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What does it take to be not just a good father, but a transformational one? Former NFL quarterback Jeff Kemp brings decades of wisdom to this intimate conversation about the journey from boyhood to manhood to fatherhood—and it may not be what you expect.

Growing up as the son of NFL star and vice-presidential candidate Jack Kemp, Jeff struggled with the pressure of comparison. "I became insecure because I could never be as good a big deal as my dad," he confesses. This vulnerability opens the door to the episode's most powerful revelation: authentic fatherhood begins not with perfection but with understanding your identity as a beloved son of God.

Jeff introduces us to the concept of "Level 5 Friendship"—the missing ingredient in many men's lives. "A Level 5 friend is trusted, loyal, confidential, intentional, committed and consistent," he explains. "Most men don't have a Level 4 friend or a Level 5 friend." Through his organization Men Huddle, Jeff helps fathers create intentional communities where they can be vulnerable about their struggles without fear of judgment.

The conversation takes an emotional turn when Jeff shares the story of his father's deathbed blessing. After reading his father a three-page list of thanks for everything his dad had taught him, Jack offered his son a final prayer that affirmed Jeff's identity, purpose, and surrender to God's will. This powerful moment illustrates how a father's words can anchor a child's identity for a lifetime.

Perhaps the most surprising insight comes when Jeff suggests that apologizing may be a father's most powerful tool. "My best fathering as a father of grown sons is an apology," he says. "I'm modeling the gospel when I say 'I messed up.'" This humble approach creates a culture of grace that reflects God's heart toward us.

Whether you're a new dad, a seasoned grandfather, or still healing from father wounds of your own, this conversation offers a new vision for manhood and fatherhood. Discover how receiving God's love rather than trying to earn it can transform not just how you parent, but how you live.

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Have you ever felt your identity slipping away as your once-adoring child transforms into a boundary-testing teenager? That profound shift when your sweet little one who hung on your every word now questions, challenges, or even rejects your guidance can leave you wondering not just how to parent effectively, but who you are when your role seems to be changing beneath your feet.

This episode dives deep into one of motherhood's most challenging transitions: maintaining connection with your changing child while preserving your own sense of self. Pastor Ed McGlasson offers a paradigm-shifting perspective on motherhood that transcends traditional parenting advice. Rather than focusing solely on techniques to manage your child's behavior, he illuminates how securing your own identity creates the foundation for authentic connection with your evolving child.

"Children need a lighthouse when the storm is raging around them," McGlasson explains, painting a powerful image of what steadfast motherhood looks like amid adolescent turbulence. This metaphor captures the essence of effective parenting during seasons of change—remaining steadfast not because you're controlling outcomes, but because you're anchored in something deeper than your children's responses to you.

Drawing from spiritual wisdom and practical experience as both a parent and counselor to countless families, McGlasson reveals how mothers can distinguish between their identity and their role, creating space for both authentic connection and healthy boundaries. You'll discover specific prayers and mindset shifts that help you remain effective even when parenting feels like navigating uncharted waters.

Whether you're currently navigating the choppy waters of parenting a teenager, preparing for those years ahead, or reflecting on your journey with now-adult children, this episode offers transformative insights into how motherhood can be both profoundly influential and deeply fulfilling—not despite your child's changes, but through them.

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Join us on a journey of transformation as Pastor Ed Tandy-McGlasson and Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield unravel the complexities of father-daughter dynamics. Discover how seemingly minor shifts in your parenting approach can create monumental changes in your connection with your daughter. Dr. Canfield, a seasoned expert in fathering, brings her toolbox of strategies and insights that are invaluable not just for your relationship with your daughter but equally resonate with all the women in your life. We'll reveal the powerful two-word tool that might just revolutionize the way you communicate with your daughter, steering away from conflict and cruising towards deeper understanding and bonding.

Throughout this heartfelt episode, we tackle the essence of communication, emphasizing the art of questioning with genuine curiosity and the skill of active listening. These are the threads that weave the fabric of strong father-daughter relationships. I share anecdotes and biblical wisdom that shine a light on the simple, yet profound, ways you can become the hero your daughter needs. You'll learn why your role as a father is crucial in shaping her self-esteem and future relationships, and it's not all serious talk – learn how laughter and shared moments can fortify your bond. Furthermore, we discuss delicate issues like forgiveness in strained relationships and navigating sensitive conversations with grace and understanding.

Wrap up your day with an episode that's not just another discussion but a catalyst for change. We're not only sharing knowledge and personal stories but also providing a guide packed with actionable steps to lead your daughters towards love and self-confidence. There's a spiritual element too, as we seek divine guidance to empower fathers with purpose and strength. You're invited to find solace and direction in our closing prayer, and we encourage you to delve into the resources offered, all designed to support you in becoming the father your daughter deserves.

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Unlock the true meaning of biblical manhood with Ken Harrison, Chairman and CEO of Promise Keepers, in a conversation that promises to reshape your understanding of kindness and strength. As your host, Pastor Ed Tandy-McGlasson, I'm thrilled to share a dialogue that defies stereotypes, urging men to embrace a robust Christian character. We contrast the passive 'niceness' often expected from men of faith with the assertive kindness exemplified by legendary heroes of the faith and NFL greats. Dive into a revealing exploration of what it really means to be a kind, virtuous man in today's world.

This episode isn't just about reflection; it's a call to courageous action. Drawing from my experiences as a former Los Angeles policeman, I recount moments where standing against injustice wasn't just a choice, but a mandate of true virtue. Together with Ken, we navigate the complex challenges of identity and truth, urging you to stand firm in your beliefs, emboldened by scripture and God's life. Our conversation spans from personal transformation stories within men's ministry to the creation of 'fire teams,' advocating for community and accountability as catalysts for profound change.

Finally, we address the urgent crisis of masculinity, pinpointing the trends that pull men into virtual escapes and away from fulfilling their God-given roles. It's a candid look at the need for risk-embracing living, juxtaposed against a culture that often promotes avoidance and passivity. Hear how living a life of faith and purpose stands as the countermeasure to these societal ills and how, through faith, we can guide others towards more engaged and purposeful living. Join us on this journey to inspire and be inspired, to lead a life marked not only by faith but by action and conviction.

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It's never too late to mend bridges with your loved ones. Strained relationships can be restored, broken ties can be mended, and a father's blessing can have a profound impact on a child's life.
Today's episode takes us on a heartwarming exploration of the transformative power of forgiveness and the healing power of a father's blessing. By sharing moving accounts of estranged families reuniting and the life-altering impact of a father's words, we delve into the essence of grace, forgiveness, and restoration in family relationships.

Experience the awe-inspiring power of unexpected miracles as we discuss how a father mended his broken bond with his son just by speaking a blessing over him. Learn how to tap into God's power through grace and see how the Holy Spirit sets us up for miracles even when we feel unprepared. We also explore the art of asking questions in parenting, offering an enlightening perspective on how this simple tool can foster deeper connections and pave the way for healing and reconciliation.

We wrap up the episode by examining the profound power of forgiveness and blessings. Hear a personal account of how a father restored his relationship with his son through the power of blessing. We also delve into the concept of being spiritual children of God and how this fosters deep connections and transforms Extra Grace Required (EGRs) family members into great ones. Tune in and get inspired to champion positive change in your family relationships.

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It's never too late to mend bridges with your loved ones. Strained relationships can be restored, broken ties can be mended, and a father's blessing can have a profound impact on a child's life. Through sharing these heartwarming stories, we hope to inspire you to embrace the power of grace, forgiveness, and blessings to strengthen your family bonds. Tune in to our next episode as we continue to explore these life-changing themes.

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What if you could make a positive impact on your children that would last for generations?

What does it mean to be a father in today's world, and how can we best embrace this vital role as a dad? What does it mean to be a father in today's world, and how can we best embrace this crucial role?

I had the pleasure of sitting down with Dr. Danny Huerta, Vice President of Parenting and Youth at Focus on the Family, to discuss these questions. Together, we examined the challenges modern families face, the confusion stemming from various spheres of life, and the impact of fathers on their children's lives. Dr. Hureta shared his inspiring personal fatherhood journey and how it deepened his marriage, providing invaluable insights for fathers and couples alike.

No matter where you are in your fatherhood journey, this conversation promises to be a helpful guide filled with practical tips, heartfelt stories, and profound insights. So, let's dive into this dynamic exploration of fatherhood together.

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It only takes one loving father to change the course of generations - and one perfectly heavenly Father to begin the process.

This episode explores the transformative impact of being a present father and how that can shape our children's lives and their choices. This episode is an invitation to explore the profound, life-changing realm of fatherhood, and how to make the father difference in your family.

So, join us, share this episode with loved ones, and let's create that difference together.

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What if one loving dad could change the course of a whole family for generations?

Want to be the father you were meant to be? Want to be remembered by your children as a great father?

We have an exciting announcement about our Man of Honor Podcast.

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