Rubby reflects on how academia often isolates knowledge, contrasting this with the holistic learning in pre-colonial Africa, where life, community, and learning were interwoven. She critiques neoliberalism’s fragmented knowledge structure and shares her discovery of “messy utopia” through her professor, George Dei.

This episode explores God’s “upside-down kingdom,” emphasizing true giving, strength in weakness, and redefining success through community rather than individualism. Rubby invites listeners to reimagine a world centered on humanity, grace, and spiritual solidarity.

In this Sweet Medicine episode, hosts Rubby Ben and Princess explore "Sweet Grace" through Hebrews 12, reflecting on God’s love and correction. His grace, sufficient and transformative, disciplines us out of love to deepen our relationship with Him. Unlike our cultural understanding of rehab, spiritual transformation is a journey with Christ, who strengthens and sanctifies us as we surrender. Through Psalm 34:8, Rubby describes God’s grace as a sensory, comforting experience, reminding us of the sacrifice shown in Romans 6:1-2. This grace, purchased at the cross, invites us to extend forgiveness to others.

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Sweet Medicine is a segment we created from The Dawn Of Us Podcast, as a space for honesty, vulnerability & growth when it comes to the ways we wield our tongue.

With scripture and the Holy Spirit being our foundation, we hope through these series of conversations, we learn to tame our tongue, and to bring about transformation in a way that is medicine for the soul.

In this vulnerable episode, host Rubby Ben reflects on the struggle with guilt in her journey with Christ. Rubby shares how certain sins cause deep shame, leading to feelings of inadequacy and jealousy of others’ spiritual closeness. She explores the challenge of categorizing sins and the legalism of faith, which intensifies the guilt. However, she reminds listeners of God's grace and mercy through Hebrews 4:16, emphasizing that true intimacy with God requires daily surrender, repentance, and reliance on His strength.

Songs recommended:

What can I do- Tye Tribbett

His Word- Grace Tena

Mercy said no- Cece Winans

Hosted & Executive Produced by: Rubby Ben

Producer & Executive Producer: Shift Productions

Filmed & Edited by: Shift Productions

Rubby's IG: / @rwbyben

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Welcome to Sweet Medicine with Rubby Ben and Princess. In this episode, we explore the transformative power of surrendering to God. Surrendering means releasing control over our lives and allowing God to lead, particularly through our words and actions. As Matthew 11:28-30 reminds us, surrender brings rest and peace. It connects us to God, the source of our breath, and allows us to experience the fruits of the Spirit—love, patience, and goodness. By surrendering, we reflect God's nature and embrace His guidance, ultimately transforming ourselves and our lives.

Sweet Medicine is a segment we created from The Dawn Of Us Podcast, as a space for honesty, vulnerability & growth when it comes to the ways we wield our tongue.

With scripture and the Holy Spirit being our foundation, we hope through these series of conversations, we learn to tame our tongue, and to bring about transformation in a way that is medicine for the soul.

Seeing eye to eye is an idiom that signifies agreement, yet, as Christians, we often struggle to align with certain aspects of our faith, such as our current situations, the Bible, and the church. This journey can be challenging and emotional, as we wrestle with doubts, despair, and feelings of isolation. However, it's crucial to surrender these struggles to God, trusting that He understands our hearts and will provide clarity in time. By bringing these issues to God, we can find peace and understanding, knowing He has dominion over our lives.

Hosted & Executive Produced by: Rubby Ben

Producer & Executive Producer: Shift Productions

Filmed & Edited by: Shift Productions

Rubby's IG: / @rwbyben

The Dawn of Us Podcast

IG: / @thedawnofuspodcast

TikTok: / @thedawnofuspodcast

Today’s focus is on insults, curses, and colorful language. We'll break down their definitions and explore the emotional and spiritual impact they have, particularly in relation to anger, which isn’t inherently sinful but often lead to outburst that is sinful.

Using bible scriptures as the anchor, Ephesians 4:25-31 and Matthew 5:21-22 remind us to control our tongues, as words can defile and hurt others. Let’s discuss how insults shape relationships, body image, and mental health, often disguised as concern. Words matter—let’s use them wisely!

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Show Synopsis: Sweet Medicine is a segment we created from The Dawn Of Us Podcast, as a space for honesty, vulnerability & growth when it comes to the ways we wield our tongue.

With scripture and the Holy Spirit being our foundation, we hope through these series of conversations, we learn to tame our tongue, and to bring about transformation in a way that is medicine for the soul.

Our understanding of love is shaped by societal and cultural influences, often embedding harmful ideas of love rooted in trauma, codependency, and unrealistic expectations. By embracing a counter-narrative rooted in God's love—selfless, patient, and all-encompassing—we can redefine our understanding of love.

This love is not self-serving but is extended to others simply for their humanity. It calls for a decolonized approach to Christianity, one that rejects the misuse of faith for control and instead emphasizes community, hospitality, and genuine care. In this way, our messy, flawed love can be made perfect through God's grace.

Welcome back to Sweet Medicine with Rubby Ben and Princess. Today, we explore the meaning of "tea" in conversations—its nuances and how it reflects personal experiences. Princess discusses the history of tea, while Rubby highlights how women, especially in Black and queer communities, used these spaces to build resilience and share tools for survival. Conversations, like tea, come with ingredients that affect their outcome—sometimes rooted in envy, deceit, or malice. We must be mindful of the impact our words have, ensuring they build up rather than destroy (Ephesians 4:29).

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Show Synopsis: Sweet Medicine is a segment we created from The Dawn Of Us Podcast, as a space for honesty, vulnerability & growth when it comes to the ways we wield our tongue.

With scripture and the Holy Spirit being our foundation, we hope through these series of conversations, we learn to tame our tongue, and to bring about transformation in a way that is medicine for the soul.