What do you want a relationship for? It’s a great question to ask yourself, because most people have a whole lot of expectations with regards to a relationship, whether they are in one or not.

You don’t have to buy other people’s reality with relationships. You can choose something different.

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action Simone Milasas talks with Rattan Deep Singh and Kiran Singh about their relationship of over 50 years, and the tools that contributed to growing together over that time; one of which is allowance.

It’s not about us all having the same reality. What works for you?

Keys Takeaways

• What If There Is A Different Possibility?
• Creating A Great Relationship
• Just For Me Just For Fun, Never Tell Anyone
• Relationships Done Different
• The 5 Elements Of Intimacy With Yourself
• The Singh’s Top Relationship Tools

Daily Questions:

• "What's right about this I am not getting?"
• "What's right about me I am not getting?"

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

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• The Singh’s Website
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• The Profit Club membership
• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
• All Upcoming Classes with Simone
• Past Class Recordings

Mentioned In This Episode

• The Foundation class: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/classes/the-foundation
• Relationships Done Different classes: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/micrositesfolder/relationship-done-different
• Up In The Air movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1193138
• Being The Source, Uluru AU with Simone, Gary & Dain: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/advanced-facilitator/being-the-source_638519227606846275/details
• Relationships Done Different, Abu Dhabi & online with Simone: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/relationships-done-different/relationships-done-different-with-an-advanced-faci_638597594769003912/details

Do you believe it’s possible to change your situation, no matter what is going on?

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action Simone Milasas talks with Maya Dayan about her experiences growing up in a commune in Israel, where individual choice was basically taken away from her, where living through wars meant you were in a constant state of survival, and where serving her mandatory service in the Israeli army with an abusive sergeant was the last thing she ever wanted to do.

It took a while, but Maya made the choice to really get out of those lenses of survival and thinking that everything has to be harsh, and took action to change her situation. The difference that choice made, and the action she still takes towards choosing something different, is resulting in more and more of what she actually desires showing up everyday.

What would it take to actualise a world of benevolence, kindness, abundance and beauty?

Keys Takeaways

• Living In A State Of Survival
• Choosing Change And Taking Action
• If You Feel Good, You Are Good. If You Feel Bad, Change It
• Finding Access Consciousness
• Abuse Doesn’t Necessarily Fit Into A Category
• The AccessMe App

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

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Follow Maya Dayan

• Maya Dayan’s Website
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• Maya Dayan's Instagram

Play with Simone Milasas

• The Profit Club membership
• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
• All Upcoming Classes with Simone
• Past Class Recordings

Mentioned In This Episode

• El Lugar : https://www.el-lugar.com/
• Access Me : https://access.me/
• Changing The Issues Of Abuse, class with Gary Douglas & Dr Dain Heer : https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/shop-catalog/advanced-special-classes/changing-the-issues-of-abuse-3/
• The Abuse Hold : https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/body-classes/advanced-body-class/abuse-hold-class_638655574406879920/details/

Have you ever judged yourself as an idiot for making a particular choice with money or in business? Have you ever considered who it is that gets to define what ‘idiot’ is and isn’t?

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action Simone Milasas talks with David Kubes about your bases for business and the universe of possibilities that could be available if you chose something different.

Beyond bases is this energy of more; of infinite possibilities and infinite receiving.

Both David and Simone would both like you to have more of you. But you've got to choose it. What actually works for you?

Keys Takeaways

• From Gratitude, Possibilities Show Up
• What Is Your Basis For Business?
• What’s Beyond Bases?
• What If You Started Asking Different Questions?
• There is Another Possibility Available; Even With Money
• What If You Could Just Receive?

Daily Questions:

• "What can I be for …….. today?”
• "What if we did something entirely different?"
• "What generative possibilities are available today?"
• "What is my basic structure that maintains ………….?"
• “If I changed my basic structure, could I have something different?"
• "What is it? Can I change it? What could be different here?"

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

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Follow David Kubes

• David Kubes’ Website
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• David Kubes' Instagram

Play with Simone Milasas

• The Profit Club membership
• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
• All Upcoming Classes with Simone
• Past Class Recordings

Mentioned In This Episode

• El Lugar: https://www.el-lugar.com
• Business Done Different Riyadh with Simone & David: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/joy-of-business/business-done-different-with-an-advanced-facilitat_638551441010517297/details
• Business Done Different with Simone: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/joy-of-business/business-done-different-with-an-advanced-facilitat_638619200987739554/details

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action Simone Milasas talks with John Wheeler, an Access Consciousness Certified Facilitator about gaslighting. John facilitates classes called Taking The Gas Out of Gaslighting, and has a very unique way of referring to it, which has a lot to do with allowance and empowerment.

It's not about judging gaslighting or making it right or wrong. It's about the awareness of it so you know when someone is gaslighting you. Then you can make a choice. Without the awareness, you are in reaction.

It’s also not about changing the person gaslighting you; it’s up to them if they change or not. It's about knowing who you are and not buying what they say as a truth. You get to choose for you.

If you are experiencing gaslighting, you can come out the other side empowered; without being less than where you started.

Keys Takeaways

• What Is Gaslighting?
• How People Gaslight
• Recognising That You Are Being Gaslit
• What’s Your Definition Of Love
• Shutting Off The Gas To Gaslighting
• Using Gaslighting To Your Advantage
• Creating Freedom From Gaslighting
• The Gift Of Being Gaslit
• You Don’t Need To Fight Or Defend Anything
• You Get To Choose Your Reality

Daily Questions:

• "Where am I being gaslighted in my life and where am I gaslighting in my life?"
• “What’s my reality?”
• “What am I choosing?”

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

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• John Wheeler’s Website
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• The Profit Club membership
• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
• All Upcoming Classes with Simone
• Past Class Recordings

Mentioned In This Episode

• Benevolent Capitalism class: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/shop-catalog/advanced-special-classes/the-benevolent-capitalism-class-sep-24-el-lugar
• 6-Day Event The Artistry Of Creation: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/shop-catalog/core-classes/intensive/the-artistry-of-creation-6-day-oct-24-el-lugar
• El Lugar: https://www.el-lugar.com
• Shutting Off The Gas To Gaslighting: https://www.john-wheeler.com/gaslighting
• Dr. Stephanie A Sarkis’ article: https://joyofbusiness.box.com/s/4hyd6ovssetambeax300zuojl37wt2qb
• Gaslighting book by Stephanie A Sarkis: https://stephaniesarkis.com/gaslighting

What do you base your choices on? Do you choose mostly from trying to get it right, or wrong, or do you just choose?

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action Simone Milasas shares with us a couple of personal stories, including a near death experience, that led her to choose greater; to truly know that choice is her reality, and that it’s not based on anything other than just choosing.

If you keep choosing greatness every day, and asking for that, and no longer choosing from right or wrong, where could your life be in 10 years time? And, what if you asked for that to show up today?

Keys Takeaways

• Choose What Works For You
• What Do You Base Your Choices On?
• Choosing To Live
• Choosing Greatness

Daily Questions:

• "What next?”
• "What would I like to choose right now?”
• "What is my basis for ….( e.g. need of control, etc.)?"
• "Does this fulfil my desire?"

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

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Play with Simone Milasas

• The Profit Club membership
• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
• All Upcoming Classes with Simone
• Past Class Recordings

Mentioned In This Episode

• El Lugar Resort, Costa Rica: https://www.el-lugar.com
• Access Consciousness 6-Day events: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/core-classes/intensive
• Facebook video post about Simone’s whitewater rafting: https://www.facebook.com/simonemilasas/videos/530699202894282
• Whitewater rafting company: https://www.riospuravida.com/index.html
• Conscious Horse Conscious Rider: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/micrositesfolder/chcr

Do you have the point of view that you have to do everything yourself, or that nobody can do your job as good as you? What if that is one of the biggest lies that this society has ingrained into you?

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action Simone Milasas talks with Dr. David Kubes about the benefits of no longer being autonomous, in business and in life. When you eliminate autonomy and connect and engage with other people’s capacities, the floodgates of possibilities open.

No longer functioning from an autonomy doesn't mean you are taking away your capacities. What you are actually doing is increasing your capacities. So much more is possible when you are functioning from the willingness to receive and the willingness to contribute and collaborate rather than doing autonomy in business.

What if we could have more freedom in our worlds and more freedom in our business and money flows and everything?

Keys Takeaways

• Are You Functioning From Autonomy?
• Connect And Engage With Everyone’s Capacities
• You Receive More When You Ask For Help
• Opening The Floodgates Of Possibilities
• Business Done Different

Daily Questions:

• "What are their capacities that I haven't been willing to receive?"
• "Who can help us here?"
• “What next?”

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

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Follow David Kubes

• David Kubes’ Website
• David Kubes’ Facebook
• David Kubes' Instagram

Play with Simone Milasas

• The Profit Club membership
• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
• All Upcoming Classes with Simone
• Past Class Recordings

Mentioned In This Episode

• The Boy, The Mole, The Fox and The Horse book : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Boy,_the_Mole,_the_Fox_and_the_Horse
• The Profit Club : https://www.simonemilasas.com/profitclub
• Business Done Different class with Simone & David : https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/joy-of-business/business-done-different-with-an-advanced-facilitat_638551441010517297/details/

Do you sense that the world is generous or punishing?

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action Simone Milasas talks with Dr. Charlie Verge about points of view that limit our choices, and our happiness.

We spend our whole life trying to make things right or wrong and trying to make the right choice so you won't be wrong but you've already decided you're wrong anyway. What if there is no right or wrong?

What could you create if you had no point of view about anyone or anything and just functioned from a knowing that we lived in a generous universe? Would you start to taste life again?

Trust you and your choices and choose what makes you happy every day. Choose to live joyously!

Keys Takeaways

• Miracles Happen When You Have No Point Of View
• What’s Your Driving Force?
• Choose Happiness
• What If The Universe Is Generous?

Daily Questions:

• "Who am I today and what grand and glorious adventures can I have?"
• “What next?”
• "If I were happy, what would I be choosing?"
• "I'll have what they're having."
• "I'll have more of that please."
• "Would I like to do this today? Yes? No?"
• "What if there is a generous universe? What would I ask for? What action would I take? What would I choose for me today?"
• “Body, what would you like?”

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

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Follow Dr. Charlie Verge

• Dr. Charlie Verge’s Website
• Dr. Charlie Verge’s Facebook

Play with Simone Milasas

• Wake Up Happy class with Simone
• The Profit Club membership
• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
• All Upcoming Classes with Simone
• Past Class Recordings

Mentioned In This Episode

• El Lugar: https://www.el-lugar.com
• The Magic of Allowance class free purchase link: https://www.drcharlieverge.com/offers/tnyjdhvH?coupon_code=ALLOWDIFFERENT

Are you truly happy or are you pretending to be?

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action Simone Milasas talks with Indalecio Lopez about his experience with depression, anxiety and panic attacks even though everyone thought he should be happy as he had his dream career playing professional hockey in Europe having grown up in a small town in Argentina.

Indalecio knew there was something different available and kept searching for it. Trusting the energy and trusting what he knows saved his life.

Are you being true to you today with what actually works for you?

Keys Takeaways

• Are You Okay?
• Access Bars Saved Indalecio’s Life
• Are You Trying To Live Up To An Image Or An Expectation
• Some Tools To Take Away

Daily Questions:

• “What next?”
• "What can I do different?"
• “What else is possible?”
• "If I was being me right now, what would I choose?"
• "If I didn't have the point of view that it was impossible, what would be possible here? What can I receive today that I couldn't receive yesterday?"
• "If I was choosing my reality right now, what can I choose? What can I be?"

Useful Links:

• The Clearing Statement explained
• Access Consciousness Website
• Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram

Follow Simone Milasas

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Follow Indalecio Lopez

• Indalecio Lopez’s Website
• Indalecio Lopez’s Instagram
• Indalecio Lopez’s Facebook

Play with Simone Milasas

• The Profit Club membership
• Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course
• All Upcoming Classes with Simone
• Past Class Recordings

Mentioned In This Episode

• The Access Bars: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/micrositesfolder/accessbars/
• Are You Okay Day: https://www.ruok.org.au/r-u-ok-day
• What If You’re Not As F*d Up As You Think You Are? Campaign: https://www.access-consciousness-blog.com/2024/09/are-you-as-fcked-up-as-you-think-spoiler-youre-not
• You Are Not As F*d Up As You Think You Are podcast with Simone: https://www.simonemilasas.com/blog/225-you-are-not-as-f-cked-up-as-you-think-you-are
• Here’s The Thing About Personalities podcast with Simone: https://www.simonemilasas.com/blog/214-here-s-the-thing-about-personalities
• Choice for Possibilities: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/classes/choice-of-possibilities