (as many of my clients are) - including feeling self consciousness about her body. We got to the root of that pattern and she started going to the gym again, feeling strong in her body, and dancing for fun & personal expression vs for perfection. She got bold and booked a flight and airbnbs to go work in Germany for a couple months! So fun. And as she allowed herself to pursue more pleasure in life, her energy became so juicy, relaxed and magnetic that she started receiving loads of fun invites on her social calendar.
Upgrade her Love Life - Tali really wanted to be in long term partnership again (and eventually marriage and a family), but it felt really far away from where she was - because she didn't know where to meet the kind of man she wanted and also because she felt like she needed to lose weight first. She hadn't been on a date in over a year, and was worried about choosing wrong, and having the relationship fizzle out, or her family not being impressed by her choice in partner. She wanted a real relationship with a deep connection that contains both intimacy and freedom - and one where she could be her soft nourishing feminine self but also a successful, active, smart woman. We worked on her patterns and she started feeling radiant, confident and actually beautiful again. Within a couple months she broke her 1 year dry spell and not only did she start dating again, but this time rather than her doing the pursuing, men were pursuing her, planning fun dates & the whole experience felt "way lighter" than before.
Listen & Learn:
- Why you need to stop looking over your shoulder to your family for approval
- What it means to be differentiated within your family system - and why its necessary to create a career, a life & a romantic partnership that you love.
- How to bring value through who you're being vs what you're doing
- How to get back into dating when you've been on a dry spell (hint: You don't need to lose weight or drop 1K on getting professional photos taken)
- How to date like a Grown @ss Woman (hint: it's about looking for more than chiseled abs and jaw lines)
- Strong Women looking for Love- You need to stop telling men what to do if you want them to take the lead and make plans with you - and what to do instead.
- How as a coach I use the hobby you're most obsessed with to help you make shifts the fun way (if you're not into journaling, meditation, etc).
- How partner dancing can help you rewire your nervous system to feel safe with men, surrendering control, trust, self expression and leadership.
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