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  • Accountability
    2025/05/09

    🎧 ACCOUNTABILITY: Are We Using This Word All Wrong? | The Wrong Words Podcast
    “You need to be more accountable.”
    But… do we really know what that means?

    In this full-length episode of The Wrong Words Podcast, hosts Oliver Marcelle and Luvon Dungee tackle one of the most overused, misapplied, and misunderstood words in our personal and professional lives: Accountability.

    Whether it’s relationships, leadership, or self-development, accountability gets thrown around like a cure-all. But what if we’ve been using it all wrong? What if we’ve turned it into a weapon instead of a standard?

    🧠 In this episode, we explore:

    Why accountability is more than just saying “I’m sorry”

    How we’ve made accountability one-dimensional—and why that’s dangerous

    What it means to be accountable to yourself (and why most people aren’t)

    How unresolved past “accounts” show up in new relationships

    Why your ability matters just as much as what’s in your account

    📚 We break down:

    Definitions from Dictionary.com, Merriam-Webster, and Oxford English

    Etymology from Old French, Latin, Hebrew, Greek, and Aramaic

    Scriptural framing from Proverbs 27:17: “As iron sharpens iron…”

    The deeper truth: Accountability isn’t punishment—it’s a proactive standard

    💥 Powerful moments include:

    The difference between being accountable and being responsible

    Luvon’s bold insight: “You give people the right to treat you how you treat yourself”

    The “third thing” principle that changes how we navigate disagreement

    The financial metaphor that redefines how we look at emotional investments

    👥 What You’ll Walk Away With:

    Clarity on what accountability actually means—beyond blame and shame

    Insight into how you’ve weaponized or watered down the word

    A renewed standard for how you show up in your relationships and commitments

    A challenge to become someone who is your word

    📊 POLL QUESTION:
    What’s the hardest part of staying accountable?
    A) Being consistent
    B) Being honest with myself
    C) Asking for help
    D) Owning my mess without deflecting

    Tell us in the comments 👇

    📲 Join the Community:
    ✅ Subscribe to The Wrong Words Podcast
    ✅ Follow us on TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube
    ✅ Like, Comment & Share to grow this word-shifting movement

    🧩 Wrong words create wrong conversations. Let’s get this one right.
    #WrongWordsPodcast #Accountability #EmotionalIntegrity #SelfDevelopment #GrowthMindset #WordsMatter #IronSharpensIron

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    51 分
  • Friendship - Part 2
    2025/05/02

    🎧 FRIENDSHIP (Part 2): The Hidden Truth About What It Really Takes

    Episode Title: “The Truth About Friendship – Part 2” – The Wrong Words Podcast

    We thought Part 1 unpacked a lot… but Part 2 of our deep dive into "friendship"? This one cuts even deeper.

    In this follow-up episode, Oliver Marcelle and Luvon Dungee revisit the word friendship—not just from a cultural or social standpoint, but from a deeply personal, introspective lens. This isn’t just about how we define friendship with others... it's about how we’ve defined it with ourselves.

    From the Aramaic root meaning “study partnership” to Proverbs 17:17—“A friend loves at all times”—this episode pushes past the surface and into what true, sustainable friendship actually looks like.

    🧠 What You’ll Take From This Episode:

    • Why many friendships are transactional, not transformational

    • What a work friend really is—and why the word friend may not apply

    • How your lack of self-friendship could be blocking you from building healthy relationships

    • The difference between being familiar with someone and being a true friend

    • Why we assign the title “friend” too quickly—without evidence to back it up

    📚 We expand on:

    • Greek, Hebrew, Aramaic, and Old English roots of the word “friend”

    • How corporate friendships are often seasonal and conditional

    • The ten types of friendships—and why understanding them matters

    • A raw discussion on being loyal to yourself first before demanding it from others

    💥 Notable Moments Include:

    • The corporate “friend” story that left Oliver questioning if connection was ever real

    • Luvon’s transparent reflection: “I don’t even know if I’ve ever really been my own friend.”

    • The restaurant analogy that reframes friendship as service and preparation

    • A tough question: Can friendship be one-sided—and if so, for how long?

    📣 This episode is for you if:

    • You’ve outgrown some friendships but feel guilty

    • You’re trying to understand why certain relationships feel empty

    • You want to build friendships rooted in loyalty, growth, and mutual peace

    🗣️ Join the Conversation:
    Is your idea of friendship rooted in service, sacrifice, or shared space? Let us know on TikTok, YouTube, or wherever you engage with us.

    📲 Support the Movement:
    ✅ Subscribe to The Wrong Words Podcast
    ✅ Follow us on social media
    ✅ Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it
    ✅ Rate & review to help expand our community


    🧩 Wrong words create wrong conversations. Let’s get this one right.
    #WrongWordsPodcast #Friendship #Loyalty #SelfAwareness #EmotionalIntelligence #PodcastClip #WordPower


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    38 分
  • Friendship - Part 1
    2025/04/25

    Friendship: Are We Getting It All Wrong? | Wrong Words Podcast

    In this new episode of the Wrong Words Podcast, hosts Oliver Marcelle and Luvon Dungee dive headfirst into a word that we use constantly—but often without really understanding its depth: Friendship.

    Coming off the heels of our deep two-part conversation on Love, we realized quickly that Friendship deserves just as much careful attention. If you haven't yet listened to the Love episodes, we encourage you to go back first—it’ll set the perfect foundation for what we uncover today.

    In this conversation, we start with simple questions:

    • What does it really mean to be a friend?

    • How does the word friendship differ from love?

    • Are we using the word friend way too loosely?

    • Does true friendship actually begin within us first?

    And trust us—once you hear the roots of this word, you'll start questioning everything you thought you knew.

    🧠 In this episode, you’ll discover:

    • Why true friendship starts with self-friendship

    • How most of us confuse mutual benefit with mutual affection

    • Why “friend” isn’t just someone you share activities with

    • How social media has completely distorted what it means to be "friends"

    • The impact of loyalty, care, and companionship on real friendships

    • What ancient Hebrew, Greek, and Old English reveal about the true essence of the word friend

    • The often unseen connection between friendship and love—and why skipping friendship leads to unhealthy love

    📖 We also break down:

    • Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, and Oxford definitions of friendship (spoiler: they’re way too loose)

    • The Old English root freondscipe and Proto-Germanic word frijōnd meaning “one who loves”

    • The Indo-European root pri- meaning “to love, to care”

    • Biblical insights like “a friend sticks closer than a brother” and “he who has friends must first show himself friendly”

    • Why loyalty to ourselves is the foundation for any real external friendship

    🎯 This episode will challenge you to think about:

    • How you define your friendships today

    • Whether you're actually being a friend—or just benefitting from others

    • How we misuse the word "friend" and what that reveals about us

    • How being intentional with our words can heal, grow, or protect the relationships that matter most

    This is not a lecture. It's an invitation to reflect, rethink, and reframe how we move through life—and relationships—with more purpose.

    💬 Join the conversation:
    Who in your life truly fits the definition of a friend?
    How has learning the origins of this word changed your view of the friendships you have—or thought you had?

    We want to hear from you. Share your thoughts in the comments, DM us, or drop a review!

    📲 Don’t forget to:
    ✅ Subscribe to the podcast
    ✅ Like and share this episode
    ✅ Follow us on social media @WrongWordsPodcast
    ✅ Subscribe to our YouTube channel for full video episodes

    🧩 Wrong words create wrong conversations. Let's choose—and live—better words, together.

    #WrongWordsPodcast #Friendship #TrueFriendship #SelfLove #WordPower #RelationshipsMatter #EmotionalIntelligence #PodcastForThinkers


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    35 分
  • LOVE - Part 2
    2025/04/18

    "Love Doesn’t Sit Still — It Moves."
    In Part Two of this honest and unfiltered exploration of the word love, Oliver Marcelle and Luvon Dungee pick up right where they left off—diving even deeper into one of the most misunderstood, misused, and mishandled words in our vocabulary.

    If Part One challenged your perception of love, Part Two will have you reconstructing it from the ground up.

    This episode explores what it truly means to love as a verb—how love moves, shows up, and sustains, even when the feelings fade. From parenthood and fear, to romantic confusion, to the dangers of obsession and emotional dependency, Oliver and Luvon examine the right and wrong uses of love and why so many of us have been getting it wrong for so long.

    They reflect on how love is too often a catch-all—a word we slap on top of emotions like lust, infatuation, admiration, or even control. And once again, they peel back the layers by digging into the origins, cultural misuses, and scriptural context of the word. But this time, they go even further—introducing listeners to the different types of love and how those types should influence how we speak and live.

    💬 In this episode, you’ll hear:

    • Why love should be measured by movement, not emotion

    • The distinction between how love is expressed vs. how it's received

    • How self-love (or the lack of it) shapes the way we experience all other forms of love

    • The introduction of powerful Greek words like Eros, Ludus, Storge, Mania, and Philautia, and why knowing these matters

    • The dangers of mislabeling passion, euphoria, or possessiveness as "love"

    • Why many people stay in unhealthy relationships—simply because they’ve never known true love

    • And the overlooked truth that “love doesn’t keep record of wrongs”

    They also tackle the emotional exhaustion of using the word love loosely. When everything is labeled love, nothing really is.

    This episode doesn’t just redefine the word—it puts a mirror in front of the listener. It challenges you to ask hard questions:

    • Have I ever really loved at all?

    • Do I use “I love you” to describe a moment... or a movement?

    • Is peace present in the love I say I give—and receive?

    Whether you're single, married, dating, healing, parenting, or simply growing—this conversation will have you reevaluating how you say love... and how you live it.

    🧠 This isn’t just a podcast episode. It’s a class in emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and honest reflection.

    🎧 Tune in to learn:

    • Why misused love leads to misaligned relationships

    • How to recognize if you’re loving someone—or just tolerating them

    • How to rebuild the definition of love with truth, intention, and peace

    💬 As always, Oliver and Luvon are not here to tell you what to think. They’re here to spark conversation, provoke thought, and build a community that dares to speak with clarity and conviction.

    📲 Don’t forget to follow, share, and subscribe.
    💡 Join the conversation. Be part of the movement.
    🎙️ Because the wrong words... create the wrong outcomes.


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    28 分
  • LOVE - Part 1
    2025/04/18

    Love: We All Say It—But Do We Really Know What It Means?

    Welcome to Part One of one of the most necessary, soul-searching conversations we may have (we'll probably say that about every episode...LOL).

    In this episode of the Wrong Words Podcast, hosts Oliver Marcelle and Luvon Dungee jump straight into one of the most powerful and misused words in the human language: LOVE. If you think you understand the word, this episode might make you pause, rewind, and rethink everything.

    From the start, Oliver and Luvon hold nothing back as they explore how this "big little word" has been defined, misunderstood, misapplied, and misrepresented—both in society and in their own lives. They unpack the word love through the lens of dictionary definitions, etymology (Old English, Proto-Germanic, and Indo-European roots), biblical references, and raw personal experience.

    But this isn’t just an academic breakdown. It’s intimate, emotional, and disarmingly honest.

    You’ll hear:

    • Why Luvon avoided using the word for years

    • How Oliver’s cultural background shaped his early understanding of love

    • Why all three dictionary definitions barely scratch the surface

    • How self-love often goes ignored, leading to incomplete and fractured relationships

    • The difference between love as an emotion and love as a verb

    • And the gut-punch reality that many of us may have never actually loved at all

    The episode dives deep into how society has replaced love with attraction, preference, and sensation—what we “like” has somehow become what we claim to “love.” From fried chicken to romantic relationships, the guys expose how casually (and carelessly) we throw the word around.

    They also explore the spiritual and scriptural weight of love—particularly 1 Corinthians 13, where love is described as patient, kind, without envy or pride, and (brace yourself) not keeping a record of wrongs. That one hits hard—and the fellas sit in that space long enough for it to challenge not only how we love others, but how we claim to forgive, grow, and move forward.

    This episode is not about telling you what to believe. It’s about inviting you into a conversation—one that will shake loose the automatic definitions you’ve inherited and challenge you to look inward.

    🎙️ You’ll walk away from this episode with:

    • A clear understanding of how the word love has been distorted

    • Insight into how love should be defined and lived out

    • Thought-provoking questions about your own past and current use of the word

    • An invitation to reassess your emotional vocabulary—and maybe even your relationships

    Whether you’re single, married, raising kids, caring for family, or navigating relationships of any kind, this conversation is for you. Because love is everywhere. And if we don’t understand it, we risk misapplying it where it matters most.

    This is more than a podcast episode. It’s a mirror.

    If you’re ready to challenge your perspective and engage in a deeper conversation about the power of words and the meaning behind them, hit play. Then hit share.

    ✅ Subscribe to the Wrong Words Podcast
    📲 Follow us on social media
    📺 Watch the full episode on YouTube
    💬 And most importantly—join the conversation.

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    27 分
  • Wrong Words Trailer/Intro
    2025/04/18

    Welcome to the Wrong Words Podcast — where definition meets disruption.

    In this inaugural episode, hosts Oliver Marcelle and Luvon Dungee kick things off with a compelling behind-the-scenes look at how Wrong Words came to life. Born from candid conversations while on the road, this podcast is not about telling you what to think—it's about getting you to think. If you've ever wondered whether the words you use (or overuse) truly mean what you think they do… this show is for you.

    Oliver and Luvon share the vision behind the podcast: to spark reflection, challenge assumptions, and provoke growth—all by examining everyday words we tend to misuse. But this isn’t your average dictionary lesson. It’s a journey into meaning, layered with emotion, experience, culture, and context. In this opening episode, the hosts break down what to expect in future conversations:

    • Deep dives into words that shape our identities, relationships, and worldview

    • Etymological exploration (think Old English, Hebrew, Greek, and Aramaic roots)

    • Scriptural references that add dimension without pushing a doctrine

    • Honest, enriching dialogue from two men with very different paths but a shared love for truth, language, and impact

    This isn’t about religion, tradition, or opinion. It’s about understanding the power of words—and asking the uncomfortable but necessary questions:

    • Are we using words correctly?

    • Do we even need some of these words at all?

    • What happens when we tie emotion to definitions that were never meant to hold them?

    You’ll hear how words like “love”—set to be the first full episode—have taken on meanings far from their origin. The hosts preview what’s ahead: scriptural framing, root word dissection, real-life application, and a whole lot of "Wait, I never thought of it like that!" moments.

    Whether you're here for personal growth, community, curiosity, or all of the above, this episode sets the tone for a podcast that’s raw, intelligent, introspective, and refreshingly honest.

    • A clear vision for Wrong Words and how it will challenge you to rethink your daily vocabulary

    • A connection with the hosts and their authentic, thought-provoking energy

    • An invitation to engage in the conversation and become part of a growing community of thinkers

    • A preview of the first word they'll tackle in Episode 1: Love—and trust us, it's not what you think

    So go ahead—subscribe, share, and follow the journey. Join us as we ask better questions, speak with more intention, and maybe… retire a few wrong words along the way.

    🎧 What You’ll Walk Away With:

    • A clear vision for Wrong Words and how it will challenge you to rethink your daily vocabulary

    • A connection with the hosts and their authentic, thought-provoking energy

    • An invitation to engage in the conversation and become part of a growing community of thinkers

    • A preview of the first word they'll tackle in Episode 1: Love—and trust us, it's not what you think

    So go ahead—subscribe, share, and follow the journey. Join us as we ask better questions, speak with more intention, and maybe… retire a few wrong words along the way.

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    14 分