Hey everyone and welcome to another episode of the Vibrant Life Podcast!

A couple of months ago I was given a book by a church member called We Laughed Till We Cried.

It was a book that her lifelong friend Lynda Wren had written about how her family navigated the tragic diagnosis of ALS or Lou Gehrig's disease.

As I began to read it I found myself glued to the story. Not simply because of the emotion it draws out to hear a story like this, but because Lynda and her husband Don were so passionate about their faith and maintained such a positive outlook on life even when things were going in the wrong direction.

So after I finished it, I knew I needed to have her on the podcast - because I wanted to see how she was so positive when others would have been so downcast. And what came from it was one of the more enjoyable conversations I’ve been able to have.

In this episode we talk about the challenges of walking with someone through a difficult diagnosis, how our faith can sustain us when tragedy strikes, how community was everything in those dark days and how building a strong foundation today will pay off later in life when we inevitably find ourself in a difficult situation.

The story is one that pulls at your emotions, but also helps you see just how important our faith is.

I hope you enjoy my conversation with Lynda Wren.

One of my big takeaways from starting this podcast is hearing how trauma is a part of so many people’s stories. 

Because of this I wanted to look around and see if I could connect with a Counselor that helps people who are struggling from past trauma and does it from a Christian Perspective. 

Well, Facebook reminded me that I have a friend from High School that I hadn’t talked to in 20 years who not only does that exact thing, but oversees an entire organization geared toward helping those struggling with PTSD, Depression, and much more. 

Aaron Ashworth is a Chaplain in the Army National Guard and the Founder and Director of Patriot Family Counseling Services- which specializes in helping Veterans, Government officials, and First responders process and navigate the unique traumas that they experience. 

In our conversation we talk about what exactly Trauma is , and how our faith can help us navigate the difficulties of our situations. 

We talk about what works in trauma therapy and maybe just as important we talk about what doesn’t work in trauma therapy. 

For some this conversation will speak right to the situation you find yourself in right now. You have experienced a trauma and and seeing it’s impact on your life.

For others it may help you better understand what other people are going through and how we might point them in the right direction.

And for all of us - it will help us better navigate any future traumas that might occur.

Aaron ends with some practical advice for those that are struggling that you don’t want to miss - so make sure you don’t miss that. 

I hope you enjoy my conversation with Aaron Ashworth.

Have you ever thought about the legacy you come from and the legacy you will leave? 

Now, I’m not talking about the financial legacy you come from or the generational impacts of your hard work. I’m talking about your spiritual legacy.  

How did your relatives shape and mold your faith? And even more importantly - how will your faith shape the generations that come behind you?

Today on the podcast we are talking to my good friend Robert West.

Robert is a father of 6 who has a different story than most.  After having 2 biological children, he and his wife have taken in 4 teenagers over the past 7 years. Opening up their home to kids who needed a loving family. 

Not only that - he is a thriving youth leader who is growing in leadership at his church and making a tangible difference in the lives of all the teenagers he is around.

But when asked why he took on this way of life - his first thought was to look back.

To look back to the parents, and grandparents that came before him. To be reminded that there is a legacy being lived out by his family who were followers of Jesus. 

And I found that his story allows each of us to reflect on the legacy we are a part of. 

Some of us come from a line of Jesus followers - others don’t.

But no matter who came before us, we each get a chance to continue or start a legacy of people who love Jesus and turn their lives upside down to bring him honor. 

So through this conversation, my hope is that you consider where you come from. For some, it’s praising God for the Christian heritage that was passed on to you. For others, it will be praising God, for bringing you out of a godless family dynamic. 

In either case - my hope is that it spurs us to consider what legacy we are leaving others behind us.

I hope you enjoy my conversation with Robert West