In this episode of The True North Movement podcast, Pastor Eric shares his powerful transformation journey, from overcoming childhood trauma and addiction to embracing radical resilience. He discusses his path to spiritual awakening, becoming a youth pastor, and finding his true purpose. Through candid reflections, Pastor Eric emphasizes the role of resilience in navigating life's hardships and how community support, biblical masculinity, and personal discipline played pivotal roles in his life. He also touches on the importance of maintaining a personal relationship with God and how his faith became a source of strength and resilience.

0:00 - Opening Remarks on Radical Resilience
Pastor Eric introduces the theme of resilience and shares his journey.

2:00 - Early Life Challenges
Details of Eric's childhood struggles with trauma and addiction.

5:30 - A Turning Point
A faith encounter that marked the start of his resilience journey.

10:45 - Becoming a Youth Pastor
Mentorship and purpose led him to ministry.

15:30 - Resilience Through Setbacks
Insights into maintaining faith during hard times.

20:00 - Community Support
How a strong community and mentors fueled his resilience.

27:00 - Life as a Spiritual Journey
Finding his True North by aligning with his divine purpose.

33:03 - Spiritual Disciplines in Resilience
Eric shares how prayer, fasting, and worship strengthened his walk with God.

40:36 - Finding Divine Purpose
Eric discusses the joy and meaning that come from discovering one’s purpose.

44:16 - Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Encouragement for men to stay connected to community, seek their purpose, and grow spiritually.

In this special season finale Q&A episode of The True North Movement podcast, Pastor Eric Heard joins Dr. Andy to explore the vital role of resilience in navigating life's challenges. They kick off by delving into biblical perspectives on resilience and perseverance, sharing verses that inspire and sustain believers through difficult times. Throughout the episode, they respond to listener questions and further explore how resilience impacts key areas of life, including marriage, business, health, and personal growth. This engaging conversation emphasizes the importance of adhering to core Christian values and provides a thoughtful wrap-up to season 2 of the podcast.

• 0:54 Biblical Foundations of Resilience
  • Discussion on resilience in scripture and its application in life.
• 5:43 TrueNorth Authenticity and Resilience
  • How personal values and Christian beliefs forge a resilient character.
• 10:31 Resilience Training with Navy SEAL Examples
  • Insights into the mental toughness and perseverance of Navy SEALs.
• 13:38 Understanding True Self for Resilience
  • Personal stories highlighting the journey to self-discovery and resilience.
• 18:43 Resilience in Marriage and Tragedy
  • Narratives of personal loss and the resilience found in faith and relationships.
• 24:49 Community Support in Resilience
  • The role of friends and community in navigating grief and building resilience.
• 28:06 Challenges to Men’s Resilience and Leadership
  • Exploring the struggles men face with identity and resilience.
• 33:39 Principles of Resilience and Transformation
  • Discussion on the impact of resilience on personal growth and transformation.
• 39:20 Time Stewardship and Fulfilling God's Purpose
  • Advice on maximizing time and energy for personal and spiritual growth.
• 45:03 Defining TrueNorth Through Values and Community
  • How defining core values and engaging with a supportive community enhance resilience and purpose.

In this episode of The True North Movement, Dr. Andy Garrett and Pastor Eric Heard delve into the often challenging yet rewarding world of goal setting and resolutions. As the new year unfolds, they shed light on the common pitfalls of traditional New Year's resolutions, emphasizing why many of these annual commitments tend to fall by the wayside. The episode offers a fresh and insightful perspective on setting meaningful and achievable goals, anchored in the TrueNorth principles. This discussion is not just about setting any goals, but about crafting ones that resonate deeply with personal values and aspirations, ensuring they are both fulfilling and sustainable.

Dr. Garrett and Pastor Heard explore the psychological and spiritual dimensions of goal setting. They stress the importance of reflecting on the past year's experiences to inform and empower future aspirations. Throughout the episode, they weave in practical wisdom, including biblical references and psychological insights, to guide listeners in establishing resolutions that are more than just fleeting desires. The episode is not only a guide to setting and achieving objectives but also a journey into understanding human nature, discipline, and the power of community in personal growth. Whether you're looking to make incremental changes, set 'hinge goals' that can pivot your life in new directions, or simply find a more meaningful approach to personal development, this episode is a treasure trove of guidance and inspiration.

01:00 - Introduction to the Episode's Theme

• The episode opens with Dr. Andy Garrett and Pastor Eric Heard discussing the ineffectiveness of traditional New Year's resolutions and introducing the TrueNorth principles for setting meaningful goals.

02:35 - The Failure of Resolutions

• The hosts explore why New Year's resolutions often fail, focusing on human nature and the challenges in maintaining discipline.

03:07 - Reflecting on the Previous Year

• Importance is placed on reviewing the previous year (2023) before setting goals for the new year. This includes understanding past successes and failures for better goal setting.

04:58 - Building Momentum from Past Successes

• Discussion on leveraging the previous year's successes to set impactful goals for the new year.

09:16 - Spiritual Foundations for Resolutions

• A passage from Ephesians is referenced, highlighting the need to be wise and understand God's will in the context of setting resolutions.

10:18 - Planning and Values in Resolutions

• The hosts emphasize the necessity of planning and aligning new year goals with personal values.

12:24 - Incremental Changes and Discipline

• The significance of making small, consistent changes and the role of disciplines like fasting in personal and spiritual growth.

16:17 - The Concept of a 'Hinge Goal'

• Discussion on how a single, well-chosen goal can have a ripple effect across various aspects of life.

18:29 - Community and Accountability in Achieving Goals

• The importance of having a supportive community and accountability mechanisms for goal attainment.

22:02 - Psychological Benefits of Confession

• The psychological impact of acknowledging and letting go of past failures to move forward effectively.

25:18 - SMART and WHIP Methodologies for Goal Setting

• Introduction and explanation of effective goal-setting strategies like SMART and WHIP.

29:31 - Anticipating Obstacles

• Planning for potential setbacks and obstacles in the path to achieving goals.

31:49 - Flexibility in Goal Achievement

• The importance of adapting and being flexible in the pursuit of goals.

34:21 - Equipping for Challenges

• The necessity of being prepared to handle challenges and setbacks in goal achievement.

36:11 - Daily Accountability and the Concept of 'Rebooting'

• The role of daily accountability practices and the idea of starting fresh each day to stay on track.

39:11 - Visualization Techniques for Success

• The use of visualization techniques to enhance the goal achievement process.

40:13 - Applying Tools and Methods in Practical Life

• Closing remarks on how to practically apply the discussed tools and methods in everyday life.

Join us for a captivating podcast episode with Dr. Andy Garrett and Pastor Eric Heard, as they discuss their journeys from fragility to radical resilience. They share personal insights on overcoming insecurities and the challenges of maturing from a "boy in a man's body" to a resilient individual. Their conversation touches on common issues faced by many men, including decision-making and coping with insecurity, all framed by their own experiences.

In this episode, Dr. Garrett and Pastor Heard also delve into the essence of radical resilience. They explore the importance of introspection, aligning with core values, and the power of living authentically. Through their professional experiences, they highlight the role of feedback and psychological safety in building resilience. This dialogue is a blend of personal stories and professional wisdom, offering practical advice for anyone on the path to a more resilient and authentic life. Tune in for an inspiring and transformative journey.

01:00 - Introduction to the Episode's Theme

• The episode begins with Dr. Garrett introducing the topic of transitioning from fragility to radical resilience.

02:30 - Personal Stories and Struggles with Fragility

• Both hosts share their personal experiences and struggles with overcoming fragility.

03:34 - Discussion on Manifestations of Fragility

• The conversation delves into how fragility can manifest in different behaviors and attitudes.

06:11 - Importance of Feedback and Psychological Safety

• The role of feedback and psychological safety in building resilience is discussed.

09:07 - Transforming from Fragility to Resilience

• The hosts share insights on the transformation process from fragility to resilience.

21:19 - Introspection and Core Values

• The episode moves into discussing the importance of introspection and understanding one’s core values.

28:23 - Maximizing Strengths and Minimizing Weaknesses

• This section focuses on the importance of recognizing and leveraging personal strengths while addressing weaknesses.

37:31 - Radical Resilience in Relationships and Decision-Making

• The conversation shifts to the impact of radical resilience on relationships and decision-making.

42:05 - The Role of Trials and Tribulations in Building Resilience

• The hosts discuss how facing trials and tribulations can contribute to developing resilience.

51:39 - Closing Remarks and Reflections

• The episode concludes with final thoughts and reflections on the topic of resilience.

In this enlightening episode, Pastor Eric Heard and Dr. Andy Garrett team up with special guest Jim Burns to dive deep into topics that touch the core of family, faith, and community. Jim Burns, renowned author and speaker, brings a wealth of experience and insights on marriage and family. From personal struggles to profound revelations, this episode explores the intricate web of relationships, the role of faith in overcoming adversity, and the pursuit of a fulfilling life anchored in one's true north.

0:53 - Family, Marriage, and Community with Jim Burns

• Jim Burns shares his experience as an author and speaker with over 2 million copies of his works in print.

2:24 - Father Wounds, Alcoholism, and Recovery

• Personal stories of grappling with father wounds and alcoholism.
• The transformative power of faith in navigating generational sins.

4:59 - Finding Identity and Purpose through Community and Relationships

• The impact of long-term community connections on personal identity and purpose.
• Addressing the challenge men face in reconciling their work and personal lives.

12:24 - Prioritizing Life's Tasks with God as the Top Priority

• Strategies for aligning daily priorities with one's spiritual compass.
• The significance of vision, as illustrated by a Mount Kilimanjaro expedition.
• Emphasizing faith and legacy through personal relationships.

15:58 - Men's Struggles in Contemporary Churches and Societies

• Exploring the modern challenges men face in expressing masculinity within churches and societies.
• The quest for supportive and confidential spaces for men within church communities.

19:11 - Men's Struggles with Community and Accountability

• Emphasizing the crucial role of community and accountability in spiritual and emotional well-being.
• Notable insights on the dangers of isolation and the significance of mentorship.

24:19 - Emotional Health and Personal Growth

• Prioritizing emotional health: personal stories and scriptural references.
• The intertwined roles of discipline and emotional well-being.

27:11 - Psychology, Self-focus, and Resilience

• Daily habits and their role in promoting mental health.
• Harnessing resilience in ministry and life.

30:17 - Finding True North and Motivation for Leadership

• Insights into the importance of clarity in identity and purpose.
• Stories of perseverance, passion, and purpose from varied lives.
• Jim Burns shares his formula for success and joy.

37:44 - How People Cope with Life's Struggles through Gratitude

• Embracing gratitude as a reflex reaction during challenges.

40:12 - Prioritizing Values and Relationships

• Unpacking the challenges and rewards of living a values-driven life.
• Exploring the unique dynamics of relationships, both personal and professional.

43:01 - Resilience and Leadership with a Focus on TrueNorth

• Delving into the essence of resilience and its relation to leadership.
• Personal experiences that emphasize the importance of staying on course.

48:54 - Regrets and Living a True Life

• Reflecting on life choices and the pursuit of authenticity.
• Confronting the regrets of not living in alignment with one's true self.

52:07 - Finding True North and Living a Life with Less Regret

• Strategies for living with intentionality and purpose.
• Embracing faith as an anchor in life's turbulent waters.

In this riveting episode of The True North Podcast Movement, we're joined by the remarkable Tim Lukei, a beacon of inspiration for countless individuals navigating their faith and identity. As someone who has experienced both the highs and lows of spiritual journeys, Tim's stories offer profound insights into resilience, purpose, and the significance of true calling. This discussion dives deep into the interplay of faith, career, masculinity, and the challenges faced by many in reconciling their personal identities with the expectations of society and spirituality.

Throughout the episode, we witness a candid exploration of personal experiences, biblical truths, and the psychology behind them. From tales of father wounds to ministry journeys and the complex nuances of masculinity in today's world, our hosts and guest unravel layers of understanding that speak to every soul searching for their "True North."

2:57 - Faith, Identity, and Career:

• Recollections of attending a Billy Graham crusade in the mid-'80s.
• The impact of an emotionally distant father on faith and career decisions.
• Navigating identity during high school and college.
• Career decisions rooted in a desire for ministry, culminating in serving in New Zealand.

9:15 - The Ministry Journey:

• Volunteering with Youth for Christ in New Zealand.
• Solidifying identity in youth ministry and joining Young Life in Irvine.
• Navigating career decisions, scarcity mindset, and stepping into the role at Mariners Church.
• The pivotal role of family in supporting career and ministry decisions.

14:30 - Understanding Men's Identity:

• The challenges of the "Moses syndrome" and the hurdles in understanding identity.
• Pitfalls of prioritizing career over family.
• Reprioritizing life for clarity and authentic success.

19:31 - Core Values for Men:

• Emphasizing the importance of prioritizing God.
• A life-changing story of reconnection with faith.
• Gleaning wisdom from Larry Crabb's "The Silence of Adam."

24:26 - Toxic Masculinity & Authentic Leadership:

• Addressing the dangers of compartmentalization in life.
• The debate around masculinity in today's culture.
• Jesus' example of masculinity and finding balance.

30:28 - The Complex Nature of Masculinity:

• Embracing challenges and opportunities in understanding masculinity.
• A closer look at biblical figures like Gideon and the lessons they impart.
• Valuable insights and encouragement from loved ones.

38:58 - Pursuing God's Calling:

• Strategies to attune to God's voice.
• The transformative impact of Mariners Men's Ministry.
• The vision to coach churches for an amplified impact.

44:28 - Building Resilience in Ministry:

• Introduction to Maverick River Collective and its objectives.
• Facing resistance and challenges in the journey.
• Embracing resilience as a guiding light for life and mentoring the next generation.

50:02 - Soul Care & Resilience:

• Drawing inspiration from the book "Resilience" by Eldridge.
• The role of intentional abiding with Jesus for holistic well-being.
• A book recommendation: "Resilience" by John Mark Comer.

55:25 - Navigating Father Wounds:

• The importance of intentionality in leadership.
• Resilience stories from personalities like Hunter Henry and Darryl Strawberry.
• A pressing need: Only 10% of US churches offer men's ministries.

Welcome to another soul-stirring episode of The True North Movement Podcast where our hosts, Pastor Eric Heard & Dr. Andy Garrett, delve deep into the stories of our special guests, Michael and La Vonne Earl. Together, Michael and La Vonne have navigated 36 years of marriage, blessed with 3 children and 4 grandchildren. Tune in as they unveil intimate details about the trials they've faced in their union, the breaking and mending of their bond, and how God's grace, combined with the habits they've adopted, allowed them to restore their relationship. Proud members of the Mariners Church, Michael and La Vonne also reflect on God's continuous role in their restoration journey.

Having held the role of Chief Operating Officer at Trinity Properties for over 20 years, Michael now stands as the Chairman of the Board. While his professional achievements are significant, he emphasizes that his greatest accomplishment is the family he's nurtured alongside La Vonne. In contrast, La Vonne, a dedicated Christian Life Coach, specializes in emotional wellness and relationships. She serves the community by teaching at the Orange County Rescue Mission and offering weekly online classes. Dive deeper into her offerings at www.LaVonneEarl.com.

As you listen, immerse yourself in the Earls' compelling narrative of resilience, personal growth, and the profound power of grace and genuine connection in relationships.

Mike Earl opens up about growing up in the Mormon faith, his pursuits in athletics and finance, and meeting his wife, LaVonne, forming a formidable bond as a couple.

An insightful journey into Mike's path of redemption, from overcoming infidelity to embracing his True North, all while lauding his wife's strength and forgiveness.

From a daughter's battle with depression to finding spiritual renewal outside the Mormon faith, the conversation unravels a tale of transformation, grace, and the power of authentic relationships.

The transformative journey of a marriage and family, realigning priorities to put God at the center.

Reflecting on the journey of life, navigating masculinity, and prioritizing prayer and spiritual growth in marriage, Mike shares his and LaVonne's commitment to humility and faith.

The role of habits in reinforcing relationship bonds, differing perspectives on identity formation, and the unifying power of shared values and prayer.

Mike shares the enriching experiences of engaging with godly men in Bible study groups and the transformation it brings about in personal growth.

Offering valuable advice on supporting spouses in their spiritual journeys, the importance of setting boundaries, and turning to God in challenging times.

A touching account of Mike and LaVonne's journey through adversity, celebrating their resilience and unwavering bond.

End the episode on a high note, with messages of hope, the essence of living with an eternal perspective, and the unmatched joy of experiencing Christ amidst life's trials. The beauty of kindness and respect is also emphasized, with Pastor Eric Heard receiving special praise for his openness and honesty.

Welcome to Season 2 of The True North Movement podcast! In this episode, we dive deep into the essence of resilience with Pastor Eric Heard and Dr. Andy Garrett. Together, we explore the critical role of staying true to one’s values and building resilience in facing life's inevitable challenges. Through personal narratives, reflections, and insights, our esteemed guests share valuable perspectives on developing authentic resilience, connecting with one's true calling, and the transformative power of trusting in a higher purpose. The episode uncovers the commonalities among top tennis players, introduces the concept of "anti-fragile" resilience, and discusses the detrimental effects of unhealthy resilience. We also delve into the significance of a well-structured "resilience plan" and the inspirational journey towards spiritual connection and alignment with divine will. Join us for a multifaceted exploration of resilience in this exciting new season, filled with discovery and enlightenment.

0:54- Resilience and Staying True to Values in Life and Sports

• Pastor Eric Hurtt sheds light on the vital role of resilience in staying true to one’s True North amidst life's challenges.
• Insight into how top 100 tennis players use slowed breathing techniques to stay focused and resilient.

4:42 - Resilience, Self-Destruction, and Anti-Fragility

• A candid reflection on overcoming personal struggles with resilience and self-doubt.
• Introduction to the concept of "anti-fragile" resilience and examples of unhealthy resilience.
• Exploring the evolution of resilience through focusing on True North and learning from past experiences.

10:01 - Unhealthy Resilience and Finding One’s True Calling

• A retrospective look at a 49-year pastoral career and questioning the roots of resilience.
• Discussion on the influence of legacy and parental expectations on choosing life paths.
• The impact of unhealthy resilience on personal life and wellbeing.

14:56 - The Significance of Resilience in Personal and Professional Life

• A discourse on committing to the right values and understanding one’s character traits and strengths.
• Exploration of emotional handling, moral negligence, and coping mechanisms among men.
• The introduction of the "six to one ratio" and the importance of having a resilience plan based on scripture and psychological principles.

21:02 - Resilience and Trusting God in Difficult Times

• A journey of learning to trust in God’s strength during challenging times.
• The value of community support and aligning actions with divine intentions for building resilience.
• Personal narratives on overcoming challenges and staying focused on higher purpose.

25:56 - Resilience and Staying Connected to God

• The pivotal role of maintaining a connection with God and prioritizing values for building resilience.
• The transformative power of focusing on core values and utilizing personal strengths.
• Upcoming workshops aimed at helping men define their True North and fostering resilient leadership for positive change.

Resources:

• Resiliency Challenge - https://www.truenorthprograms.online/pl/2147673261