Welcome to NK Podcast Shared, Episode 284! In today's episode, host Lori sits down with guest Brian Peterson to dive deep into the financial intricacies of blended families. Brian, with over 16 years of experience in financial planning and a personal background in blended family dynamics, offers invaluable insights into managing finances. They discuss the advantages of placing land in trusts, the importance of financial transparency, and strategies to handle the complex finances of blended families. Lori shares personal anecdotes about maintaining financial independence and the emotional challenges that accompany it, while Brian shares his journey from military service to financial planning, and the unique financial solutions his firm offers to blended families. Don't miss out on their candid conversation about maintaining family bonds, balancing financial responsibilities, and navigating the emotional landscapes of loss and new beginnings. Plus, Lori has a special invitation for listeners in Scottsdale, Arizona—you won't want to miss it. So, tune in and learn how to make "Life good when you nacho"!

In this episode, we discuss:

• Blended Families and Finances
• Financial Arrangements in Relationships
• Financial Independence
• Financial Communication
• Financial and Family Planning Tools

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

“My sister-in-law told me about Nacho at a family reunion. She saw me trying to help the stepkids and the attitudes they gave me, and then the resulting stress it caused me. She simply said, “I heard about this Nacho thing for stepparents. Check it out. It might help you.” I am so thankful I did! And I decided to join the Academy because what better way to learn about it. I am still in shock of how this changed our family! Everyone is much more at peace and I’m finally happy after seven years of stepfamily misery!” A.Q.

Welcome back to NK Podcast Shared! In today's episode, host Lori delves into a vital discussion on the increasing role of mediation and technology in reducing the stress of parental disputes during divorce and separation. Joined by our expert guest, they explore the importance of keeping children's best interests at heart while navigating the complexities of family law.

We'll highlight the growing trend of parents opting for out-of-court conflict resolution, the challenges faced by those representing themselves due to financial constraints, and the critical need for judges to acknowledge personal aspects of each case beyond mere attorney interactions.

Much of our conversation focuses on "Our Family Wizard," an app designed to streamline co-parenting communication. We'll examine its plethora of features, from unalterable messaging to expense management and audio/video calls, all aimed at reducing misunderstandings and fostering cooperative co-parenting. Lori reflects on her personal experience, sharing anecdotes about how improvements in communication tools could have eased her past co-parenting struggles.

Additionally, we touch on legal complexities, the importance of clear court orders, and practical communication techniques like the BIFF method to handle high-conflict situations effectively. Whether you're a parent going through a separation or interested in family law, this episode provides valuable insights and practical tips to navigate these challenging waters. Tune in to discover how innovation and empathy can transform co-parenting and reduce litigation stress.

In this episode, we discuss:

• "Our Family Wizard" App
• Communication in Co-Parenting
• Legal Documentation and Order Writing
• Technology in Legal Agreements

Nacho Success Story:

“The Support I Didn’t Know I Needed”
"I wasn’t sure if Nacho Kids Academy was for me, but it ended up being exactly what I needed. The guided content gave me practical steps to take, and the group calls offered a place to share and get advice. It’s made me a better husband and father, and I feel more confident in my role as a stepdad."
— Jason H

Welcome to Episode 282 of NK Podcast! In this insightful episode, hosts David and Lori are joined by returning guest Mikel Van Cleve, a certified financial planner with a focus on blended family dynamics. Mikel was previously on episode 273 where he discussed his blended family experience. Today, we delve deep into the intricacies of estate planning, financial transparency, and the unique challenges faced by blended families.

Mikel shares his expert advice on finding qualified estate attorneys and financial planners who truly understand the complexities involved.

We'll explore topics such as the importance of having clear estate documents, preventing unintentional disinheritance, the emotional sensitivities in blended families, and practical tips for managing joint and separate finances. Mikel also touches on his ongoing research into financial infidelity and wealth transfer within blended families, offering listeners credible resources for further guidance.

Lastly, join Lori and David as they announce their upcoming visit to Scottsdale, Arizona, and invite listeners to connect with them. With humor and valuable insights, this episode aims to equip you with the knowledge to navigate the financial and emotional terrain of blended families. Don't miss out!

In this episode, we discuss:

• Importance of using a financial planner with blended family experience

• Discussions to have with your partner sooner rather than later

• What’s fair/equal

• Communication is key

• Updating estate documents

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

“Helped Me Understand My Role as a Stepfather”

"Being a stepfather is tough, especially when you're trying to figure out where you fit in. Nacho Kids Academy helped me understand my role and gave me the tools to communicate better with my wife and her kids. It’s been a huge help in reducing the stress in our family and strengthening my relationship with my wife."

— David K., Stepfather of 2