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We always get questions about why Alexa stayed in the marriage, and we would like to discuss some of those answers.
Believe it or not, because of the guilt, shame, and hopelessness that the husband feels/ experiences, it is sometimes easier for him to flee from the marriage instead of wanting to grow closer to God and stay.
There is always the question of whether God is calling you to stay in the marriage or not. Why Did you stay?!

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What happens when addiction and betrayal threaten the foundation of a marriage? Discover how Alexa and I confronted our hidden struggles and found healing through faith. We share Alexa's powerful journey from a tumultuous upbringing in Chicago and Las Vegas to her steadfast determination to follow Jesus. Her experiences as a single mother and student at Ball State University, and her move to Las Vegas, set the stage for a transformative chapter in her life.

Join us as we recount our battles with addiction and the deep impact it had on our relationship. I open up about my struggles with pornography and sex addiction, and how these issues didn't magically disappear after marriage. Alexa and I emphasize the importance of addressing underlying problems before committing to a lifelong partnership. We discuss the misconceptions around marriage solving deep-rooted issues and share the significance of honesty, community support, and a strong relationship with Christ in overcoming addiction to build a trusting relationship.

From the raw emotional turmoil of uncovering hidden pornography to the pivotal moments of transparency and prayer that marked our path to recovery, our story is both heart-wrenching and inspiring. We share our experiences of establishing healthy boundaries, leaning on faith and community support, enduring relapse, and making significant lifestyle changes to support our well-being and spiritual growth. Our journey illustrates that true change requires ongoing faith and dedication, offering insight and encouragement to those facing similar challenges in their marriages.