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Have you ever lashed out at your child and wondered "Where did that come from? Why am I so triggered?"

Spoiler for this episode, it's your childhood... and the reason we do this is because most of us are totally unaware of this unwanted inheritance.

Jon is joined by Dr. Shefali, the pioneer of conscious parenting, who shares her insights on how our childhood experiences shape our parenting styles. Together, they delve into the concept of the subconscious contract between parent and child, exploring how implicit memories and unresolved issues from our past often resurface in moments of stress.

Dr. Shefali emphasizes the importance of mindfulness and healing in parenting, offering practical advice on how parents can break free from harmful patterns and create a healthier environment for their children.

The conversation touches on spirituality, neuroscience, and the essential role of self-awareness in raising emotionally healthy kids.

Timestamps:

• 0:00 - A Saturday morning meltdown: Jon’s story of losing his cool
• 2:43 - Introduction to Dr. Shefali and the concept of conscious parenting
• 7:57 - The power of implicit memories: How the past shapes our reactions
• 13:53 - The subconscious contract: Understanding toxic parenting dynamics
• 22:19 - Practical steps for conscious parenting and breaking the cycle

Resources Mentioned:

• The Conscious Parent
• The Parenting Map
• Dr. Shefali's Podcast

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Episode Title: How To Get Your Toddler to LISTEN!

Episode Number: #29

Host: Jon @wholeparent

Timestamps:

• 0:00 - Introduction and Setting the Scene
• 0:38 - The Frustration of Kids who WON'T LISTEN!
• 2:40 - Why Toddlers Have Selective Hearing
• 7:17 - Understanding Toddler Development and Autonomy
• 16:18 - Effective Communication with Toddlers
• 22:24 - Tips for Improving Toddler Listening Skills
• 33:50 - Closing Thoughts and Call to Action

Key Takeaways:

• Toddlers often exhibit selective hearing due to their developmental stage of seeking autonomy.
• Consistent routines are crucial in helping toddlers feel secure and understand expectations.
• Effective communication with toddlers involves giving clear, positive instructions and allowing time for them to process.
• Saying "yes" as often as possible can foster a more cooperative relationship with your child.

Resources Mentioned:

• PDF on Autonomy-Seeking Activities for Toddlers
• How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

What episode should you listen to next?

• Episode #22: Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids
• Episode #1: How to Stop Yelling at Your Kids

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Struggling with bedtime battles? Discover an incredible bedtime hack that transforms chaos into connection, making bedtime one of the best parts of your day.

Episode Number: #28

Description: In this episode of the Whole Parent Podcast, Jon delves into the challenges of bedtime routines and reveals a transformative hack to turn bedtime battles into moments of deep connection with your child. He discusses the reasons behind kids' resistance to bedtime and shares a practical, brain-based technique that not only helps kids fall asleep faster but also strengthens the parent-child bond.

Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction And Importance Of Bedtime
02:04 - Personal Anecdotes About Bedtime Chaos And Routines
04:56 - Common Bedtime Resistance Issues And Practical Solutions
06:31 - The Bedtime Story Hack Explained
18:21 - Practical Steps For Implementing The Bedtime Story Hack
26:12 - The Importance Of Sleep For Children's Development
35:28 - Closing Remarks And Call To Action

Key Takeaways:

• The Bedtime Story Hack:
  • Tell your child the story of their day in a calm, soothing voice to help them transition to sleep.
  • Engage their memory and language centers to regulate their emotional state.
  • Consistently use this technique to turn bedtime into a positive, connecting experience.
• Why Kids Resist Bedtime:
  • Novelty and learning: Kids resist sleep because they are constantly learning and don't want to stop.
  • Routine and regulation: Maintaining a consistent bedtime routine helps prevent resistance.
  • Hormonal factors: Avoiding overtiredness and managing cortisol levels is key.
• Benefits of Sleep:
  • Essential for physical, mental, and emotional development.
  • Improves memory, emotional regulation, and overall health.
  • Creates opportunities for deep attachment and bonding with your child.

Links to Resources Mentioned:

• The Highly Sensitive Child by Elaine Aron
• Kinetic Sand

What episode should you listen to next?

• Effective Discipline Without Punishment
• Understanding Your Child's Brain

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