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We all have it—head trash. The internal noise that tells you you're not good enough, that you'll fail, or that you're not ready. It’s the voice that clouds your thinking and derails your confidence right when you need it most. But what if you could learn to pause, clear the static, and choose a better response?

In this episode, we dig into the role of emotional intelligence in managing your inner dialogue and introduce the concept of the meta moment—a powerful pause where you stop, breathe, and imagine your best self responding. It's not about perfection—it's about awareness, intention, and direction.

How do you recognize when your head trash is running the show? What tools help you reset emotionally before you react? We explore how emotionally intelligent leaders build space between trigger and response—and how that space is where growth happens.

This week, challenge yourself: When something frustrates or triggers you, take a meta moment. Ask: “How would the best version of me respond right now?” Then do that. The head trash may never fully go away—but you don’t have to let it drive. Let’s take the wheel back, together.

At Crossroads Business Development we are the recipients of the David H. Sandler award for 2021, the highest mark of achievement that the network passes out. We pride ourselves with our dedicated service to the success of our clients and our top-of-the-line training that keeps our clients engaged and coming back for more.

Jim is a dynamic and engaging conference presenter and national speaker, renowned for his impactful presentations at a wide array of sales and industry events. With an impressive twenty-five-year track record in entrepreneurial small business creation, sales, and company management, he brings a wealth of real-world experience. Additionally, Jim has spent two decades honing his expertise through Sandler Sales & Management Training, equipping him with the tools to drive success in any organization. His keen insights and ability to identify and address roadblocks are instrumental in fostering growth and transformation for individuals and companies.

For inquiries, reach out to Jim at jim.stephens@sandler.com.

Jason worked at the university before joining the team. He brings an analytical perspective to coaching and has several tracks to help with team and personal development.

Our clients hire Jason for his systematic approach to help them integrate Sandler into their day-to-day operations. His attention to detail and expertise with our assessment tools help them create behavior-based plans to incorporate more processes and align their goals with the company's goals.

You can reach Jason at Jason.Stephens@sandler.com.

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The first 60 seconds of a prospecting call can make or break the conversation. Most salespeople lead with pressure or pitch—what if you led with permission instead? When done right, the opening minute disrupts expectations, builds trust, and earns you the right to continue.

In this episode, we break down the three essential moves for a strong start:

1. Pattern Interrupt – Stop the automatic "not interested" response by doing something unexpected.
2. Permission to Speak – Respect the prospect’s time and ask for space to engage.
3. 30-Second Commercial – Deliver a clear, compelling reason why the conversation is worth having.

What language puts the prospect at ease while also piquing curiosity? How do you balance confidence with respect? We explore real examples and show you how to deliver a powerful open that sets the tone for the entire call.

This week, challenge yourself: Practice your opener. Try it on a colleague, write it out, or say it out loud until it feels natural. Remember—you're not just prospecting; you're inviting someone into a valuable conversation. Let’s get that first minute right.

At Crossroads Business Development we are the recipients of the David H. Sandler award for 2021, the highest mark of achievement that the network passes out. We pride ourselves with our dedicated service to the success of our clients and our top-of-the-line training that keeps our clients engaged and coming back for more.

Jim is a dynamic and engaging conference presenter and national speaker, renowned for his impactful presentations at a wide array of sales and industry events. With an impressive twenty-five-year track record in entrepreneurial small business creation, sales, and company management, he brings a wealth of real-world experience. Additionally, Jim has spent two decades honing his expertise through Sandler Sales & Management Training, equipping him with the tools to drive success in any organization. His keen insights and ability to identify and address roadblocks are instrumental in fostering growth and transformation for individuals and companies.

For inquiries, reach out to Jim at jim.stephens@sandler.com.

Jason worked at the university before joining the team. He brings an analytical perspective to coaching and has several tracks to help with team and personal development.

Our clients hire Jason for his systematic approach to help them integrate Sandler into their day-to-day operations. His attention to detail and expertise with our assessment tools help them create behavior-based plans to incorporate more processes and align their goals with the company's goals.

You can reach Jason at Jason.Stephens@sandler.com.

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In sales—and in life—discounting happens on multiple levels. We discount prices to win business. We discount others when we assume too much or listen too little. And perhaps most dangerously, we discount ourselves when we undercharge, downplay our value, or hesitate to show up fully.

In this episode, we take a closer look at the mindset and behaviors behind discounting. Are you making unnecessary price concessions out of fear instead of strategy? Are you unconsciously dismissing the ideas or needs of others during conversations? Most importantly, where might you be shrinking yourself in the process?

What would it look like to lead with value—your own, your client’s, and your offer’s? We explore how to shift from a scarcity mindset to a value-driven one, so you stop giving away what should be earned, and start standing tall in your expertise.

This week, challenge yourself: Notice one moment where you feel tempted to discount—whether it’s your price, your opinion, or your presence. Pause. Ask yourself, “What’s the real value here?” Let’s stop playing small. Your value doesn’t need a markdown.

At Crossroads Business Development we are the recipients of the David H. Sandler award for 2021, the highest mark of achievement that the network passes out. We pride ourselves with our dedicated service to the success of our clients and our top-of-the-line training that keeps our clients engaged and coming back for more.

Jim is a dynamic and engaging conference presenter and national speaker, renowned for his impactful presentations at a wide array of sales and industry events. With an impressive twenty-five-year track record in entrepreneurial small business creation, sales, and company management, he brings a wealth of real-world experience. Additionally, Jim has spent two decades honing his expertise through Sandler Sales & Management Training, equipping him with the tools to drive success in any organization. His keen insights and ability to identify and address roadblocks are instrumental in fostering growth and transformation for individuals and companies.

For inquiries, reach out to Jim at jim.stephens@sandler.com.

Jason worked at the university before joining the team. He brings an analytical perspective to coaching and has several tracks to help with team and personal development.

Our clients hire Jason for his systematic approach to help them integrate Sandler into their day-to-day operations. His attention to detail and expertise with our assessment tools help them create behavior-based plans to incorporate more processes and align their goals with the company's goals.

You can reach Jason at Jason.Stephens@sandler.com.