In this episode, we dive deep with Bobby, one of the driving forces behind Splash Takeovers, the multi-city lifestyle hotel takeover experience. Bobby shares his personal origin story and how he found his way into the lifestyle, giving us a behind-the-scenes look at his journey from attendee to organizer.

We also explore the wide range of Splash events held throughout the year in cities across the country—and get an exciting preview of new events on the horizon. Bobby talks candidly about what he’s observed in the lifestyle over the years, from shifting dynamics to evolving community norms, and sprinkles in some hilarious and heartwarming stories along the way.

Whether you’re a seasoned vet or just curious about dipping your toes in, this episode offers a fun and entertaining peek into one of the best hotel takeovers in the scene.

LINKS:

Three Shades Of Grey | Website

Splash Takeovers

EROTICON 2026 | August 6-9, 2026

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In this episode of Pinky and Ava’s Pajama Party, we welcome back relationship coach Elizabeth Cunningham for a deep and juicy conversation about eroticism and pleasure.

Elizabeth reminds us that eroticism isn’t just about sex — it’s about the full range of aliveness, desire, and connection in our lives.

Together, they explore how to tap into your wants and needs, whether in polyamory, sexually, or in other parts of your relationships. Plus, Elizabeth, Pinky, and Ava offer practical ideas for asking for (and getting!) what you want.

If you’ve ever struggled to express your desires or felt unsure about navigating pleasure with multiple partners, this one’s for you!

LINKS:

Three Shades Of Grey | Website

Elizabeth Ann Cunningham | Website

Miss Jay | Erotic Blueprints

How To Have Difficult Convos | Website

Ro Moed | Writer & Relationship Coach

What happens when a triad and a quad walk into a podcast? You get one unforgettable conversation full of laughs, insight, and lifestyle realness.

In this episode of Three Shades Deeper, we sit down with two incredible couples in the non-monogamy space—Swinky Life and The Accidental Swingers—to explore what it really means to be polyamorous.

From love and labels to communication, compatibility, and the beautiful messiness of human connection, this is the kind of episode that goes way beyond the surface. We talk about: • Navigating poly dynamics as couples and groups
• Dealing with jealousy, growth, and unexpected feelings
• How each couple defines “poly” in their own lives
• The power of community and authentic connection

Whether you’re new to polyamory or living the life out loud, this episode is full of real talk, hard truths, and hilarious moments you won’t want to miss.

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