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  • Just Me and My Shadow

    Just Me and My Shadow
    2025/06/24
    In Episode 95 of the Mindset Architect Podcast, host Tony Caliendo takes a powerful solo walk—literally and metaphorically—into the topic of shadow work. What started as a sunny walk in Santa Fe turns into a profound exploration of the unseen forces that silently shape our decisions, leadership style, pricing, self-worth, and relationships.

    In this episode, Tony reveals:
    ✅ What your shadow actually is—and how it follows you everywhere (even if you can’t see it).
    ✅ The surprising signs your shadow is running the show: triggers, perfectionism, people-pleasing, and undercharging.
    ✅ How childhood stories create adult patterns that limit your growth.
    ✅ Actionable tools to bring your shadow into the light—journaling prompts, mirror work, inner visualization, and shadow dialogue.
    ✅ Why doing this work increases productivity, eliminates self-doubt, and leads to peace and purpose.

    Whether you’re a business owner, leader, or someone on a journey of personal development, this episode offers deep insights into how shadow work can unlock real transformation—if you’re willing to look inward.

    👉 Like what you hear? Leave a 5-star review and share this episode with someone who needs it.

    📞 Book a free coaching call: https://calendly.com/tony-rethinkcoaching/30min?month=2023-10

    🔗 To get more information about Tony and reTHINK Coaching - http://www.rethinkcoaching.com/

    CHAPTERS
    00:00 Welcome to Episode 95 – A Walk With Insight
    01:05 Realization: Seeing My Shadow for the First Time in a While
    02:15 What Is Shadow Work—and Why It Matters
    03:30 How Hidden Patterns Sabotage Your Business and Leadership
    05:00 Signs Your Shadow Is Impacting Your Success
    07:00 Triggers and Projection – What They Reveal
    09:00 Tracing the Shadow Back to Childhood Roots
    10:30 Personal Story: Growing Up and Learning Silence
    12:00 Modesty, Marketing, and Shadow Beliefs
    13:00 Journaling Prompt: When Did You Start Hiding Parts of Yourself?
    14:00 Reclaiming Your Shadow as a Source of Power
    15:00 How Shadow Traits Become Superpowers (Empathy, Structure, etc.)
    16:00 Tools for Shadow Work – Journaling, Mirror Work, Visualization
    17:30 Shadow Dialogue: Letting the Shadow Speak
    18:30 Working With a Coach or Therapist for Shadow Integration
    19:15 The Promise: Productivity and Peace After Shadow Work
    20:00 Why Overthinking, Perfectionism, and Self-Doubt Persist
    21:00 Productivity Becomes Purpose-Driven, Not Pressure-Driven
    22:00 Summary: Recognizing, Tracing, and Reclaiming Your Shadow
    24:00 Final Thoughts and Free Strategy Session Invitation
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    26 分
  • Midyear With a Twist

    Midyear With a Twist
    2025/06/17
    In Episode 94 of The Mindset Architect Podcast, Master Coach Tony Caliendo delivers a timely and powerful midyear mindset reset. As we hit the halfway mark of 2025, it’s time to get honest, intentional, and strategic.

    Tony walks you through seven high-impact reflection points designed to help entrepreneurs, leaders, and high performers take control of their second half. Whether you’re on track, a bit behind, or feel completely off course, this episode offers actionable tools to shift your trajectory without shame—and with renewed focus.

    Key Takeaways
    • Why midyear isn’t just a check-in—it’s a pivot point
    • How to evaluate your progress without beating yourself up
    • The danger of “reacting” vs. intentionally directing your business
    • The power of small wins and why you must celebrate them
    • How redirection is not failure—it’s wisdom
    • Why high performers pause smarter, not push harder
    • A blueprint to reclaim your mindset, energy, and purpose

    📈 If you’re feeling overwhelmed, off track, or simply ready to elevate—this episode is your turning point.

    👇 Drop a comment below—What’s ONE thing you’re going to pivot in the second half of 2025?

    👉 Be sure to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode!

    💬 Leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify if this message resonated with you!

    📞 Book a free coaching call: https://calendly.com/tony-rethinkcoaching/30min?month=2023-10

    🔗 To get more information about Tony and reTHINK Coaching - http://www.rethinkcoaching.com/

    CHAPTERS
    00:00 Welcome to Episode 94: Midyear With a Twist
    01:25 The Power of the Midyear Check-In
    02:55 On Track, Behind, or Way Off? What Now?
    04:10 The Case for a Powerful Pivot
    05:15 Are You Reacting—or Intentionally Directing?
    06:00 Celebrating the Wins (Yes, Even the Small Ones)
    07:00 Redirection Is Not Failure—It’s Wisdom
    09:20 Why Strategy Tweaks Are Necessary
    10:00 The Power of a Strategic Pause
    12:30 Working *On* vs. Working *In* Your Business
    14:05 Reclaiming Your Intentionality
    16:15 Overcoming the Busywork Trap
    18:00 Who Did You Become This Year?
    20:15 Handling External Noise and Division
    21:50 Rebuilding Your Blueprint for the Rest of 2025
    23:10 Core Values, Mindset, and Vision Alignment
    25:00 Train Your Brain to Celebrate Progress
    26:30 Stacking Small Wins for Big Results
    27:15 Final Recap: 7 Keys to Reclaim Midyear Momentum
    28:20 Free Coaching Call Invite
    29:00 Outro: Make It a Great Week!
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    30 分
  • The Answer is Always No if you Don't Ask

    The Answer is Always No if you Don't Ask
    2025/06/10
    Ever wondered why you aren't closing more sales or getting referrals consistently? The answer might be simpler than you think: you're not asking! In this powerful episode of the Mindset Architect Podcast, host Tony Caliendo breaks down one of the most fundamental yet overlooked truths in sales and life: "The Answer is Always No if You Don't Ask."

    Tony explores how to confidently ask for what you want without feeling pushy or fearing rejection. You'll learn to differentiate between pushiness and confidence, understand the importance of clarity in your requests, and discover why permission-based selling and effective follow-up can skyrocket your success. Plus, Tony provides practical tips on how to seamlessly integrate referral requests into your daily interactions.Key takeaways include:
    • Why hearing 'no' is valuable feedback, not personal rejection.
    • How clear and direct communication boosts sales effectiveness.
    • The difference between confident selling and being pushy.
    • Proven strategies for permission-based selling and successful follow-ups.
    • Simple techniques to normalize asking for referrals.
    Don't miss this episode packed with actionable strategies to increase your sales, referrals, and overall business confidence.

    🎧 Enjoyed the episode? Please leave us a 5-star review on your favorite podcast platform!

    📞 Book a free coaching call: https://calendly.com/tony-rethinkcoaching/30min?month=2023-10

    🔗 To get more information about Tony and reTHINK Coaching - http://www.rethinkcoaching.com/

    CHAPTERS
    00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Asking
    01:00 Rejection is Data, Not Personal
    03:00 You Can't Get What You Don't Ask For
    05:30 Clarity Sells: Be Direct and Clear
    07:45 Confidence vs. Pushiness
    10:00 Permission-Based Selling Opportunities
    12:00 Fortune in the Follow-Up
    15:00 How Effective Follow-Up Wins Sales
    18:00 Asking for Referrals Naturally
    21:00 Real-Life Examples of Asking Effectively
    22:00 Recap of the Seven Key Points
    23:00 Final Thoughts & How to Connect
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    25 分
  • Focus can be Distracting

    Focus can be Distracting
    2025/06/03
    Can Focus Actually Hold You Back? Here’s Why It Might Be Sabotaging Your Success

    In this eye-opening episode of The Mindset Architect Podcast, Master Coach Tony Caliendo explores a counterintuitive truth: your hyper-focus might be limiting your growth. Drawing from real-life coaching experiences, NLP strategies, and even early morning yoga drives, Tony reveals how singular focus can blind you to opportunities, feedback, and creative solutions.
    You’ll discover:
    • Why tunnel vision leads to missed data and wasted effort.
    • How to balance task-driven goals with a broader, results-focused mindset.
    • The difference between action goals and result goals—and why it matters.
    • How to leverage feedback and reflection to optimize your performance.
    • Simple mindset shifts that improve clarity, creativity, and connection.

    Tony shares tactical ways to expand your “peripheral vision” in both business and life, helping you stay productive without becoming blind to the bigger picture.

    📩 Interested in a free 1-on-1 strategy session? Reach out at rethinkcoaching.com or email Tony directly at tony@rethinkcoaching.com.

    ✅ Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more actionable coaching insights.

    💬 If this episode shifted your perspective, leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your support helps others find this show!

    CHAPTERS
    00:00 Welcome & Episode Intro
    01:12 The Hidden Problem with Hyper-Focus
    02:28 Yoga Story: Missing the Journey
    04:07 How Business Focus Mirrors Life Patterns
    05:42 Action Goals vs. Result Goals
    06:50 The 100 Conversations Mistake
    08:20 Are You Really Listening During Calls?
    09:15 The Cost of Ignoring Feedback
    10:45 Finding a Better Route in Business
    12:05 Shift from Task Completion to Vision Alignment
    13:28 Live Into the Vision—Daily
    15:01 Why Broader Focus Drives Better Results
    16:22 Peripheral Awareness Improves Performance
    17:30 The Role of Reflection and Gratitude
    18:30 Final Challenge: Expand Your Field of View
    19:30 Free Strategy Session Invite
    20:00 Group Coaching Program Promo
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    20 分
  • You Teach People How To Treat You

    You Teach People How To Treat You
    2025/05/27
    In this powerful episode, master coach Tony Caliendo breaks down one of the most transformational principles for business and life: You teach people how to treat you. If you’ve ever felt undervalued, disrespected, or taken for granted—in your career, your personal life, or with clients—this episode is a game-changer.

    Tony shares how setting boundaries, developing self-respect, communicating clearly, and recognizing patterns can radically shift how others treat you. He also dives into the real consequences of tolerating poor behavior and how to finally stop the cycle by owning your worth.

    Key Takeaways:
    ✅ Why people treat you the way they do—and how you’re teaching them
    ✅ The role of boundaries and standards in earning respect
    ✅ How self-worth influences every relationship
    ✅ Clear communication tips to reinforce your expectations
    ✅ Recognizing behavioral patterns (good or bad) and correcting course
    ✅ How this principle completely changed Tony’s coaching and real estate careers

    Whether you’re a business owner, leader, entrepreneur, or just ready to upgrade your relationships, this episode will help you reset the standard for how others interact with you.

    👇 If this episode resonates with you, don’t forget to:
    ✅ Like, comment, and subscribe to the channel.
    ⭐ Leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

    CHAPTERS
    00:00 – Intro: Why Time Is Our Greatest Asset
    01:12 – The Universal Law: You Teach People How to Treat You
    02:30 – Tony’s Personal Story: Marriott, Real Estate & Respect
    04:05 – The Power of Alignment in Relationships
    05:00 – The Role of Boundaries in Earning Respect
    06:30 – Early Real Estate Mistakes & Availability Trap
    08:15 – Why Self-Respect Sets the Tone
    09:45 – Confidence, Self-Worth, and First Impressions
    10:50 – Clear Communication: Say It or Suffer It
    12:00 – Asking Clients What They Need Too
    13:10 – Recognizing Patterns in Poor Treatment
    14:30 – Insecurity, Imposter Syndrome & Letting Boundaries Slip
    15:50 – Consequences of Tolerating Bad Behavior
    17:00 – How One Harsh Client Interaction Shifted Everything
    18:15 – Respect Starts with YOU
    19:00 – Tony’s Coaching Client Standards & Why They Work
    20:15 – The Hidden Cost of Burnout and Resentment
    21:20 – Final Words: Reflect, Reclaim, Reset
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    23 分
  • Managing the "Noise"

    Managing the "Noise"
    2025/05/20
    Feeling overwhelmed by constant distractions? 🚨 In Episode 90 of the Mindset Architect Podcast, Tony Caliendo dives deep into practical strategies for managing the "noise" in our daily lives. From setting clear intentions and mindfulness techniques to mastering time management and creating productive environments, Tony reveals actionable steps to boost your focus, productivity, and overall success. Whether you're an entrepreneur, a busy professional, or anyone feeling pulled in too many directions, this episode provides the roadmap you need to regain control and achieve your goals.🔥 Key Takeaways:
    • How to set effective "signals" to guide your brain.
    • Simple mindfulness exercises to combat daily chaos.
    • Essential digital detox practices to protect your mental clarity.
    • The critical importance of clear, revisited daily goals.
    • Creating environments designed for productivity.
    • Mastering time management to avoid distractions.
    • The powerful art of saying "No" without guilt.
    🎧 Don't forget to leave a 5-star review on your favorite podcast platform if you enjoyed this episode!

    📞 Book a free coaching call: https://calendly.com/tony-rethinkcoaching/30min?month=2023-10

    🔗 To get more information about Tony and reTHINK Coaching - http://www.rethinkcoaching.com/


    CHAPTERS
    0:00 Introduction to Managing the Noise
    1:00 What is "Noise" and Why It Matters
    2:40 The Brain’s Need for Direction
    4:20 Sending Clear Signals to Your Brain
    5:00 The Power of Mindfulness
    6:20 Simple Mindfulness Practices
    7:00 Tony’s Personal Mindfulness Routine (Hot Yoga)
    9:00 Digital Detox and Setting Boundaries
    10:00 Establishing Clear and Frequent Goals
    11:50 Creating a Productive Environment
    13:00 Effective Time Management
    14:20 The Essential Art of Saying "No"
    16:30 Recap of 7 Strategies to Manage Noise
    18:00 How to Implement These Strategies
    19:30 Final Thoughts and Personal Invitation
    21:00 Closing and How to Connect
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    22 分
  • Future So Bright

    Future So Bright
    2025/05/13
    In Episode 89 of the Mindset Architect Podcast, master coach Tony Caliendo helps you reconnect with your goals, shift your mindset, and realign your strategy—even if the year hasn’t gone as planned. If you’ve felt off-track, frustrated, or stuck in the present without a clear view of your future, this episode is your game plan to turn things around.

    💡 What You’ll Learn:
    ✅ The 5 core pillars to reignite your future vision
    ✅ How to reconnect with your 2025 goals using daily mindset practices
    ✅ The importance of intentional action, strategy pivots, and aligning with your personal performance peaks
    ✅ Real-world examples of how small tweaks (like changing your database messaging) can have a major impact
    ✅ Why synchronicity and timing matter more than you think

    Whether you’re in sales, coaching, or any high-performance field, this episode will remind you: your best future is still within reach—you just need to turn the light back on.

    📞 Book a free coaching call: https://calendly.com/tony-rethinkcoaching/30min?month=2023-10

    🔗 To get more information about Tony and reTHINK Coaching - http://www.rethinkcoaching.com/

    👇 Drop a comment to share what part of your future you’re reconnecting with.
    👍 Like this episode if it gave you clarity.
    🔔 Subscribe and hit the bell to stay on track with your mindset and growth goals.

    ⭐ If this podcast has helped you refocus or inspired you, please leave a 5-star review on your favorite podcast app—it helps others find the show and stay on track too!

    CHAPTERS
    00:00 Welcome to Episode 89
    01:00 When the Future Feels Unclear
    02:05 Step 1 – Reconnect with Your Vision
    05:15 Daily Journaling and Future Visualization
    06:30 Step 2 – Trust the Process
    07:40 Borrowing Belief from Others
    08:15 Step 3 – Pivot with Flexibility
    09:45 Reviving Your Database Strategy
    11:00 How to Meet Basic Human Needs in Sales
    12:00 Step 4 – Take Intentional Action
    13:30 Set 7-Day Micro Goals
    14:45 Step 5 – Timing and Synchronicity
    15:50 Finding Your Peak Performance Times
    17:00 Reassessing Your “How” and Your Business Plan
    18:30 The Power of Vision-Led Strategy
    19:30 It’s Never Too Late to Get Back on Track
    20:15 Final Words + Free Strategy Call Info
    21:00 Join the Group Coaching Program
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    21 分
  • 90 Days to a Different Outcome

    90 Days to a Different Outcome
    2025/05/06
    Feeling stuck or overwhelmed? Ready to finally achieve meaningful results in your business and personal life? In Episode 88 of the Mindset Architect Podcast, Tony Caliendo shares the ultimate framework to completely transform your trajectory in just 90 days.

    Tony dives deep into a powerful 5-step strategy designed to give you absolute clarity, laser-focused time management, and impactful daily actions. Discover how goal-setting with clear vision, structured planning, and strategic environment management can significantly accelerate your path to success. Whether your goal is personal growth, business acceleration, or simply gaining control in uncertain times, this episode equips you with the practical tools you need right now.

    🌟 Main Takeaways:
    • How to set inspiring and attainable 90-day goals.
    • Effective strategies for daily time management and productivity.
    • Tips on creating the ideal environment for peak performance.
    • Importance of daily measurement and actionable feedback.

    If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to hit the like button, subscribe to our channel for more powerful insights, and leave a comment below sharing your biggest takeaway or your personal 90-day goal!

    CHAPTERS
    00:00 Introduction - Unlocking the Power of 90 Days
    01:00 Why 90 Days Can Transform Your Life
    03:00 Setting Powerful Goals
    06:00 Time Management: Key Strategies
    08:00 Preparing Activities the Night Before
    09:00 Eisenhower Matrix Explained
    13:00 Optimizing Your Environment and Space
    16:00 Environment Audit for Maximum Impact
    18:00 The Importance of Daily Measurement
    19:00 How to Use Feedback Effectively
    21:00 Recap: The 5 Steps for a Successful 90-Day Sprint
    24:00 Final Thoughts & Encouragement
    25:00 How to Connect & Get Support
    26:00 Join the Mindset Architect Group Coaching Program
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    27 分