Is there a “right” way to live… or have we all just been following invisible scripts we didn’t even know we signed up for? In this episode, we throw the rulebook out the window—or at least question who wrote it—as we explore the tension between cultural expectations, Christian living, and the ever-shifting lines of what feels “normal.” We'll unpack where our assumptions come from and whether they’re really serving us… or just helping us stay in our paint-by-number comfort zones.

It’s equal parts philosophical, practical, and delightfully unpredictable. We dig into everything from house sizes and meal times to how we raise our kids, all while wondering if God’s will is more jazz solo than sheet music. Come for the deep questions, stay for the rabbit trails, and maybe—just maybe—leave with a little more freedom in how you approach the canvas of you own life.

Theme Music:

"Ice Flow" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

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I think we saved the best for last! And who's the guy doing the opening host duties?!? For the final round of our listener Q&A "March Mailbag Madness" series, we’re diving into some of the biggest, boldest questions yet. From past episodes that fired us up to personal reflections on how these conversations have shaped us, nothing’s off the table. It’s honest, unfiltered, and full of the thoughtful (and occasionally chaotic) discussion you’ve come to expect.

(0:00) Introduction

(1:49) Out of all the episodes you've done thus far, which one had you most fired up?

(6:48) Would you be willing to have a conversation about the queer community?

(10:34) Do you believe Jesus's commands to His 12 disciples broadly apply to all believers? (ie- The Great Commission) If so, why?

(17:39) Secret Question about one of the podcast hosts...

(18:51) If we pray and ask God to heal someone, do you believe that it makes a difference?

(26:18) Over the past 18 episodes, you have discussed and debated topics amongst yourselves that most individuals only dare to tackle alone. How have these episodes impacted you as individuals, as friends, and your spiritual journeys?

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Theme Music:

"Ice Flow" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

The mailbag is still bursting at the seams, so we’re back for another round of questions! From childhood dreams (astronaut, anyone?) to theological shifts, we’re unpacking how our beliefs have changed, the impact this podcast has had on listeners, and whether waiting until Day 4 to make the sun is a biblical plot twist. Plus, we dive into healing prayer—does it work, and have we seen it firsthand? Tune in for deep dives, detours, and plenty of laughs along the way!

(0:00) Introduction

(1:21) What did you want to be when you were a child?

(14:19) How have you seen or heard these episodes impacting the Rufflin' Feathers audience, and did any of it surprise you?

(20:00) In Episode #17 it was suggested that the sun and moon not being created until day 4 was a possible hint of a non-literal 24 hour creation. Might the sun and moon have been created to mark the Creators already determined length of a "day?"

(29:30) Have you ever asked God for healing (for you or someone else) and felt that God answered?

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Theme Music:

"Ice Flow" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/